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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ

@kcrrod

🇵🇷 | she•her | 🍉

ATL, GA via LI, NY شامل ہوئے Kasım 2018
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@RunawayLobsterr also teaching babies and tots how to be more independent is def not easy ! It’s uncomfortable & it can make you feel badly, but letting them entertain themselves for 5-15min for the sake of your own self care is extremely important for mom AND baby 💛 Not easy, but must be done!
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Lobby@RunawayLobsterr·
People say this like it’s so easy to do, when you’re in the trenches of postpartum depression you are terrified of everything. You become another person, you are consumed by your baby. By every health scare, every change, every little thing they do. If you have not experienced this then it is incredibly unfair to pass judgement. People spend so much time judging mums rather than offering compassion and support.
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There’s also another side to this: Your baby is not going to die if you put them down for a moment to take a shower. They won’t be traumatized if you are not holding & looking at them 24/7. Stop losing yourselves in your infants/tots & do research so you don’t hurt development!
bunnie@CuriousBunnie12

if you’re a mom on here talking about how you don’t shower for 72 hours straight, can’t change your clothing, can’t perform basic hygiene because your baby is just inconsolably attached at your hip, im going to assume that your husband absolutely hates you

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@RunawayLobsterr And postpartum depression is very real & under researched (like most women’s health issues) but any dr will tell you before you leave the hospital with your baby that if you’re feeling overwhelmed, overly anxious, or frustrated, it’s safest to put them down, even for a min 💛
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@RunawayLobsterr I am not judging moms, just trying to help! Your baby will not die if you put them down, and no baby ever died from crying. Thats the truth! Some people need to hear this ! With so many mom groups spreading misinformation, I wanted to speak up and give info i learned myself.
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#MOST
#MOST@jeandeauxmusic·
This whole “You HAVE to use A.I because its unavoidable” is 100% propaganda and i will not be falling for it 😂❤️
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sammm ☆
sammm ☆@onlysammms·
it always feels like i'm bringing a little too much boob to any given situation
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@Clauvc84 I’m not saying neglect your kid. Parents are so uncomfortable at the thought of baby crying for a few min (which they often do for no reason!) that they lose their own humanity! Infant care should not take away your ability to care for yourself! I advocate for parents AND babies!
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Brujita@Clauvc84·
@kcrrod Decir q un bebé va a dañar su desarrollo porque necesita a su madre, literalmente para sobrevivir, es de ser una ignorante. Es un bebé! Después,esos niños a los cuales no hacen caso para que se hagan "fuertes",son los más inseguros,miedosos e infelices por vuestra culpa.
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@emberambience while i completely understand that, how to self soothe is a very important lesson parents have to teach their babies. feeling discomfort/pain when hearing your child cry does not absolve you of your parental duty to foster proper development.
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Corvus Corax 🇷🇺🇺🇦🇮🇱🇵🇸
@kcrrod A lot of ppl say this but don’t consider the mothers who have a hard time hearing their children’s screams & cries. Most women aren’t holding the baby 24/7 bc they don’t want the baby to cry, obvi that’s part of it, but the maternal instincts that light up your brain hurt too
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@missrobinson not all babies have dads! not all households are 2 parent! i’m talking about another issue
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Amber@missrobinson·
@kcrrod Sure but if your partner is there why can’t he hold his baby?
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@MuffinKiller243 Never said it’s harmful to hold your baby! & saying “they’ll learn that eventually” is why we are where we are with development! YOU are supposed to teach them that independence! It won’t happen overnight, they’re going to cry at first!! A few minutes at a time! It’s a process ☺️
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mk ✨@MuffinKiller243·
@kcrrod Holding your baby is not harmful to them lol. They will eventually learn to be independent but letting them cry their voices raw while you anxiously do household tasks is not the best option for everyone
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@waltwhitmangoth not all babies have dads. not all moms have someone in the house to help!! I was shedding light on another issue.
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waltwhitmangoth@waltwhitmangoth·
@kcrrod so we're putting babies down and just letting them cry instead of expecting fathers to parent for 30 minutes?
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katie ᨦ ෆ ᨩ@kcrrod·
@MuffinKiller243 I understand that it can be emotionally painful to hear your baby cry. But forcing the child to be codependent by never teaching them skills that parents are supposed to teach them, is extremely hurtful to the child.
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mk ✨@MuffinKiller243·
@kcrrod But sometimes it hurts mom to hear constant crying for however long is takes to do whatever
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fluttershy
fluttershy@hwrtyed·
im just someone’s weird sister
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@CuriousBunnie12 as an early childhood teacher, seeing all of the talk about same bed cosleeping makes me feel so sad. And don’t get me started on the trad ladies saying honey is safe for infants. There’s SO MUCH misinformation out there right now and the kids are hurting from it 💔
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bunnie@CuriousBunnie12·
@kcrrod as much as I agree with this it’s so hard to advocate for it when every mom centric space online pushes the narrative of intense attachment parenting
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Lyn🦋
Lyn🦋@_ayandamay·
I overheard a girl saying yesterday ‘worrying is such a terrible use of your imagination’ … and I audibly gasped.
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mr.morow
mr.morow@dirtycatlitter·
when i was a kid i thought puerto rico was in new york
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