
Ara🫶
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Ara🫶
@arathefirst_
UX Designer || Storyteller| [email protected] ||https://t.co/3ayHgv90Z3


One sentence for your ex?

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My aunty and her husband live in Abuja. But her frozen food business is in Ilorin and is thriving. She tried opening a branch in Abuja. It flopped. So her whole heart, energy and presence remained in Ilorin. Her husband kept complaining that she's never home. She would nod, agree… and then fly back to Ilorin for business and owambe. The man endured. And endured. And endured. Then he stopped enduring and just found another wife. 😭 Now my aunty is running around like the house is on fire trying to stop the wedding. Ma, the man gave you plenty warning. The real gobe has not even started. The new wife works with a federal government agency. She is comfortable, she is around, and she is apparently very intentional about winning this family over. How do we know? My aunty's own children have accepted this woman. One of them went to the new wife's birthday party, came back with plenty gifts and was posting her on WhatsApp status like she just gained a new bestie. 😭💀 My aunty called my mum yesterday crying. Said her children are betrayals and she is going to disown every single one of them. Disown them for what exactly? I know I shouldn't find this funny but I can stop laughing because her husband is not broke o, this is not about money. The man just wants his wife to actually live with him.

Remove one thing from this table.


It’s so sad that women are always required to build thier lives and livelihood around a man. From your story, she did try to move her business to Abuja but it flopped. When that didn’t work out, she was juggling the two cities and what she got for her efforts is unfaithfulness.

My aunty and her husband live in Abuja. But her frozen food business is in Ilorin and is thriving. She tried opening a branch in Abuja. It flopped. So her whole heart, energy and presence remained in Ilorin. Her husband kept complaining that she's never home. She would nod, agree… and then fly back to Ilorin for business and owambe. The man endured. And endured. And endured. Then he stopped enduring and just found another wife. 😭 Now my aunty is running around like the house is on fire trying to stop the wedding. Ma, the man gave you plenty warning. The real gobe has not even started. The new wife works with a federal government agency. She is comfortable, she is around, and she is apparently very intentional about winning this family over. How do we know? My aunty's own children have accepted this woman. One of them went to the new wife's birthday party, came back with plenty gifts and was posting her on WhatsApp status like she just gained a new bestie. 😭💀 My aunty called my mum yesterday crying. Said her children are betrayals and she is going to disown every single one of them. Disown them for what exactly? I know I shouldn't find this funny but I can stop laughing because her husband is not broke o, this is not about money. The man just wants his wife to actually live with him.


I cut my tubes at 24. I know this topic makes people uncomfortable and honestly that’s exactly why I’m talking about it. This was my choice, and in this video I’m walking you through every part of it. The stuff nobody posts about. Go give it a watch🩷 youtu.be/EubeX6hIL_k?si…













