Brave Fathers

If your wife cheats on you, what should you do and why?

@thechosenberg Is there a question in there? He is going to marry her. Then he will become Red Pill when she dumps him and takes all that she can from him. What else is there?

How do you even explain it to the kids when their older why you’re divorced

Right, so you acknowledge they happened. First of all, you specifically are not to blame. You don’t have the means, or ability to commit or command those atrocities even if you wanted to. So in that regard, you are just as powerless as the average Black male. Then, the issue here is not that of blame. It’s the effect those things have on people. The negative effects last for a long time. Now, you mention Christian values. What Christian values are you referring to and please show how those are Christian values?

@BraveFathers @alx Did you not read my comment? I replied "Why are they wrong", can you not see how that implies I acknowledge it happened. Are you even following the argument or are you that triggered that your worldview is being challenged?

Big Balls: “White men in particular have been completely villainized in society… and our older generations have kind of just let it happen.”

@gogmork @alx The question was, are you saying they didn’t happen? Let’s do one thing at a time.

@BraveFathers @alx Why are they wrong? Serious question, please rationalize why it's wrong without bringing up Christian morals. Second, this kind of generalization can be done to minorities. If some black people show bad behavior, then they are all at fault, right?

A White person can’t understand what it’s like to have their children mocked and called monkeys, n—**rs, and go back to Africa and no be able to do anything about it. Another thing is, going to a restaurant and not getting served just because of your colour. Yes, that still happens today. Or people refusing to serve you in shops because of your colour. Again, that happens still. Knowing that family that’s still living was born without the right to be sovereign. Or having parents living under colonial rule and apartheid. There is more but those things affect you more than you realize. When people look at you and straight away dismiss you because of your skin colour. There is a lot of unjust discrimination that is just regular life for many non-Whites.

@BraveFathers @alx Please explain the things they have to fight that white people wouldn’t understand. This is sounding absolutely ridiculous and racist.

@gogmork @alx So I am to understand that apartheid, colonisation, segregation, taking over of land, and chattel slavery did not happen?

@BraveFathers @alx You point at how minorities were abused in the past, which is the status quo. I'm saying that is largely part of the subversion. First, to even claim that is "wrong" is Christian, so it only makes sense under a Christian framework. Second it's exaggerated anyway.

@WomenBeingAwful I would not abandon the child but I would divorce her still.

@gogmork @alx I don’t see how your statements relate to my comment. Please clarify.

@BraveFathers @alx Where does this obligation to treat others equally come from? ONLY Christianity, and if you go that route you HAVE to also demand society be Christian. We have one without the other, and so society got subverted and now we have degenerate cult-like pseudo-empathy

You are correct. You are only responsible for your own actions and to a degree, those of your children. The point is acknowledge the reality. Don’t pretend it didn’t happen. Have some compassion. Now, you are free to do otherwise. But then, understand that you’d be dishonest. And dishonesty has a way of affecting your life.

@BraveFathers @alx I'm not responsible for the crap my parents did. I'm only responsible for my own efforts and actions as well as some level of my young childrens actions.

Exactly, people underestimate the impact of the background. Most of us didn’t even earn what our foundation is - it was built on the backs of others. But then, when you have generations deprived of humanity, you can’t just wave that away because you gave people rights. And even that thought - who are you to give rights or take them away from a whole class of people? It’s easy to pretend nothing happened when a lot of the damage is intangible or quantifiable but still real.

@ICallahan1966 @mrshawnff @BraveFathers @alx We made it as hard as we could and it's still hard. The wealth of white families makes mobility much easier for us in comparison. We got a 400 year head start. Just because they were finally granted civil rights doesn't mean all the consequences immediately disappear

The Whites who went out to plunder the world, and then instituted chattel slavery, colonisation, murder of innocent men, women, and children. And these Whites did it for their own benefit. And then all the Whites who supported and facilitated those atrocities. To be clear, at the end of the day, the skin colour is essentially an identifier. So the reason why White people get more benefit from the evil doing is because the people who run it know that that person is more likely to be on their team. (That’s outside of racist views.) Hence the discriminatory policies. When it comes to acknowledgement, I am referring to the majority of White people who pretend the so-called minorities have not been disadvantaged. That’s one step towards changing the situation. DEI won’t solve it because, yes, meritocracy is a big part of the picture - albeit not the whole picture. In the end, I believe in capitalism as the most effective economic mechanism we have today. For capitalism to work, people need capital. Not just money, but also knowledge, skills, energy, emotional wherewithal, and other necessary factors need to execute useful and profitable ideas. At the same time, you need to understand that people don’t have the same mental and even intellectual start because of the past. So they can’t participate. Sure, some realize, “hey, I am at a disadvantage here. How do I get out?” And they tend to build themselves up. But overall, they have to fight things most White people can’t even understand. And to be fair, I am not saying that White racism is the only cause of the problems. Many problems are internal, from within the communities. I am just referring to the friction between the races.

@BraveFathers @alx What “whites” are you specifically referring to?

The reason why they get blamed is because they and their families refuse to acknowledge what happened and what still happens. I am not even saying they are to blame for the past, because clearly they are not. I do not support them being blamed. But the lack of acknowledgement is the issue. You take a lot of things for granted that minorities don’t have access to. Again, it’s not the young Whites fault but you have to look beyond your personal experience to understand.

