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Eric Totel

@ewto

just a dude. being a better dude than the dude he was yesterday. sometimes.

Dayton, Ohio Beigetreten Haziran 2008
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H-Man🇺🇸@HarlanDaniel54·
@EricLDaugh It's not a mass shooting. It's two students against each other.
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Eric Daugherty@EricLDaugh·
🚨 UPDATE: Residents are shocked after a MASS MIDDLE SCHOOL SH00TING caused multiple deaths in Winston-Salem NC — two youths agreed to “fight each other at a park" This is total degeneracy. It SHOULDN’T HAPPEN. Pray for the victims 🙏🏻
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sstomo@autastar·
@alfkkifine this is exactly why i tell my bf when i have a problem with something, imo he is way smarter than me, and he gives me actual solutions to my problems. it's nice to be listened too so well that he figures out how to fix what im upset about before i even finish. it's great.
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The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings. ​The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy. ​Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain. We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.
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what opinion about men do you have that makes people feel like this???

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MyMe@InFluidnst·
@alfkkifine A man has asked me about my day and 30 seconds into telling him he starts doing stuff on his phone. Mind you prior to this I listened while he ranted about work for 20 minutes straight. These same men want your undivided attention at all times.
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Luis Alejandro@LuisAlejandro·
This is just plain wrong. You cannot have action and empathy at the same time, they are incompatible. The emotional state required for one is the opposite of the other. Ideally, you would offer empathy FIRST, which requires stillness, presence and understanding. After she's reached a point where she's prepared to listen to alternatives, THEN you can be pragmatic and proactive. That being said, that is TERRIBLY difficult for us men. We are always in proactive mode; we need some training to lower the guard and be present.
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Eric Totel
Eric Totel@ewto·
@nickimoraa This thread is a nice collection of chicks not worth dating! 🙌
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Nicki 🫧🪷@nickimoraa·
My boyfriend’s mom leaned over to me during dinner and whispered, “Come on and make him a plate...” My face: 😕 She says, “You gotta put more on that plate. When you make a man a plate, you gotta load it up!” Me: 🙄 He said, “Babe you didn’t have to make me a plate.” Me: I know 😐 The duality of intentionally caring for your partner while bucking the patriarchy is a thin line to walk.
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Eric Totel
Eric Totel@ewto·
@ma1ybe A lot of countries don’t have the liberal (literal sense not political don’t jump on my dick) press laws we do in the US and some other countries. In many countries the identities and pictures of the perpetrators are withheld because they don’t want to glorify sociopaths.
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Eric Totel@ewto·
@NewswirePatriot If you’re not smart enough to 1) listen to police and 2) get out of the way of a HORSE… you should probably remove your genes from the pool.
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Patriot🇺🇸Newswire@NewswirePatriot·
A "NO KINGS" protester was knocked down and nearly trampled by a LAPD Officer on horseback after refusing several orders to back up. Protest organizers are calling this "Police brutality." Was this "Police brutality" or should he have listened to the Officers? 🚔
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Eric Totel@ewto·
@Geniustechw Yes. Now make her repay all the tax money she benefited from while living illegally.
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Genius Tech@Geniustechw·
ICE deports a woman in Laredo, Texas, who’s been living illegally in the US for 39 years. Did you proudly vote for this ?
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JUNIOR ELON1💥@NelsonJunioElon·
@nypost Killing the guy is wrong and mutilating him after death is more barbaric. This woman should be jailed
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New York Post@nypost·
Mom who killed boyfriend and cut off his genitals after catching him raping her daughter cleared of murder trib.al/fTtZpiZ
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Eric Totel
Eric Totel@ewto·
@kena_ewuru Toxic masculinity seems to be working well for them. 🤣🤣
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IKENNA@kena_ewuru·
“De@th to all men” A sneak peek of what a world without men would actually look like
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Eric Totel@ewto·
@kingBuchyk @nickimoraa lmao. “Documented reports.” Illiteracy speak for “someone wrote some shit down but if I make it sound official the useful idiots will believe it. Clown.
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Buchyke@kingBuchyk·
@nickimoraa Pregnancies in detention don’t automatically mean abuse happened there some women arrive already pregnant. But there are documented reports of serious mistreatment and even sexual abuse in ICE facilities, which absolutely need investigation and accountability.
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Nicki 🫧🪷@nickimoraa·
How can girls become pregnant in an all womens facility separated from men? Oh ICE IS RAPING GIRLS.
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Eric Totel
Eric Totel@ewto·
@SenMarkKelly No one cares what you think you clown. You lost. Go away. MAGA!
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Senator Mark Kelly@SenMarkKelly·
Trump's State of the Union was nearly two hours of grievances and division that didn't lay out any path forward to address the challenges facing American families, starting with costs.
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Eric Totel@ewto·
@j_fishback “Sight unseen” seems just a tad reckless. 🤣
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James Fishback
James Fishback@j_fishback·
On Sunday, an arsonist tried to burn down my home where our staff was working. If anyone attacks our staff or volunteers, we will not wait for the police. We will shoot you dead.
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Jason DeRusha
Jason DeRusha@DeRushaJ·
Independent Twin Cities journalist Georgia Fort says federal agents came to her door at 6:30am and arrested her for filming the protest at that St. Paul church. Via her Facebook:
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Alpha News@AlphaNews·
EXCLUSIVE: Tech workers say they were mistaken for ICE agents, accosted by anti-ICE mob What began as a casual lunch between five Twin Cities software engineers quickly escalated into a frightening encounter after the men were misidentified as undercover federal agents and protesters were alerted to the Minneapolis restaurant where they were dining. Alpha News obtained video and spoke with one of the men, Lee, a software engineer from Plymouth, who described how the situation unfolded. Lee said the group was eating lunch at Clancy’s Deli, near 38th Street and Grand Avenue South, when one of the men — who belongs to an anti-ICE Signal chat — received a message from a group labeled “SW Minneapolis Rapid Response” claiming that plainclothes ICE agents were dining at the restaurant. “My friend was shocked,” Lee said. “He’s on the [anti-ICE] side politically. He lives nearby. He’s eaten there before. And suddenly he’s seeing messages saying we’re ICE.” The software engineers — all white males dressed casually in sweatshirts and jackets — were soon confronted by protesters who surrounded the restaurant, shouting insults and blowing whistles in their ears as they attempted to leave, according to Lee. Lee emphasized to Alpha News that the group’s political views were mixed, but said the encounter left some of them reconsidering their positions. “One of us is pro-ICE, one anti-ICE, others on the fence,” he said. “After this, I think some of them are rethinking everything.”
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Eric Totel
Eric Totel@ewto·
@franxrusso Well she likely stole it so she has no idea what it’s worth. 🤣
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FranR@franxrusso·
@SteveAustinWI One of the losers complaining about the nice clothes the worshipers are wearing while wearing a Canada Goose coat. 😂
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SteveAustinWI@SteveAustinWI·
I didn’t really want to watch this video but finally viewed it all just now. We really need to require our liberal friends and relatives to view it. It’s so terrible.
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MAGA Voice
MAGA Voice@MAGAVoice·
I DON’T THINK PEOPLE REALIZE WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN NEXT. BUCKLE UP…
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