Fintwituni

@ThinkInPeach Why is self expression ugly? Self expression is a desirable trait

"Tattoos on women are a red flag" misses the point. Can they signal mental instability? Yes. Can they just be self-expression? Yes. Either way they're ugly.

“In sickness or in health. For rich or for poor. For better for worse. Till death do you part.” This literally means you will love the person despite what they can give you. You will of course want to give the best to the one you marry. But despite all that, you love them for their company. For the essence of who they are. That’s primary. Because when everything is ripped away, that’s all that’s left.

It saddens me how many people just don’t understand that love means loving the person first. Such that no matter what they can or cannot provide, you still love them. That’s even in the Catholic marriage vows by the way.

The man a woman instinctively runs to when she is upset, scared, or lost - when she needs relief, grounding, or orientation - is usually the man whom she feels true safety, attunement, and containment with. His presence makes her feel regulated, there is deep trust and an inherent reverence for his demonstrated competence. This is the man she respects because he already holds psychological, spiritual, emotional, and somatic authority within her psyche, within her soul - it is often just at a subconscious level.

In outlier love, there's a type of mutual pouring where the man pours himself into his woman and the woman pours herself into her man until they serve as catalysts for each other's becoming Both become greater than they could alone by serving the other You are your muse's muse.

A man is only as mature as the Feminine energy he chooses to pursue. A Knight chases Princesses, but an Emperor is on a quest to find his Empress to build his empire with.

Desperate feminine energy attracts immature men. Secure, confident feminine energy attracts mature men.

A confident, secure man will choose a woman who takes him a little bit out of his comfort zone but who is leading him towards his highest destiny. This is the only type of man who can appreciate a Divine Woman.

The higher your frequency is, the harder it is for most people to see and appreciate you. You vibrate above their perception of reality.

Being genuinely funny and charismatic is so refreshing that even your enemies discard their morals to enjoy you

In his book “Beauty in the Light of Redemption,” Dietrich von Hildebrand explains that the purpose of beauty is not to satisfy the appetite of the senses but rather to orient one’s spirit toward the morals and ideas that lead us to God. Though they are our senses that perceive a beautiful piece of music or illustration, it is not our senses that find them pleasurable, but rather our spirits that find them exalting.

The child that is not exposed to beauty will not get a nutrient deficiency on her blood test or miss out on being able to spell or count properly, but she’ll miss something arguably far more important, which is a guiding telos by which the energy of her life can be properly directed.

…and a childhood full of true beauty in his environment and his media provide the tools to continually orient oneself back to these truths especially when the intellect can so easily turn against the spirit, especially strong intellects.

“Man cannot live by bread alone”. Though it is a grand hubris to deny the importance of these material necessities, the Child also has spiritual ones. By this, I do not mean merely being taught that God is real, He is good and He loves you, but rather being shown it

Nailed it. The subconscious knows one has to become a different person in order to fulfill "large" desires. The person who has the dream is not the same person who brings it to fruition. It's an energetic impossibility. If the person you were today could have the things you want, you'd have them already. Shifting one's identity requires making hard decisions, mostly about what to let go. Decisions have consequences. Facing consequences requires taking responsibility.

To truly love someone is to adore the child in them.

Most people think their suffering justifies their self-pity. In their minds, the cruelty they've suffered excuses their cruelty to others. Their entire lives become a subtle quest for revenge. This, my friend, is a doorway to death.

Okay hear me out. Academia, but temperamentally, it only selects for ruthless high truth preference people.

Gentleness, tenderness, grace, compassion, warmth, patience, kindness, mercy, self-sacrifice... all these things mean more coming from someone who is otherwise discerning, ruthless, intense, cunning, tactical, precise and exactingly ferocious in everyday life. Because you are under no illusion that what they are giving you is cheap or fake. It is not a survival strategy, misplaced foolishness, false idolisation, opportunistic sycophancy or a pathetic and insecure attempt from the weak to be liked. No. It is true appreciation from a being of sheer potency. And that is ecstasy to the soul.

Be a ruthless curator of what you're willing to engage. People, books, aesthetics - whatever it is, be elitist and maximise control over what you surround yourself with. Filter out anything low quality: ugly, evil, nihilistic etc. Be hard to reach. Stay private. You're a garden. Build the wall.