@BraveFathers @JohnBogleyDC @alx Are you really this tone deaf? Did it ever dawn on you that younger white peole are just tired of having all of the world’s ills blamed on them? Has it occurred to you that this thinking is in response to the BS that was fed to them during school?

@Fe0msq @cavepaleo It’s natural in the sense that a male who is emotionally immature would naturally feel that. I am not worried about such things because there is nothing to worry about. If it were to happen, I will deal with it as I see fit - but I don’t feel any insecurity about it.

@BraveFathers @cavepaleo Insecurity about weather an offspring is yours is completely natural. If you’re not worried about that, then I would argue something is wrong with such a person.

Virginity is the most important quality in a woman. For the entire human history and in almost every civilization, all religions, they all knew and told us. You hear men cope: “There are no virgins anymore bro” “If they say they are, they are lying” “Ok if they’re not lying then they have to be UGLY” “Ok if they’re not ugly then they have to have XYZ problem” … Said by people who don’t have a virgin gf. Don’t listen to them. There are 125M girls who turn 18 EVERY YEAR. 50% are virgin. You cannot understand the difference between a non-virgin and a virgin love, until you experience it. A lot of virgins (due to lack of judgment, lack of religion, or modern men) have a bad first experience - some chad who pump & dumps her, some broke skinny gamer boy, etc - do NOT be their savior. It’s like trying to remove a tattoo from the skin - the scar & chemical residues will always remain. Instead, find a virgin. Secure your spot. Turn her into your perfect woman. Tell her what to do and what she can’t do, set rules and follow through, like a man. Protect her from outside forces & influences. (Other men). Don’t let her “work” for other men. And have an amazing relationship like all the pre-1920 marriages. (Where the woman truly loves the man and he is in charge.)

If humans were purely logical creatures, and moved like robots, you would be correct. And any individual, Black, White, and other must apply that mindset to himself if he is to succeed. The reality is that, many people are still affected on a deep level. Think about it this way. If you found out a Black slave owner pissed on your great, great, great, great, grandmother’s face and then gave her a $1000, would you say, sure, it means nothing?

@BraveFathers @alx Key word here is “did”. Those days are over and have been for decades. There is zero reason for minorities now to be able to get the jobs and the life they want, as long as they do the work that’s necessary. The problem now is that those minorities use this as an excuse.

Obama did not prove anything. He was one Black man albeit one of the best politicians of our time. I put him in the top three with Trump and Mumdani. But still, him being president of the US did not change much although it did have a positive effect on the mindsets. But I will concede that there has been a lot of progress since slavery ended - so Obama is evidence of that progress. In the context of this conversation, I am not including the Irish who were often seen as less valuable than Black. According to some accounts, the Irish were used for more destructive jobs becuase it was cheaper to pay them than to use Black slaves who were more expensive to replace. I am also not including the poor White Southerners, although many hold racist views. The reason why I don’t include them is that the Whites in power pitted them against the Blacks. These Southerners, often reffered to as hillbillies, were at an economic disadvantage because while they were willing to work, the slaves were viewed as more profitable. Thus, many had to work for the powerful Whites and hunt down slaves, etc. but did not know how to secure a good enough income during the period. And, to be fair, I am not including you. It appears that, as compared to an average Black man, you don’t have any advantages.

@BraveFathers @alx Fine, I don’t believe those effects are valid anymore. Obama proved that point. Curious about your answer to my question…

@exastrissci @Gadget440 Thank you, that’s kind of you to say.

@BraveFathers @Gadget440 Most real men don't know Justin exists.😂 Justin is an incel gaylord who found a mid woman with low self-esteem to work on his own life-long insecurities. 😂 A match made in losers' heaven. They're both chopped and dumb af. And you're a gay simp at best.

🚨 Justin Waller’s wife explains their “one-way monogamy”… Do you think she’s actually okay with it?

That could be true too. To be fair, most males struggle to find one woman who desires them. That includes their wives. So statistically, you could be right. The difference is that his followers increase their chances of improving their situation - even if you disagree with his approach. (I am not a fan of the Red Pill myself. But it’s a good enough transitional mindset, if it’s only a temporary cope.)

@BraveFathers @Gadget440 actually most males who support him cant get even one woman 🫢

@NaggerzUnited @Gadget440 How do you know what she is thinking? Do you not believe she is attracted to him?

She was a nurse, working in a small regional hospital, making shit money. Working long hours. She made the calculus that she’ll put up with cheating for living a life of luxury. She obviously also comes from a string of emotionally abusive relationships where her past partners cheated and lied to her and he’s simply doing the same thing but is offering monetary compensatiom in return for his infidelity. The moment this dude goes broke (and he will), she will bounce and divorce him.

@mrshawnff @alx Answer the issues at hand and I will address your concerns too. Else, this becomes a circular argument.

@BraveFathers @alx Why do ppl like you only talk about the bad of White.people or nations? Yet you never ever mention the good that Whitenpeople have done

@pointoutreality @alx Answer my questions and I will address your points.

@BraveFathers @alx Curious, what about an immigrant Irish family that came to the US in 1960? Are they part of the “whites”?

@jhay_aq How is it not true? Don’t most fools take modern women on dinner dates? Buy them expensive gifts? Pay for costly engagement rings? Is that not the reality we live in?

@BraveFathers Not only isn’t the truth but the fact young women are out performing young men in many metrics of primary & secondary education implies this is far from the truth. Moronic mindset.

Q: What do fools and modern women have in common? A: The fool's wallet.