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A MAN CAN NOT REMARK HIMSELF WITHOUT SUFFERING HE IS BOTH A MARBLE AND A SCULTOR LORD BREATHING ON ME @programmlau

@Ihunanya_chi @AlphaTheJay I guess your teaching us to be fearfull. Because i am a son of GOD from the time i was born i am a winner. I guess the mindset is the problem indeed But we shouldn't have chrstians who are fearfull for no major reasoning.

@AlphaTheJay Exactly, names we give our children matters too.

Let’s take some time to talk about the spirit of rejection, a spirit that quietly, subtly, and painfully affects lives, often without anyone noticing. I had a dream once that opened my eyes to the way this spirit creeps into people’s lives. In the dream, I saw how rejection can attach to a person even before they are born. It was a vivid picture: i saw two people deeply in love. Everything seemed perfect… until the woman became pregnant. Rather than joy and celebration, there was tension, fear, and confusion. The pregnancy was unplanned. They were still young and full of dreams, and suddenly, the weight of responsibility fell on them. The man wanted the pregnancy out but the woman was afraid for her life. In the middle of this turmoil, I saw something happened i saw the spirit of rejection entered the unborn child. It settled there. Eventually, the woman kept the pregnancy, and the child was born. As the child grew, the spirit’s influence became visible. He was always unhappy, always feeling that he did not belong. No matter how much love he was shown, no matter the care he received, he carried an invisible burden, a deep sense of being unwanted. That spirit whispered to him constantly: “You are not wanted.” “You don’t belong here.” “There is something wrong with you.” Even when surrounded by people who cared for him, he felt isolated. He overthought small interactions, wondering if he had been noticed, if he had been loved enough, if he mattered at all. He became a shadow of himself, trapped in fear, despair, and longing for a love that always seemed just out of reach. He even thought about ending his life, not realizing that the rejection he felt was not from people around him, but from a spirit that had attached itself to him. The spirit of rejection is subtle. It is not loud or obvious. Victims carry it silently, but its effects are devastating. It causes: • A constant feeling of being the odd one out, even in a group of friends or family • Overthinking and second-guessing every social interaction, small gesture, or word • Feeling unwanted, even when people genuinely show love • Sudden waves of sadness and despair with no clear reason It isolates its victims, making them feel like outsiders even among those who love them the most. Many who struggle with this do not even know what it is. Some think it is just part of their personality or the way they were raised, unaware that a demonic influence has been shaping their emotions, thoughts, and relationships. The dream made me understand that our words and actions carry weight. We must be careful with how we treat others. And if you are not ready for marriage or parenthood, guard yourself. Do not bring a child into the world if you are not ready to love them fully. A child who is unwanted from the start can carry the pain of rejection for a lifetime. The choices we make carelessly can leave permanent scars in the lives of others. The spirit of rejection is real, and it is relentless. It follows its victims everywhere. It distorts their perception, making them feel unworthy, unloved, and disconnected. It is one of the most destructive forces because it attacks not just emotions, but the very identity of a person.

@gamerwalt You said it so right i M very gratefull to learn son of GOD

For me, it boils down to your legacy that will outlive you. To a man, that is usually his offspring. But he has to choose a good partner first. When you have in mind you want your offspring to outlive you and continue your work, it becomes your center. Purpose without multiplication (your kids or offspring you adopt) die with you.

@gamerwalt @JakeOlson61 @lazy_viewers Thank you i mean he has GOD and GOD made him a way he can trust and who we a watching we admire how he moves. I talk about it because nowadays women dont need a struggling man.

@JakeOlson61 @programmlau @lazy_viewers This is the question. What is his purpose?

Let me be honest with you. Before marriage, I could have lived entirely for myself. Wake up when I wanted. Travel when I wanted. Spend on what I wanted. Answer to nobody. Build nothing new. Just enjoy myself and call it freedom. But that is the trap. Because a man left only to himself can become very comfortable and very empty. Marriage gave me something comfort never could... responsibility with meaning. My wife gave my life weight. My children gave my work faces. My decisions stopped being about appetite and started being about legacy. And deeper than that, marriage changed how I understood love itself. Jesus did not give Himself for the Church because He was forced to. He gave Himself willingly. That is what covenant love looks like. Sacrifice. Responsibility. Covering. Staying power. That changed me. Marriage is not just a contract to me. It is a calling to die to selfishness. To lead with sacrifice. To build with love. To become the kind of man whose presence brings peace, not confusion. That is the benefit of marriage for a man. Not just companionship. Not just sex. Not just children. It gives him a reason to become more disciplined, more selfless, more focused, more intentional. Left to myself, I already know the kind of man I could have remained... comfortable, amused, and going nowhere that truly mattered. Marriage did not cage me. It gave me a picture of Christ. And it called me higher.

@JakeOlson61 @gamerwalt @lazy_viewers His purpose as anyman to be respected or been a man everyman wishes to be. Meaning he has GOD and the direction to be a man we all admire.

@programmlau @gamerwalt @lazy_viewers Whats his purpose? Then I can answer.

@yashman03 @gamerwalt See your smart bruh most men think they are not complete thats why the fumble love.And end in a worst case

@gamerwalt Well I'm a single man but i don't indulge in all that. My point is some people need marriage to find themselves while others don't. Will i want to raise a family of my own tomorrow hell yes but is that the only way i can get purpose in life definitely not.

