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@SalubriousNight

Recovering wordcel. Taking tentative steps away from the safety of lurking to posting. Please be patient as I will make mistakes. Yes I love STRFKR.

New York, NY شامل ہوئے Mart 2024
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EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Thomasdelvasto_ Yes but that’s a sleight of hand. There is enough capital development for all the food, clothes, and housing we need. Yet, those with capital and power insist on a society where we grind ourselves to dust to amass worldly riches. Jesus would throw them out of the temple, angrily
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Θωμᾶς del Vasto
Θωμᾶς del Vasto@Thomasdelvasto_·
@SalubriousNight I would blame the child for falling short after they have grown up. hippies are adults. they are responsible in a way children are not
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Θωμᾶς del Vasto
Θωμᾶς del Vasto@Thomasdelvasto_·
hippies have a lot of awesome things going for them, but their biggest downfall is the contempt they have for "the Man," and society as a whole they are essentially, often, talking shit about the people who make their lifestyle possible
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EnlightenedWitness
EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Thomasdelvasto_ Yes, we would prefer that the child be a saint and have infinite compassion for the parent’s perspective. But you wouldn’t blame that child for falling short. Meanwhile, the child never asked for the “sacrifice.” The parent is the one with the power making the choices.
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Θωμᾶς del Vasto@Thomasdelvasto_·
@SalubriousNight I disagree. On some level if would be useful to have scorn, but not a total scorn. I think children should honor their parents to some degree for sacrificng to raise them, even if they are abused perhaps with heinous abuse this scale differs, but there is a balance
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EnlightenedWitness
EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Thomasdelvasto_ No, because as an absolute statement, that’s not true. Take, for example, an abusive parent and their 6 year old. It would be a healthy reaction for the 6 year old to scorn their parent, even if the parent otherwise maintains a lavish lifestyle for the child.
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Θωμᾶς del Vasto
Θωμᾶς del Vasto@Thomasdelvasto_·
@SalubriousNight a middle ground is absolutely possible, but heaping scorn upon those who sustain your lifestyle is not good. do you disagree with that?
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EnlightenedWitness
EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Thomasdelvasto_ The idea that we either have to accept that our lives are governed by hungry ghosts and machine gods, or else we live in caves, is a lie from the man! Believe it or not, but a middle ground is possible
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Θωμᾶς del Vasto
Θωμᾶς del Vasto@Thomasdelvasto_·
@SalubriousNight I mean yeah there are a lot of bad things but unless we want to completely go back to primitivism we should reform the system instead of naively rejecting it
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Vacha
Vacha@TVachaW·
I think imaginal techniques can be very useful for helping people break screen addiction. Imaginal techniques refer to using the imagination to more clearly see aspects of what is real. In the case of screen addiction, one example would be visualizing the light that comes out of screens as a toxic substance. Imagining it to be like radioactive waste. Trying to sense into the feeling of sickness and disgust it subtly invokes in the body when we look at it. Doing this regularly throughout the day can help train the mind to experience the dark side of screen consumption and incentivize a person to do less of it. This is an imaginal technique as it uses the imagination to help us see true aspects of the experience that more passive or seemingly direct seeing misses. Our imagination brings us into contact with the very real harmful aspects of screen usage in a way seemingly imaginationless seeing does not. In an even deeper level, imaginal practices can help us see that there is in fact no such thing as imaginationless seeing. eg Seeing the light that comes out of a screen as “just blue light” isn’t any less an act of imagination than seeing it as “toxic waste.” They are just two conceptual lenses for organizing the sense data at hand. And the ostensibly more minimal lens isn’t necessarily the most information rich or accurate lens. Once we see that *all* experience draws to some degree on imagination, we can drop the illusion of any sensory experience fully penetrating the reality of things. And instead choose the imagination-style that has most utility or exposes most information to us. Choosing imaginal techniques that liberate us from craving, attachment and addiction is a good start.
𝖦𝗋𝗂𝗆𝖾𝗌 ⏳@Grimezsz

Having done the dopamine experiment on myself of near zero screen outside of work time, over the last weeks of being back here re: music - I haven't read one book, and I've sat down to read but felt boredom and itchiness and "waiting for the page to end" I've been a lot more anxious, not just from social media but also because reading makes me calm and I can't do it much now. I feel less smart, and am forgetting the word I need more etc. most notably I had to start wearing deodorant again, which imo if my sweat stinks (like when not doing heavy excercise) it's cuz I'm sick or smthn. Not rly sure what to do abt this or make of it besides - if one considers the digital realm to be a psychological toxin, like a drug, I feel like an addict who went clean cold turkey, felt great, and have now "relapsed" and because I was off the negative effects r very palpable. The Amish are probably onto something with computers at work but not at home

