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@SovereignIM @beautyofheaven_ "Women who resent their fathers are going to displace some of that onto you" Does that mean women who are like this are not worth marrying?

The woman under your reply (weirdly) blocked me so I can't respond under her post, but she is easily refuted. In reference to what she said: there is an innate devotional disposition that is based on general temperament, and your relationship with your father. A man of sufficient character then elicits the transfer of daughterly devotion from the father, to him. If there is no pre-existing devotion for the father, then the inherent disposition is absent, because it has not been cultivated. If you are young enough, and he is wise enough, it can be conditioned by him (instead of your father). If you are north of 23~, then neuroplasticity and accumulated lifestyle habits likely make this increasingly non-viable. So ideally, it is learned within the family, otherwise it is unlikely you will find a competent enough and moral enough man whilst you are young enough to learn it from him. Essentially, how you love your father is how you will love a man. So if there is innate devotion for the father, but there wasn't for the man in your previous relationship, then you possess the disposition, but were not with a man that made you want to "transfer the crown" to him. Basically, you were not with a man you deemed better than your father. The greatest indicator of devotional disposition is thus how you behave with your dad. If you consider yourself "a mommy's girl" rather than a "daddy's girl" it will be absent. The smuggled assumption of the commenter is that all women have the same deep inherent devotional capacity, and that it is solely down to a man to elicit/inspire it in her (therefore: if I'm insufficiently devotional, it's not my fault, it's the man's). But this is incorrect, some women truly can love more deeply and with greater ferocity and loyalty than others, and it would be dishonest to claim otherwise. But she is likely not interested in the truth, only protecting her own self-perception. So yes, whilst not just any man is going to elicit your deepest devotion (and rightfully so), it actually has to be there to begin with for a man of sufficient quality to bring it out - what isn't there can't be brought out. I am not just saying this arbitrarily. Analysing a woman's relationship with her father and how she talks about him/sees him/treats him is fundamental to ascertaining her capacity for pure love. Women who resent their fathers are going to displace some of that onto you. Women who worship their fathers are going to want to worship you. It really is this simple.

This is how I know my love was not true.

Your lack of results is a lack of courage. You can achieve a lot of things with time and effort. And you've achieved none because you never thought you could

@ToufLatouffe @TellYourSonThis Would love to read more about it

@Dailytipsonself @TellYourSonThis Yes

@ToufLatouffe @TellYourSonThis Any sources and elaboration?

Articles have really been doing well in X. Is this the new way to grow a newsletter?

When your in a rush just know that you it will take longer than you think. I built a brand on X twice and pivoted. And it took me 6 months to build 1k subscribers. Never quit. Just learn.

@mattiapomelli @figma This will make money

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@imalexwang How's your marketing process going on?

day 5 building my first app more free trials have been converting into paying users our daily active users aren’t as high as we’d have hoped, so one of our main focuses right now is building user retention and gathering feedback as we bring in more users

@theoldfilipaf They do believe it, they just want to protect you. They do it out of love. Though they'll believe you more once you show proof.

After growing to over 1200 followers, Building a brand that’ll fuel my whole fkn life, And making a consistent and growing income from it, My mom still asks if I think I’ll make this work 😭 She of all people should know how obsessed I am. She of all people should know I don’t fail when I put my mind into something. She’ll change when I retire her 10 years early. Love u mom.

@hmzmoh172 Not sure I was only the marketer not the owner of this app

@Dailytipsonself how much was made?

If you are ever looking to grow your app or software organically without any paid ads or expensive set ups - I grew an app with 1k-1.5k installs in a month all organically using reddit. Here's a screenshot on how we did this month: I can share more details if you're interested.

@theoldfilipaf Man the copywriting on this is lit

“Engage more and you’ll get more engagement!” For fuck’s sake guys That’s exactly how you grow a dead audience. I used content-only to ethically manipulate people and make them addicted to my brand like crack coca!ne. And now I have one of the most active audiences in my space. Today I’m dropping the exact content strategy I used to go from dead-audience-reply-guy to ultra-handsome-engaged-audience-shades-guy in 60 days. (with this guide you can do it in 30) Like, comment “CRACK”, and I’ll DM it to you.

@imalexwang Like any videos a strong hook will really pull people in

day 3 of building my first app submitted a new update to the app store with improvements to onboarding and bug fixes spending most of my time learning how to make good tiktoks realizing it's pretty hard to make good ugc since this is my first time doing it it's really all about the hook, copying trending videos, your cadence/energy when you speak, and posting every day if you have any tips on making tiktok ugc's, lmk

@marcelkargul Hi

everyone is a mac user these days. any windows friends?

@itz_Manish02 I'm a marketer that uses organic reach to grow apps, is that good?

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@JacobCEdmunds The improvement is Massive!

How it started vs How it’s going

@austboston @stuff_app_ This kinds of app is needed in reddit lol

how we feeling about this paywall? ✨ cc: @stuff_app_

@imalexwang First post I've seen about offline promotion. This is neat

day 2 of building still, a journaling app to help you understand your mind - focused all of our day on our distribution channels on tiktok/ig, got about 6 videos out with a couple thousand views - set up a table to promote journaling and self-reflection on our college campus @georgiatech - celebrated halloween 👻🎃 lesson: everything is so new and exciting but also scary. there will be so much struggle and growth that we go through. it really makes me appreciate the journey i'm in because we only go through it once

@vikvang1 @imalexwang That's a lot of experiences in a short time. Wow

October 2025 Recap: > skipped school for basically 2 weeks to go to SF > celebrated my 22nd birthday with my best friends > my first app went live on the App Store (after 8 rejections) > got over 500 users within first day of launch > started a company with @imalexwang > joined @AforeVC as a venture scout and wrote my first checks > ran into @AravSrinivas on the street and grabbed dinner w some of the @perplexity_ai team > visited @slamco_ > went to @CalHacks for the first time > finished @theresidency’s delta program > spent time with my long distance girlfriend and people i love what a month. November will be a 30 day sprint to excellence and making my dreams come true before i graduate at the end of this year.

@imalexwang Let me know when you need help, I grew an app with over 1k-1.5k installs per month all organically.

@Dailytipsonself will look into it!

starting a new series day 1 of building still, a journaling app to help you understand your mind - submitted new subscription plans with a new paywall - posted 2 ugc tiktoks - implemented mixpanel to track data on users and how - refactored backend as a small team of 2, our time is split between building the core product and scaling with distribution