@gamerwalt @JakeOlson61 @lazy_viewers Brother i wish to learn more,l have a question How about a young man who knows his purpose settle most life fullfillment, he is already somehow far with life purpose how can marriage improve him. (Please with examples or rates i will be gratefull)

@JakeOlson61 @lazy_viewers Thank you!!! They never get it. And it is spelled right there. I honestly do not understand how it goes over their head. I guess it's not for everyone.

@DahDominator @stran_ger120 @gamerwalt Cool then please tell me this how does marriage helps a man with purpose he is fullfilled will most things he whats? ( AND THESE ARE THE TYPE OF MEN WOMEN WANT).

@stran_ger120 @gamerwalt Drop ur own story make we seff dey impressed since nah person we come this life come impress, ozuor

@stran_ger120 @Generalogist @gamerwalt U said so well

@Generalogist @gamerwalt Ahhh. 😂 😂

@sheilatebra @nobrokespokes True but is it devil that brings people to hurt you or is it GOD is tring to teach you something with people! Because it's crazy to believe devil has power to do something in my life.

@nobrokespokes 😍

STAY SWEET : 🫶🏽 The devil will come after you through people. He'll lead them to treat you wrong for no reason at all in an attempt to make you hard & rough. He wants to take away that sweet & humble spirit you have, but don't let them do that. God can't use you when you are hard & rough, like so many have become nowadays after they've been hurt. Stay soft, sweet & humble. Let god fight your battles. Forgive people when they wrong you . don't get bitter. that's what satan wants. stay sweet Ok 👌🏾

@Possible_Ngoke @Miss_Oluremi Maybe your right but take it to you what if a woman says you rape her then later she confese it wasn't you. Is it okay with you? With the aftermath of the situation.

@Miss_Oluremi I don't think she's wrong for insisting they're searched. She did what's best given the information she had. She should apologize but repeat it next time. People dey steal. You better rule that side out first

A new choir member came for rehearsals, she went to use the male toilet she dropped her bag at the waiting area. Some workmen were working on the youth church close to the toilet. She came out of the toilet and her phone was missing. All the men on site became suspect. They were all searched from head to toe. The girl was asked if she was sure she brought the phone to the toilet, she confirmed she did. The site supervisor was ready to go all out with his workmen. None of the workmen were believed, everyone believed one of them stole the phone. No one remembered to blame the girl for the male's toilet. Later in the day, the girl called the church to tell them she had seen her phone. she never brought the phone to the church because she left the phone at home.

@MrRadnah @Teeniiola Bruh ur just sayn the truth Feminism is a women movement and weak men.

All this stupid principles I don't believe in it... Most times it's just coincidental.... A lot of men cheating and even bring women to their matrimonial homes and the wife is angry and nothing happened to his finances.... See I'm not encouraging bad attitude but in reality we love putting ourselves in bondage that is not meant for us

As a married man, if things started going difficult for you, ask your wife, ask if she’s angry with you. If your wife isn’t happy with you in your marriage there’s no way you can move forward” — Man says

@OccultHours Surely these are the last days people like you will evolve. You think you make sense but i don't think so.

Another reminder that the Psalms are a spell book

They don’t want you to know that EVERY RELIGION uses MAGIC & “WITCHCRAFT” You think washing your hands & feet with holy water, healing, praying over waters & candles, & gathering for ceremonies on holidays isn’t magic or witchcraft? It always has been. It’s time to grow up.

@Raintheplug1 Men u need a work u need to do work this is so shit ma boy. Tale time doing some.

Look-alikes claim: This is how NBA YoungBoy & wife Jaz were moving at the viral Rick Owens fashion show! 🔥😭🖤

@Tope_Orus Naah kindaa far i am in Tanzania Arusha.

@programmlau Where is your location

I am struggling with selling mine for a while now.

@GWR Now WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS FOR DAMN WORLD!

Most forward rolls on a motorcycle in one minute - 14 achieved by Oscar Whitlock (UK)

@Ja_kasae @NdauKing @AdvoBarryRoux South Africa it's a fucked up country bruh even black people haven't feel freedom ever since. So many immgrants. Anyone wanna make it in life SA is the easiest place to.

@NdauKing @AdvoBarryRoux Come for your cold drink. Nice tackle

When you're born in Nigeria, Zimbabwe , Congo, Uganda, Kenya, Malawi, Mozambique, Burkina Faso, Tanzania, you're already at a disadvantage in life!

@pureTHABISO @NdauKing @AdvoBarryRoux Other African we believe if you want to make it in life move to south Africa because black people there are lazy. I think it's the country with most immgratants in Africa.

@NdauKing @AdvoBarryRoux I have never seen a South African Migrating to your country looking for better prospects! Can't imagine driving 40km just to drink clean water. OMG! Everytime you post,. You keep enforcing why South Africa is the best African country. Continue with the banter 🙏

U doing good. Just know simps are the one loving been simps and your out here telling em the truth, they won't like that.

Only a broke man is been accused a cheater when he cheats. A wealthy man then he cheats the wife say's these other women wants to take my man away.