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@auntyoma_ Should I hop on 67/100??

@PrinceAwoye 4 o

Living in a furnished apartment here is the best. My fridge no dey work, I don call the company managing the house. Them don bring new fridge for me 😭

@NkosiDavid6 Well, just remember wetin happen uncle Thomas oh.

@PrinceAwoye Him go understand say area no clear 😂😂😂 Who Don chop go get power reach oyigbo

After my grandfather died and my uncles shared properties. This is what they gave to me.. watin I one use am do ?

@NkosiDavid6 Papa spirit go torment you oh. Before you know, you go dey run from one white garment church to the other.

@PrinceAwoye I go sell am use am chop food ...

@NkosiDavid6 That no be iss na. Using this your highly esteemed inheritance, na just a matter of few hours and ya at Oyibo.

@PrinceAwoye I day okoloma

@NkosiDavid6 The worst thing that can happen to any man is belonging to a wicked family like His. If I was minutely related to Him, He would have thanked His stars.

My friend’s 65 years old grand dad was diagnosed with a rare cancer . Doctor told him he has less than a year to live. He wasn’t moved or sad, instead he happily requested the family to booking girls for him daily.. Doctor told him sex wouldn’t do anything for him now that he may risk having cardiac problems He said he doesn’t care about anything again and dying on top of a woman is a happy de@th 😭 The family are crashing out, after he said his spirit will hunt them if they don’t fulfill his last wishes 😳 Should they grant his request ? Considering the risk ?

@LopezIyke_ @Ijawphilosopher Lmao have you heard of cultural preservation before? Between dynamism and preservation which gets more attention? Why do you think we have zoos, museums and conservation programmes?

@PrinceAwoye @Ijawphilosopher Lol! Have you heard of cultural dynamism before? 😂

Croptop Etibo is finally here 😁

@GbengaWemimo With all due respect, paragraph 6&7 of this write up is pulsating. I can't even ask my enemy to temporarily put themselves in the shoes of a childless African woman, worse of all, one whose mate have three kids.

I got a call from the Chief Security Officer of my former office He said he needed a loan of ten million Naira I asked him what he needed the loan for He said his wife had recently clocked 50 and she had never had a child, so he wanted to use the money to pay for IVF so that she could become a mother I knew he had children because while we were working together, he would often complain to other staff members who had children about school fees, the conduct of one of his daughters, and so on. So I said, "Papa T, I know you have three children, so your request is a bit confusing." He said after ten years of marriage without children, he got another lady pregnant and married her as his second wife. This lady was the one who bore him his three children. He said he eventually told his first wife about it, and she accepted the younger wife and children, but she still wanted to have children of her own. I asked him if they had been to the doctor and if the doctor had recommended IVF treatment for his wife. He said the doctor gave them options, including surrogacy, IVF, and some others He was earning a hundred thousand Naira a month at the church where he was working as CSO While he was working with an oil company, when he was younger, he had built a modest house at Alakuko in Lagos It was this house that he wanted to use as collateral to get the loan he needed for the IVF treatment. I applauded him for his steadfast support towards his first wife, but I told him getting a loan to do IVF when you don't have a means to repay the loan is a bad idea. I have sponsored the IVF of many people, and I can categorically say that IVF is not an exact science. I have seen it fail more times than it succeeded. I know those who did it nineteen times, only for the last one to produce children. I know those who did it fourteen times, ten times, five times, etc I counselled him to encourage his first wife to accept the children of the second wife as her own or to adopt a child either officially or from a relative to raise as her own. I am a parent, and I was once a child. The irony of being desperate to have children has always stayed with me. A couple starts life together, they have children who take everything from them without giving anything tangible in return most times. The children grow up and leave the house. The couple goes back to being without children in a sense. That is the cycle of life. When I see wives who are desperate to have children to the point of falling into depression, becoming suicidal, and languishing in deep sorrow for their inability to conceive, I consider such women to be very dangerous and selfish. To define yourself by something so fleeting and consider your life a waste without having it is not only ridiculous, it is a wanton display of foolishness. It proves you are not in the marriage to love and be loved by your husband. To you, he is only a means to an end. The end being your child or children. After such women become mothers, their marriages suffer a lot. They also overcompensate towards the children and do not raise them very well. At the end of the day, they play a significant role in their children's lives until they die. Often blackmailing the children emotionally and ruining their other love attachments, especially relationships and marriages. The husband they were supposed to bond with and grow old with, they would have bashed and treated with scorn, only to latch on to the children as their support system in their old age. I told Mr. CSO and His wife all this when I had the opportunity to counsel them. I believe in Miracle Babies, either through IVF or by Supernatural conception or natural conception, all children are the same, and they are a blessing of the Lord in my sight. I celebrate all the miracle babies born in GSWMI daily, and I thank the Lord Jesus for them. I will not, however, counsel any couple to sell their properties or take huge financial loans in order to fund an IVF treatment. They thanked me and left with the wife promising to stop nagging her husband and wait on the Lord. This morning at 2:35 AM, my phone started buzzing persistently. I ignored it. I picked up the phone at 4:30 AM and saw videos, voice notes, and chat messages from Mr. CSO. He said he needed help urgently He collected a loan of 20 million Naira from a company three years ago to fund the IVF treatment of his wife. They had done six sessions and exhausted the fund without any result. He took the loan at 30% interest rate per month and now owes them 236,000,000 Naira. He had been taken to court, and his properties had been forfeited to the loan company. The company came to enforce the court order last Friday, and he and his family had been scattered to the wind. The second wife and the last child had gone back to her parents' house at Ijegun. The first two children are in the University. The first wife had also gone to stay with her younger sister's family somewhere in Ibadan. He is currently sleeping in the security house at the pastor's house while still working as the CSO of the pastor's church. He said the value of his house was about 45 million, and as things stand, he is still owing the company almost two hundred million. He had been declared wanted by the police after he escaped being charged in court for a deficiency balance on the loan. He said he believes he must either leave Nigeria or end up in jail. He had sold his car, the grinding machine of his wife, and other things that they could sell. He said he is in danger of losing his job because he couldn't go to the office so as not to get arrested, but he is currently on leave while he sorts out his affairs. He said he needed whatever help I could give him. I asked him if he had gotten any help or support from either of his wives or their family members. He said his second wife hates him at the moment, and her children have refused to take his calls. He said his first wife has two plots of land in her name somewhere in Ikorodu. He said he begged her to sell the land and send him the money so he could leave Nigeria with it, even if it would only take him as far as Ghana. He said she told him that was everything she had to show for all the years of sacrifices she spent with him, and refused to entertain the thought. The wise thing for me to do would be to say "I told you so". But it wouldn't have been the humane thing to do. I assured him of my love and support in this trying time. We prayed together, and I ended the call. PS: When men forget that their value to those in their lives is intrinsically linked to the benefit they offer in terms of shelter, food, clothing, and finances. They gamble with it and discover that they are nothing to their loved ones when the gamble fails. -GSW-

