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No one will ever admit it, but Google was enough.

Racism is a sign of low intelligence.

This post blew up, and the replies perfectly illustrate the exact point I was making. The most common pushback is some version of: “Nuh-uh, intelligent people can still communicate with lower-IQ individuals just fine.” I shouldn’t have to spell this out, but here we go. Nobody is claiming you can’t have a basic transactional conversation with a grocery store clerk, order food, or make small talk with your neighbor. Surface level communication works across moderate gaps. You point, you smile, you use simple sentences, it gets the job done. The real breakdown happens when you move beyond scripts and start exchanging actual ideas. That’s where the 20-point gap becomes a chasm: - One person is thinking in systems, incentives, second and third order consequences. - The other is stuck at first order, immediate, concrete terms. What feels like a crystal clear, logical argument to the higher IQ person sounds like confusing, overly complicated nonsense to the other. You’re not speaking the same conceptual language anymore. This is why high IQ people often feel chronically alienated in normal social or professional environments, and why average people can find very bright individuals exhausting, “weird,” or arrogant. It’s also why throwing together teams, friendships, marriages, or institutions with massive cognitive mismatches creates persistent friction that “just be nice” rhetoric can’t magically dissolve. Basic communication? Usually possible. Deep, accurate exchange of complex ideas? Often not.

Once you hit about a 20-point IQ gap, communication starts to completely break down. It's not that the lower IQ person is "stupid" (although that can often be the case) or the higher one is arrogant, it's that you're literally operating on different systems. A 20 point difference (roughly 1.3 standard deviations) means: Vocabulary and abstraction levels diverge sharply. What feels like crystal clear logic to one side sounds like vague, pretentious word salad to the other. Jokes land flat. Metaphors get taken literally. Complex cause and effect chains get simplified into "this good, that bad." Different time horizons and pattern recognition. One person thinks in months or years and sees systems, the other is locked into days or immediate rewards. Trying to explain second order effects feels like speaking another language. Also, processing speed and working memory gaps. The higher IQ person is already three steps ahead, getting impatient. The lower IQ person feels talked down to or overwhelmed. Both walk away frustrated. Both have wasted each others time.

Honey bee is older than allah

Very smart friend went to study in Germany in a STEM field, was so depressed by German culture that he actually loves living and working in Pakistan now 😂

Most individuals within these movements have not engaged with literature outside of their dogma; their myopic perspective is shaped primarily by the medieval teachings of religious instructors. Similar to traditional tribal societies, they perceive female independence as a threat to moral order. Consequently, they advocate for a society stripped of entertainment and female presence, creating a social climate akin to a graveyard. Operating under the belief that worldly existence is a punishment and true life begins post-mortem, they live in a state of perpetual self-punishment—a psychological trait common to extremism across all major religions.

Parfois, en tant que femme musulmane, j’ai l’impression qu’il faut avoir un cardio émotionnel énorme. Quand tu entends des discours misogynes et certains hadiths constamment utilisés contre les femmes, rester attachée à sa foi devient éprouvant. Ça crée un conflit intérieur.