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Heidi Priebe ⛰️☀️
Heidi Priebe ⛰️☀️@HeidiPriebe1·
I do not mean this harshly but to say it plainly: the way to break the pattern of falling in love with narcissists (or other low-empathy individuals) is to confront one’s own narcissistic parts. Specifically: the parts that believe they have enough inherent virtue to be able to ‘save’ others from their emptiness, while being quietly starved of emotional oxygen oneself. Nobody is strong enough for that. Truly, nobody. Thinking that we are is a fantasy that may have helped us survive in childhood, but it cannot be actualized in reality. To be whole, we all need access to supportive relationships that can balance out our weaknesses and gently nudge us back in the direction of goodness when we (inevitably) veer off-course. Virtue takes a village to maintain. Thinking ourselves to be the exception to this rule will keep us wandering endlessly around the fringes of healthy society, searching for those who we believe are just as morally ‘exceptional’ as we are. And guess who we’ll keep meeting in those trenches? 😉
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eatnik
eatnik@eatnik·
For the people around here on spiritual journeys, personal development paths, introspective arcs - what's your goal?
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Evan Cholerton 🌎
Evan Cholerton 🌎@evancholerton·
@aaronnarraph In the absolute best way possible, this gives me insane Obama vibes. Obama was many things, but a phenomenal public speaker was one.
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aaron from queens 🇵🇸@aaronnarraph·
Couldn't be at the Terminal 5 rally tonight, but watching Zohran's speech afterward, I am completely blown away by how far this socialist campaign has come in less than a year's time. This part is my favorite; just beautifully written and delivered (and even better in context):
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EnlightenedWitness
EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@visakanv I think this is true for all writers, to be fair. Which makes sense. In a large enough audience there will be multiple elements resonating. I think that’s why “audience capture” is a problem. you can lose track of which resonance comes from good taste
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Visa is doing marketing consults (see pinned!)
if i could get myself to internalize one thing right now it would be that i am not a very good judge of what elements of my writing resonates most with people
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EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Plus3Happiness @limitoftruth This is how all professional services operate (law firms, consulting, etc.) The entire education system is factory production of smart people who follow rules to be burned out thrown away and replaced. much cheaper for capital
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Michael systematizes 9/10 Life Satisfaction
do any of the high frequency firms, whether traditional or crypto invest in finding the best mental/emotional health protocols for their traders? seems weird to pay someone close to, or in, the millions but also not have them be at the top of their game consistently
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Nicholas Fabiano, MD
Nicholas Fabiano, MD@NTFabiano·
The structure of modern society is one of the largest causes of depression
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Visa is doing marketing consults (see pinned!)
was thinkin abt this gen class of thing again this morning. the central thing i think is that humans are dynamic, not static. anything that we want, is something we want from a particular state, a moment in time. but even the most delicious cake or the sweetest podium finish...
crystal@crystalxduan

I regret to inform you that getting what you want does not in fact, save you

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nibras ꩜
nibras ꩜@heynibras·
has anyone had success with EMDR? meaning have you, reading this, managed to successfully resolve something, heal trauma, unknot a pattern etc via EMDR?
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James Barnes MSc., MA
James Barnes MSc., MA@psychgeist52·
There are loads of 'comorbid' DSM disorders only if you assume that DSM disorders are valid entities in their own right. If you don't (and there is not reason to) then there is only a bunch of man-made categories that don't relate well at all to people's experiences.
Psychiatry Excellence@psycheureka

Up to 90% of patients with ADHD experience at least one comorbidity—ranging from anxiety to substance use disorders. These overlaps complicate diagnosis and treatment, making clinicians need to recognise and address them effectively. Here are 10 key ADHD comorbidities and evidence-based strategies to navigate them 👇🧵

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EnlightenedWitness
EnlightenedWitness@SalubriousNight·
@Romy_Holland Yes, it’s actually harder to make the opposite case for the US. The current global order rests entirely on the treasury market. It’s the global reserve asset. And it drives global growth: other countries are financing our consumption so we can buy their stuff.
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Romy
Romy@Romy_Holland·
is there a case to be made that national debt is not actually bad?
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