Fintwituni

As a man, repressing your femininity does not make you strong. It makes you unconscious. You are afraid of a part of yourself, what could be less masculine than that?

Women are fun by nature. If she’s tense, defensive, stressed, or struggling to relax, it’s because she doesn’t feel safe in some areas of her life or with you. A relaxed woman's energy is intensely playful, passionate, open, full of energy, whimsy and vitality

Behind every pretty wife is a husband who protects her cortisol from spiking.

Love and death change all things because love is the death of the ego in service of the soul - so even love is a type of death - the most beautiful death of them all.

Romantic conquest otherwise known as spiritual penetration is the act of voluntary surrender induced by a deep and intimately accurate understanding of the soul. This is truly what it is "to be seen", and it is to this which the heart yields vigorously.

The innocent heart is beautiful because it does not know suffering, but the pure heart is beautiful because it stayed good even when it did.

When they fail to see the beauty in you that you recognise within yourself, you reject them for their blindness, but when they show you the beauty within you that you were blind to - you fall in love with them.

@ThinkInPeach Why is self expression ugly? Self expression is a desirable trait

"Tattoos on women are a red flag" misses the point. Can they signal mental instability? Yes. Can they just be self-expression? Yes. Either way they're ugly.

“In sickness or in health. For rich or for poor. For better for worse. Till death do you part.” This literally means you will love the person despite what they can give you. You will of course want to give the best to the one you marry. But despite all that, you love them for their company. For the essence of who they are. That’s primary. Because when everything is ripped away, that’s all that’s left.

It saddens me how many people just don’t understand that love means loving the person first. Such that no matter what they can or cannot provide, you still love them. That’s even in the Catholic marriage vows by the way.

The man a woman instinctively runs to when she is upset, scared, or lost - when she needs relief, grounding, or orientation - is usually the man whom she feels true safety, attunement, and containment with. His presence makes her feel regulated, there is deep trust and an inherent reverence for his demonstrated competence. This is the man she respects because he already holds psychological, spiritual, emotional, and somatic authority within her psyche, within her soul - it is often just at a subconscious level.

In outlier love, there's a type of mutual pouring where the man pours himself into his woman and the woman pours herself into her man until they serve as catalysts for each other's becoming Both become greater than they could alone by serving the other You are your muse's muse.

A man is only as mature as the Feminine energy he chooses to pursue. A Knight chases Princesses, but an Emperor is on a quest to find his Empress to build his empire with.

Desperate feminine energy attracts immature men. Secure, confident feminine energy attracts mature men.

A confident, secure man will choose a woman who takes him a little bit out of his comfort zone but who is leading him towards his highest destiny. This is the only type of man who can appreciate a Divine Woman.

The higher your frequency is, the harder it is for most people to see and appreciate you. You vibrate above their perception of reality.

Being genuinely funny and charismatic is so refreshing that even your enemies discard their morals to enjoy you

In his book “Beauty in the Light of Redemption,” Dietrich von Hildebrand explains that the purpose of beauty is not to satisfy the appetite of the senses but rather to orient one’s spirit toward the morals and ideas that lead us to God. Though they are our senses that perceive a beautiful piece of music or illustration, it is not our senses that find them pleasurable, but rather our spirits that find them exalting.

The child that is not exposed to beauty will not get a nutrient deficiency on her blood test or miss out on being able to spell or count properly, but she’ll miss something arguably far more important, which is a guiding telos by which the energy of her life can be properly directed.

…and a childhood full of true beauty in his environment and his media provide the tools to continually orient oneself back to these truths especially when the intellect can so easily turn against the spirit, especially strong intellects.