Apologies from women is BS.
When women apologizes, they’re looking for some kind of absolution They’re doing it for themselves they want to feel better and be relieved of their guilt. So when they give you an apology, it’s usually because they’re trying to repair or further a relationship or simply to get that absolution so they can feel less guilty about what they’ve done.
This is especially obvious when they drop the line “Well, I said all that what are you going to say?” It becomes transactional like : I apologized, so now you should apologize too. (Then we can go back to loving each other and everything will be great, right?)
It means nothing
It doesn’t mean she will actually change her behavior, nor does it mean she genuinely feels guilty.
Also women always apologize by explaining their mental state at the time, that explanation is almost always a form of justification, which keeps the whole thing as part of an argument rather than accountability.
For example, when they say something like, “Hey, I want to apologize for my actions. I did this because I felt like we were here and this was going on…” which is an argument, not a true apology.
A real apology you do not need to explain your intention was. You can mention it briefly, but when women start giving whole bunch of reasons why she did something, also remember that nobody views themselves as crazy or unreasonable in their own eyes. So of course the justification is always going to make sense to themselves so it just turns into, “Why are you even mad at me? It’s not going to happen again. But it always does.
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