The women you’re explaining that are horrific single mothers are very *male centered *. They have to have a man so bad even after the father absorbing them they’ll let strange men around their kids … which also brings the point home that many problems are men too … (male centered woman are entirely at fault here too ) Relationships are too nuanced for one size fits all cookie cutter. Humans change. Or mask etc. To lump every single single mom together is also dishonest I do agree we shouldn’t be ending things because of stupid shit like we’re not happy or there’s no butterflies today or men doing their stupid typical man shit ... I don’t promote single motherhood. I think no matter what kids need a healthy masculine role model. But some women have no choice. Signed … a woman who’s a mother an taken not a single mother lol just seen life and reality

The post talked about average men and how disappointing they are, so I’m talking about average women, not every woman. The smaller proportion of women who behave contrary to the norms of the day are going to be responsible for the next generation through healthy intact families. Anything you can do to help educate other women will also help, since they’re not told by other women often enough how important it is to work through disagreements to avoid real dangers to children. Also explain to them that being a single mom isn’t a simple life either, and that being single might feel good at first, but without holidays, without multi generational community, without someone to look after you when you’re far beyond dating age, life gets very grim. And that marriages become better with time, and having a person for life is an amazing gift from God, and working through conflict is worth it, just as it is with close friends and other family.

@DevolutionBegin @Morrigan_Astro With a lot of males being what they are, it is 100% easier to be a single mom. So many are already married single moms and without the burdensome male sharing a residence, there are built-in visitation breaks.

Single moms have worse outcomes across the board, and none of them would describe it as easy. A child needs two parents to develop a healthy personality and to understand relationships. Most men are good fathers, and arguably the most important variable in the success of the family and the children’s lives. You just need to court and take your time and communicate a lot before you have children, also helps to be involved with a spiritual community so you have support (statistically it helps a lot).

@DevolutionBegin @Morrigan_Astro "Most men are good fathers" is extremely laughable for numerous reasons.

Mmm, we got ourselves a misandrist. I have a lot of criticisms of women, but I don’t really have a problem saying most women are good mothers, doing their best. The stats show fathers are doing better than that. They break up families less often, they provide for families without leeching on the government as often, and their outcomes as single dads are better. Anyway, sorry you have such a negative opinion of men, I’m sure your girls club will be around when you’re old and gray and you be happy with dogs and stuff instead of a lifelong love story and intact family.

@DevolutionBegin @Morrigan_Astro 🙄 Here we go. 1. Woman files paperwork just like she kept up with everything else that needed managing =/= she broke the marriage. 2. I don't really care about single mothers using benefits. What's dad doing to make it so she isn't improverished? Not paying for his offspring. >