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@tobilisic

sabi boy • living • product design • seit 92

🇩🇪 Sumali Ekim 2010
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Zabby ♡
Zabby ♡@Africanzabby·
when love visits again may it be safe, secure & reassuring
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big fish.
big fish.@fatherrwethu·
I have zero problems having a hard conversation. I wish people weren’t so scared of their feelings that it made them go out of their way to avoid ways of dealing with them, and healthily.
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🇬🇧@The_babyyyyy·
becoming a part of someone’s life is actually a pretty big deal. i really wish we were more careful
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yimika|
yimika|@yimikaaaa·
I love seeing people happy and doing well. Life is meant to be lived, not just survived.
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Vivian
Vivian@suchnerve·
Manliness as conceptualized within patriarchy is less about what one is, and more about what one is not - i.e. not feminine. To resemble a woman is seen as shameful. Patriarchal men define themselves through absence, then wonder why they feel hollow.
Jesse Komm@JesseKomm

@suchnerve Men will act like sitting to pee is an emasculating experience, and then do it every single day when they have to poo. The patriarchy does terrible things to a mind.

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le.hl
le.hl@0xleegenz·
Walking alone through a foreign city at night and realizing how far you’ve come has to be a top 3 peak moment of all time
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Kiki Mordi
Kiki Mordi@kikimordi·
In one weekend they used an important woman in black history to insult Coco Gauff for wearing the hair that grows out of her own hair. They also saw a black woman who loved her moisturised and good looking feet the way they were and projected their self hatred on her…
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Ous'Bongie
Ous'Bongie@BongiWaAtchar·
Patriarchy doesn’t stop at the front door. It follows women home into how they look, speak and move, how they keep the house, and show up emotionally. There’s still an expectation to be pleasant, attractive, accommodating, and “on,” even in your own space. And that’s the difference. A lot of men get to come home and just exist. Women are still expected to be something.
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Ous'Bongie
Ous'Bongie@BongiWaAtchar·
I think a lot of women struggle mentally when they live with a man because home stops feeling like a place to relax. Instead of being a space where you can fully be yourself, it becomes another place where you still have to “perform” and be put together all the time. There’s no break, no space to just be messy, tired, or off.
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yimika|
yimika|@yimikaaaa·
Take a lot of pictures. It doesn’t matter if you share them or not. Just take pictures.
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tobi
tobi@tobilisic·
35 minutes of penetrative sex??? 35 minutes??? as in 35 minutes???
De Liberty@Mikeliberation

My wife still masturbates after 35 minutes of penetrative s£x. My co-worker told me last week that he’s getting tired of his marriage because he finds his wife difficult to satisfy s£xually. After f0replay and about 35 minutes of penetration, she lies beside him and still masturbates. He said he’s not really bothered about the act itself, but about how long she takes. According to him, she continues for about 20 minutes even after they’ve had s£x. I asked if they ever discussed s£x while they were dating, and he said that anytime he brought it up, she would ignore it and say it was a worldly matter. But now that they’re married, he’s seeing a completely different side of her. I told him not to consider divorce because of this—that he might just need to put in more effort in the bedroom. But another colleague overheard us and said if it were him, he wouldn’t tolerate it at all. Now it got me thinking, is this really a problem—or just a lack of understanding between two people who never had the right conversations before marriage?

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gbemisoke
gbemisoke@Gbemisoke·
You want to have conversations about the shared cognitive load with someone who thinks providing means putting money down? Or who thinks they're "helping". Lol best of luck to you
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tobi@tobilisic·
the thing is i don’t want to debate these issues anymore, especially with people who have refused to see the lived experiences of others.
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Sehrishhh
Sehrishhh@drbigbrowneyes·
Hate to break it to you, but any friendship/relationship where the other person has unconditional access to you and they're only accessible to you when they choose to be, is not healthy no matter what it seems like. You're just too giving and selfless to see it but that's toxic.
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نوره
نوره@onlywithn·
wasn’t friendship a miracle on its own? finding someone who softens the loneliness of the entire world just by existing
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