OneHappyDestiny

Today is the end of day 9 with no alcohol. I woke up this morning with a kind of beast mode mentality and got a lot of school work done. I officially graduate college in about a week at 40 years old, and I'm stoked on that. It hasn't been easy. I'm a single dad with 2 young kids and I've struggled my entire life, basically. Alcohol has always been my go to. But now in my life, it has depreciating value and liability. I have a good, stable job, with great benefits for my kids and I. Graduating is great and I am proud of that, but I cannot live a life of drinking like I have. There are a lot of areas where I need to improve.

@aerolisa1 Hi, thanks for reaching out!

@OneHappyDestiny Hey! It’s been a while since your posts came thru my timeline.

AA saved me from myself, but then I stopped going. I had about 1.5 years sober and then went to a bar after I did great on a calculus exam. This was March of 2024. I've been drinking on and off since. Yesterday, I had 6 I.P.A.s then ubered to a casino and lost 2k...lost another..

@reredevaux Imagine if he got hurt at the Preakness. All you'd hear is you should've rested him more, greed, etc. Damned if you do, damned if you don't

Preakness announcement

@LloydCh06965157 Nice! Both my kids sleep in my bed with me on the nights they are with me and I love it! They are 8 and 6 and I don't care that they still do one bit

Recovery process day 74: “Tiny”, as she’s affectionately known, climbed in bed with me in the middle of the night. It’s fewer and far between lately she does that, but it makes me happy we’re not completely out of that phase just yet. Have a great Wednesday ✌️

@draftexaminer Thank you, appreciate that!

@OneHappyDestiny Congratulations, that's awesome! Let me know if you ever need someone to talk to, my DMs are open!

Today is the end of day 9 with no alcohol. I woke up this morning with a kind of beast mode mentality and got a lot of school work done. I officially graduate college in about a week at 40 years old, and I'm stoked on that. It hasn't been easy. I'm a single dad with 2 young kids and I've struggled my entire life, basically. Alcohol has always been my go to. But now in my life, it has depreciating value and liability. I have a good, stable job, with great benefits for my kids and I. Graduating is great and I am proud of that, but I cannot live a life of drinking like I have. There are a lot of areas where I need to improve.

@FireFighterKoz Thank you man 💪

@OneHappyDestiny Congratulations brother !

@StilStandingApp 💪

@OneHappyDestiny Lets gooo. Keep it up. There will be hard days but keep pushing. Keep going.

@BuckZaerr Thank you sir 💪

@OneHappyDestiny Clearly you are tackling this head on and are fighting. Keep your head up and try to focus on those kids and your own long term health. You can do this!!!!

@mellonoma425 I know the feeling. Don't give up on yourself! ❤️

@OneHappyDestiny I relapsed Sunday night and had a really bad episode.

@Cattywhompuss That's awesome I'm happy to hear that!

@OneHappyDestiny Congratulations on a road hard fought! I received my BSEE w/honors in 1997 @ the age of 41, took 6 1/2 yrs. 🎇🎆

@USLeafsfan Thanks bro

@OneHappyDestiny Stay strong brother.

@wahsatchmo Thanks for your comment, I appreciate that

@OneHappyDestiny Congratulations! Your kids will notice a change in you. You'll be subconsciously paying more attention to them and their feelings and it will make a huge difference to them.

@TwobranchNCO 🫡 , I appreciate that

@OneHappyDestiny I'll follow ya to throw you some encouragement when I can.

@RealVeryMary @AngryCitizenxx We do! Thank you!

@OneHappyDestiny @AngryCitizenxx is going through it too. Give each other a follow.

@TwobranchNCO Thanks Sarge 💪

@OneHappyDestiny Self reflection is the hardest act. To face the reality of who you are and make changes is bravery most people can never muster.

@katyrains Appreciate you!

@OneHappyDestiny If I can do it - so can you I promise it gets better not easier but better Sobriety has changed my life and for once I can breathe !

@leah_laux Hell yeah!

@OneHappyDestiny You got this! I just hit day 184! 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽💥💥💥

@1dailyshot Thank you 🫡💪

@OneHappyDestiny You are doing so many difficult things at once: you are literally awesome.

@JohnAndrewMcdo1 Thank you sir 💪

@OneHappyDestiny We are all works in progress with room to improve. But enjoy your accomplishments sir. You deserve to be happy and proud of yourself. One day at a time. One foot in front of the other. Any time you feel weak, just look at those 2 lilttle miracles and take a breath. You got it!!

@LeftyLopez135 I appreciate your comment thank you!

@OneHappyDestiny Good for you. Congratulations on being a college graduate shortly. Big accomplishment. Alcohol seems to work for a time and then it doesn't. In time, it will take your job, your health, your home and, tragically, your children from your life. A destroyer. You are free now.

@DrSarahAxelrath Thank you!

@OneHappyDestiny I’m proud of you. And when your kids are old enough to understand what you did for them, they will be too. Great job, keep going!