بیوی اپنے ہی مال میں سے۔۔۔۔
اپنی ہی ماں کو gift دینے سے پہلے
شوہر سے اجازت لے لے۔۔۔۔
کسی دن ہم سنیں گے۔۔۔ بیوی سانس لینے سے پہلے
( Jo Kay hai b involuntary action)
شوہر کی اجازت لے لیا کرے۔۔۔
اس سے شوہر کا دل خوش ہوا کرے گا اور گھر چلنے میں بہت بڑا کردار ادا کرے گی یہ چیز🙂
Ps:
You’ll notice something very interesting like When it comes to bacho ki eidi these people immediately say:
It belongs to the child. It’s their right. You cannot take it or use it even with their permission.
But when the conversation shifts to a wife and her own money Then you start hearing things like:
She should use her money with her husband’s permission.
Maybe they don’t always say it strictly but why is this mindset so normalized in the first place???
The answer could have been much simpler and healthier:
A wife has the right to spend her own money however she wants including buying gifts for her mother. There is nothing wrong with that....
Call me feminist if you want but a lot of these things genuinely sound misogynistic to me.
I’ve seen too many examples of it at this point....
And honestly I think I’ll start writing more about these things from now on....
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