Nuel the First🎅

EASTER MESSAGE: RESPOND, DO NOT REACT! The church can be a funny place, and if you are not mature, you may lose your way and miss heaven. Life can also be tricky because people can say things to get you angry, and then you misbehave. They said something negative about me to a pastor over 30 years ago, and he ridiculed me before the church. He said, “You, what work do you do?” He knew I was a cleaner, and I simply responded that I was a cleaner. My wife was also there. The congregation laughed. That day marked the turning point in my life. I did not get angry. I decided that by the time they asked my children what their father does for a living, the title would be different. I decided to add value and became a lawyer. I did not react angrily, but I responded with a hunger for success. I have experienced that several times over the years. People lie against me and expect a reaction. People betray me and expect a reaction. People that I helped will respond with ungratefulness and expect a reaction. I will just move on. I hear what they say, but I don’t let it stop my momentum. I keep winning. Many fail because they get angry about what someone says to or about them. Listen closely. I did not leave the church because of that. That would be so immature. I have always moved on without looking back at everyone who said something bad about me. I learned that in Christ. Jesus was ridiculed, betrayed, insulted, and beaten before being crucified. He did not react with anger or curses; he responded with love and became the Lord of all. This season is about the MAN who did not react. If you want to be great, stop reacting. Respond with love and achievement. Hello, you are a response away from greatness. Happy Easter to you all.

I know I’m probably overthinking 😭 but how do we marry someone knowing they’ve been intimate with other people before us?

When we say a man should not marry a woman whose mental energy is far above his, many people misunderstand it. It is not about her earning more money, having a better job or her being more successful on paper. That is not the issue. A woman can be ahead in career, earn more, and still be calm, patient, and easy to flow with. That kind of woman does not bring pressure, she brings balance. What we are talking about is how she thinks and how she moves in life. Some women are always in pressure mode. Always pushing, always demanding more, always restless. Nothing is ever enough. They move fast, think fast, and expect the man to match that same speed every single day. If you are not wired like that, you will suffer. You will start to feel small, feel like you are failing, like you are not enough, even when you are doing your best. Such gap will kill your peace slowly. Marriage needs rhythm. It needs two people who can understand each other’s pace. If one person is always on high speed and the other is trying to breathe, there will be constant tension. This advice is for men who are still single or thinking of marriage. Look beyond beauty, money, and status. Pay attention to her mindset. Watch how she handles life when things are not going fast. Watch if she can be at peace or if she always needs pressure to feel okay. Because, it is not her success that will stress you. It is the pressure she brings into your life. Choose a woman whose energy gives you stability, not one that turns your life into a daily race. 🤷‍♂️

Doctor: With your medical report, you will have to hold a conversation with your Dad soon Patient: but he d!ed many years ago.. Doctor: Yes I know