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New Hampshire شامل ہوئے Temmuz 2015
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Mason@webdevMason·
@harryh @aussieflya With basement/attic apartments afaict there are generally some code violations that the city would consider hazardous wrt fire/flood, with new builds probably not
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As far as I can tell, you're genuinely better off renting an illegal conversion off the books in NYC than doing any of this You might get a $15,000 fine, but at least the city will force your tenant out rather than enable a 3-4+ year eviction boondoggle with a 6-figure price tag
Mayor Zohran Kwame Mamdani@NYCMayor

If you own a home with a basement, attic, or backyard, chances are you’ve thought about using it to earn a little extra income or as space for a loved one. We want to make it as easy (and affordable) as possible for you to do that. NYC recently legalized ADUs — but for too many New Yorkers, they’re still tied up in bureaucracy and expense. We're fixing that. Our new toolkit at nyc.gov/aduforyou includes preapproved building plans and a financing calculator so you can get right to building. If we want New York to remain a city for everyone, we have to make it easier for homeowners to stay here. ADU for You will do just that.

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Mason@webdevMason·
@alt1na1 I had an anterior placenta with both and it just doesn't fricken work once the baby gets too big, I only felt them a few times in a day sometimes
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🇮🇱🇺🇦🇹🇼PALEOLITHIC AGE TUNA 🐟ALTUNA🐟 ALTINA
learning about 3rd trimester kick counting I am going 2 go CRAZY trying 2 count kicks - i wiggle/twitch constantly I never know if it’s me or him - stupid anterior placenta - I hit the 200 mg caffeine limit each day - I am the worst @ counting I always mix up numbers 🫨🫨🫨
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Mason@webdevMason·
@uncatherio Like, figuring out how to do stuff with your kids without getting bored is absolutely mom-friend stuff, I think people are literally just worse at having and being friends now
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@uncatherio It doesn't sound like that's what happened here at all, though! They spent a lot of time together doing activities with the kids, but when an actual bond was required to carry things beyond the superficial (temporary but serious illness), their intimacy collapsed
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Mason@webdevMason·
I read this article twice to try to understand how non-monogamy could possibly be a childcare hack, and afaict the answer is "if you let your husband have sex with other people, he'll have to let you have sex with other people, which means he'll agree to watch the kids sometimes"
Leah Libresco Sargeant@LeahLibresco

Begging people to remember you can have *friends* "For these moms, non-monogamy seems to offer more than just a way to reclaim their libido. Could it also be the secret to raising kids without completely resenting one’s husband?" thecut.com/article/non-mo…

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Mason@webdevMason·
@uncatherio To Leah's point, nothing about their relationship sounds like it actually required them to be more than good friends, and the fact that it didn't remain that way is what made it ultimately unsustainable when life got in the way
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uncatherio@uncatherio·
@webdevMason The Emily/Laura romance comes through clearly. They’re both women and help with one another’s kids. I’ve long felt my own experience of attraction to women was basically reproductively-driven in exactly this way.
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Mason@webdevMason·
Half the article actually seems to be about moms getting into sexual relationships with people who eventually leave them because the kids create logistical problems they don't want to deal with, which seems, um, soul-crushing?
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Mason@webdevMason·
Perhaps your husband should just watch the kids sometimes so you can do something without the kids now and then idk
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Mason@webdevMason·
@I_Secretum_Am It's not that I'm super into slavery but it feels like the most proportionate justice, in that stealing the money a working person exchanged their years of labor for is equivalent to stealing their labor
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IamThat@I_Secretum_Am·
@webdevMason There are many ways financial reward and punishment could be handled here, I'd favor a way that involved less slavery.
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Mason@webdevMason·
@I_Secretum_Am I think she should be able to sell the contract to whoever she wants and get a check in the mail
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IamThat@I_Secretum_Am·
@webdevMason you'd expose the victim to her abuser again? Perhaps there's a insurance solution here too.
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Mason@webdevMason·
@leamaric tbh I have a reflexive "expel the harlot" mental posture toward this, not because of what she's wearing specifically or even her smugness but because this specific attitude says this woman is interested in ruining a family to prove something to herself
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I love how zoomers seem to think it’s totally normal to walk around with their bare midriffs showing in the middle of the day in public. Like, no… anyway, here’s the attention you ordered!
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Mason@webdevMason·
@NEROANG3LO Uh, no, I'm describing the egg harvesting process, the first step in all IVF procedures. They don't do this sperm injection stuff in vivo, it's always IVF
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Evil Darkskin Nigga@NEROANG3LO·
@webdevMason that’s to do with problems around embryonic implantation on the uterine wall, the sperm quality has nothing to do with this
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Mason@webdevMason·
Let me let you in on a little secret: the entirety of a man's physiological contribution to a round of IVF is ejaculating into a cup The *entire* physical burden is on the woman Things that increase IVF success rates are not about the pAtRiArChY
ceciatl@ceciATL

the replies to this are largely “why would you forcibly-inseminate an egg w/ defective sperm” and i need ppl to understand the whole foundation of our world is built on the premise of allowing men to bypass women’s autonomous mate selection since the advent of patriarchy

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Mason@webdevMason·
@berrysweetmum I'm sure it's devastating for her, but I think what's betrayed here is a sense that she would be a better mother than the baby's *actual* mother, and the fact that everyone didn't work together to guide the situation toward that outcome is infuriating to her
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@berrysweetmum I think what I find so distasteful about this is that she's acting like the function of the adoption system is to overcome obstacles like bio mom uncertainty in order to give people like herself children Rather than an unfortunate necessity when a mother can't raise her baby
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motherhood musings@berrysweetmum·
I understand that this couple is going through something I cannot relate to and that it is probably very difficult for this to have happened, but the little temper tantrum at the end is just in horrible taste, and you have to realize it is not a guarantee with a pregnant mom.
cristina 🩷🌷@metsswift

I’m sorry if this is an unpopular opinion. Families adopting a child from a young mom, shouldn’t be allowed to wait at the hospital during the birth. They should be notified after, once Mama has had a little time with the child and is able to fully commit to the decision.

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Mason@webdevMason·
@VoidAtoms It's very simple, egg rape bad baby murder sometimes good
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Angra Mainyu@VoidAtoms·
@webdevMason Feminists taking the amazing position that a fetus is not a person but an egg somehow exercises conscious volition, and that it should trump the decision of the woman who agreed to have to procedure done. What are we even doing here
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Mason@webdevMason·
@dysangelistes Welp, if IVF doesn't work with the sperm you have what your clinic is going to recommend is using donor sperm Otherwise you can go home and hope for a miracle, which does sometimes happen
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