Been saying. Best piece of literature I've read this year. I'd burn this book and swallow the ashes if that means I could memorize every word of it, honestly.
@lovinglylex Mmm nothing too heavy kalo menurut aku. Mostly yang agak triggering tuh severe homophobia, manipulation (parents to children), and cheating. Bacaaaaaa please bagus banget it's worth every pain! 🥲
Guys, if you’ve gone no contact with someone and then, on a random day, you suddenly miss them and want to talk again… would you reach out first? Or would you just stay quiet and miss them from a distance? 🤧 -rl
@munvess What is ‘no contact’ lol.
For me when I want to send text I would text them. But if we agree we won’t talk until sometimes in the future, then I’ll swallow them all inside my throat. I wouldn’t miss someone who doesn’t miss me too.
Second best one (with as much #YEARNING as Sunburn) goes to The Safekeep. Was in a healthy relationship when I read that one but I still wanted to rip myself open as the aftermath. No one does yearning and all-consuming love like the lesbians, really.
🪵 Info kegiatan life after breakup buat budak korporat dong, Warga. Selain lanjut studi dan terima info lembur, soalnya udah berjalan.
Apa daftar member gym ya?
@munvess If you're sure that they would react in a way that you expected, though, then go ahead and reach out first. It's not a wrong move as long as you know how to handle the aftermath of reaching out! ;)
@munvess As much as I want to reach out first, I wouldn't. Last time I broke no contact, I was left disappointed by her ice cold response and it made me feel shitty and angry. So I'd rather be missing them from a distance while constantly writing on my journal about how much I miss her.
@Unromanticsm Exactly. Nambah populasi juga kagak, ganggu orang lain kagak, all we do is love yet we keep being treated like a plague here. Gila banget bener-bener ngga ada alasan menjadi optimis sama sekali di negeri ini.