Nigeria government officials hate people with different opinions, they just want yes Sir citizens. I and this chap used to be very friendly while I was supporting and praising His good works, but the only day I questioned His stance, I chop blocking. Same thing with one Woye.

@PER_SON_GOD @Ijawphilosopher UNESCO spends billions of dollars annually in preserving cultures round the world, you think they are foolish? Certain things are meant to be left in there natural status. Top on that list is culture.

@PrinceAwoye @Ijawphilosopher culture evolves, traditions become redundant. are we supposed to worship ash for the sake of culture and tradition?

@Ijawphilosopher Have you heard of cultural preservation before?

@PrinceAwoye Is culture static?

Tiken Jah Fakoly, the Ivorian reggae legend, exposed political corruption with Plus rien ne m’étonne (“Nothing surprises me anymore”). His words shook leaders, revealed truths, and forced him into exile. Every note is a mirror to power, greed, and injustice. #History #Politics

@Isaac_Newton4 2yrs younger than Charlie Boy.

How old is Mr President today?

@italian_Spencer Your idea explains the too much of worldiliness of the church. You are equating the activities of the shrine to that of the church. The church is the body of our Lord Jesus Christ, just incase you have forgotten.

Yahoo boys dey tear GLK for babalawo but people can’t gift their pastors? Oya nau😂😂😂

@NgohPrince Or Uber money and loads of willing phone numbers.

As a single man living in Port Harcourt. To overcome this rain,you need to have one or two female neighbors that know how to keep secrets

@Officialdarego Or know people wey their character no too good like that.

Just Guard oh, e get why.

@DeFiTerrace @msmocrown No probs pal. Enjoy your weekend.

Mate, that's in no way or format unpalatable. Being ignorant isn't abusive, though. I hope you know. EVERYONE is ignorant about one topic or the other; and that state is being "boxed in in ignorance". We use words differently, but that reference, isn't unpalatable. Its a descriptive analogy.

The pasture is actually greener in Nigeria. How can u spend N30m only to go and settle for a care job oversea! - A Nigerian entrepreneur

@DeFiTerrace @msmocrown You referred that I am inboxed in ignorance as regards investments. This you said without an idea of my capabilities with respect to investment. For me, its not biggie but others might not ease on it as I have.

@PrinceAwoye @msmocrown Ahn? Point to where I have called you or anyone else unpalatable name in my messages, please.