
Redd
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Redd
@reddberckley
ex-paladin. a little more chaos. a little more courage. 🇳🇬


it straight up never occurs to some people that there are some ideas that you can't really understand as a layman because they're too complicated. and it would be a bad thing to pretend otherwise and only pass down warped, extremely simplified versions of those ideas!


People with ADHD have what’s called an “interest-based nervous system.” They literally can’t force themselves to care about things that bore them. It’s not a choice. It’s not willpower. Their brains physically won’t produce the neurochemicals needed to engage unless something triggers interest, urgency, novelty, or challenge.



my new essay: ‘the westernization of moaning’ i wrote about how western influence has removed identity and authenticity from our everyday activities, including & especially sex. read here: @simikunleoni/the-westernization-of-moaning-5d62e60b3878" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">medium.com/@simikunleoni/…

Guys, When an interviewer asks you this question, do not rush and answer directly and the rule of thumb is to never be the first to quote a figure (unless pushed to the wall). If you give a number that is too low, they might underpay you, and if you give a number that is too high, they might also move forward with another because they think you are too expensive or overqualified. Try this instead: What are your salary expectations?: 1. Ask to know what the role pays first: “Thank you for asking. To make sure we are aligned, could you provide the salary range you are considering for this position?” Once the HM or Recruiter gives a figure (say $20k - $30k), then go on to say: “Thank you for sharing this. Based on my experience and achievements, I’m confident in the value I bring and I believe I’d be a strong fit for the higher end of this range.” And if you want to renegotiate a higher range, take this further by saying: “I appreciate the transparency. Based on my skills and the value I bring, I was actually looking at a slightly higher range. Would you be open to discussing an adjustment that reflects my skills and experience?” Some HMs/recruiters get ogba for head, so they may not feel inclined to provide a range. What then do you do? Here you go: 1. “I’m quite flexible on compensation. My main priority is finding the right role and team where I can contribute meaningfully. I’d also like to learn more about the responsibilities. This is so I can better understand the role and give a more informed response regarding compensation.” If you need to quote a figure (make sure you've done your research) 2. From my research and after evaluating the JD, I believe a salary between USD 40k and 50k USD would be appropriate for this role considering my skillset and experience level

“pele” just sounds like a sarcastic sorry to me idk.

