Vivian

I just have so much to say

@Awokeial 😉

Just infodumped about a ton of FFXIV's main story in a beautiful woman's DMs am cooked or am I cooked

People act like a gay son is a dead end in the family tree, as if the whole point of trees isn’t to bear fruit

@HexPositive If you buy an ozone bubbler and you get ahold of a clean bucket big enough to submerge your lettuce, you can leave the bucket outside with the ozone bubbler running for awhile, and it’ll kill any parasites. @NukitToBeSure has been tweeting about the technique.

I miss lettuce. Fuck @DOGE fr

being someone’s friend for 5+ years feels so good i love my long term relationships

@_hxneyglow Glossy and healthy and gorgeous!

hiii i got my hair cut and i dyed it dark :)

@MargBarAmerica Put those dates on a sundae, call it a Calendar

Good time to not be a fresh produce guy. All I eat are dates, way more nutritious than a bowl of iceberg lettuce. I shit like a God. Some of you could learn.

this fandom is a prison

Autistic hottie plz make more friends who are truly not attracted to you in the slightest… it will be so healing for you, even though you’ll be scared the entire time that they’re gonna abandon you the moment you show any symptoms at all

Autistic hotties will keep a roster not because of objectifying people but rather because of having learned through consistent experience that the most reliable way to get people to tolerate your symptoms and not abandon you is if they’re attracted to you

@suchnerve if the thing you’re calling “accountability” is jeering, angry, or gleeful then you are probably just excited to hurt someone through collective harassment and you can still think of yourself as the good guy because they totally deserve it! we did it reddit 🥰

@Fuitad It would mostly just go like “So you know how everyone has private parts, right? Well grown-ups sometimes use their private parts together to make each other feel good. It’s very important you understand that nobody should be trying to touch yours, because that’s inappropriate.”

@suchnerve You’d be an incredible mom. Would love to be a fly on the wall when you give the birds and bees talk.

I’d probably be such a good mom if not for the whole affordability and disability things 🫠

Assuming the wrongdoer complies, and we are reasonably sure they do so for the right reasons, what should we do in response? Should they just be left alone to go find a place somewhere else, or reintegrated into the group - and if so, in what new role? How are the power dynamics?

Which consequences can be reasonably blamed on the wrongdoer? What can this person realistically do to reduce the damage they caused? Why do we consider it reasonable to expect those steps from them? Are they responding cooperatively? Adversarially? Self-disrespectfully?

“Accountability” being used synonymously with “punishment” is a great example of why so many of y’all’s activism doesn’t work. It’s because for many of you, you aren’t out to make things better; you’re out to continue the cycle, because you feel entitled to putting others down.

@adamtotscomix HELL YEAH!!

@suchnerve Hell yeah

Men will be like “Check out this cool stick I found”

@Shadowchild2089 Nothing! It’s a good stick.

@suchnerve What's wrong with a good stick.

@cartiercultured Nah most radfems talk a big game about hating men, yet use their political influence in ways that oh so conveniently just so happen to align with patriarchal agendas like curtailing bodily autonomy and rolling back gay rights and propelling fascists into power

@suchnerve This kind of just a radfem? Not super super familiar with "bird" as a pejorative term, I thought it just was a rude slang term for women

We need a term for the opposite of a “bird.” A woman who does pick-me behavior in response to other women giving men any kindness or benefit of the doubt whatsoever, as if the inversion of the norm cancels out the fact it’s just another form of pointless infighting about dudes