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@harumichiis @mainCurioKitty terms mean set of stereotypes. So, continuing spreading them leads to making our society even more strict when it comes to social roles and gender socialization. Do you still think that's it's harmless to use such words?

@mainCurioKitty @mariewwh i can understand the idea that society should just do without expectations obviously but is that gonna happen? no. reminds me of people saying gay people shouldn't have to come out like yeah but do we live in a non-heternormative society? no, so you are seen as different anyway

“forced femininity of will”

@harumichiis @mainCurioKitty This is so nice to shift responsibility for your actions to the society. Of course society is a main problem, but when you create new frames you become part of it. And it's not defiance of stereotypes, you are just using heteronormative terms. As it's said in wiki these two

@harumichiis @mainCurioKitty Even mentioning "feminine" elements is already saying that some trait belongs to women

@mariewwh @mainCurioKitty okay good thing no one is saying that ? saying a man has feminine elements directly contrasta the idea that those elements belong to women

@mainCurioKitty If we look at the term from this side, so it's just a set of stereotypes. Spreading stereotypes isn't a good job tho

@mariewwh no. you couldnt be more further from the truth. femininity is a fluid, socially constructed set of behaviors and expressions. its not a fixed biological trait

@harumichiis @mainCurioKitty And these two things are equally bad. Clothes, personality, gestures don't belong to gender

@mariewwh @mainCurioKitty saying skirts are feminine clothing is no different from saying someone's mannerisms are feminine

@mainCurioKitty Femininity means having female body construction and that's all. Other things are just stereotypes which are 1) heteronormative 2) make social frames harder

@mariewwh yeah, unfortunately as we live in this society. and we’re atp in time where femininity is being reclaimed as something equal or even superior than masculinity so why are yall acting like its the end of the world? femininity is not an insult nor a slur

@harumichiis Vers stan? So not having homophobic and heteronormative opinion is a red flag now?? Okay bro

red flags in a byler - actors stan - favorite is mike - mike in the pfp/bio/etc - favorite season is S4 and they're nostalgic of it - obsessed with mike being skinny - has never tried to do objective analysis - believed in cg lwg etc - obsessed with mike being vecnad - vers stan

@bylermiiwi Tysm!!!

@bylermiiwi Meee!! Do you have any fics recs?

@AuroraSecunda @glitter_fear Спасибо!!

@mariewwh @glitter_fear ficbook.net/readfic/019a88… Но тут, кроме байлера, есть очень триггерная тема (всё в метках). Фик живой, обновляется регулярно и часто

Я сбилась со счета, сука, сколько раз я просто хотела почитать нормальный такой по объему байлер фф с признаниями и повседневным таким чувственным и хорошим сексом, а натыкалась на очередное «нуууу, мы типа трахаемся, я люблю его, а он меня нет сто проц» УБЕЙТЕ МЕНЯ

@AuroraSecunda @glitter_fear Можно даже нужно!!

@glitter_fear А впроцессник постканон с ER и хорошим сексом рекомендовать можно?

@MAYFlELDSMAX In my language obtuse (speaking about angle) has the same word as "dumb" so this looks even funnier

turned this shit into an smau

@annbonnys @lislizard @lohserebristy @yuna_channnnnn @AO3_Status Chrome, safari also use ai to translate websites. The most of translators have been using ai since you didn’t even know about it. So let’s cancel browsers and translating apps?

IS THERE A WAY TO STOP THIS?!?! It's NOT ao3 and NOT allowed--ao3 only exists bc ta not monetized nor is it in any app stores with their legal requirements. Yall are cheering for this when we're about to lose ao3 for good bc of shit like this @AO3_Status

@zarahlovesmiwi Can we all stop using twitter because it supports ai I'm so serious. Are u okay?

can we all mass report this account i’m so serious

@ashlxvess Continuing using this app is also supporting ai(grok) and grok creators. So choose your side instead of bullying people

@sorcererzheart Omg, I am so done with all of these gender stereotypes. The number of labels is ridiculous. Calling personality fem or masc leads to making stereotypes stronger in our society.

women thinking with their emotions + boys being more logical, his basement is described as smelly and his room is full of masculine decoration, the only idol he's had and wanted to be like was a masculine man, eddie, he likes everything traditional masculine roles offer him like

mike's dnd character is a paladin, he's aggressively protective and tackles people to defend his love interests, he makes burp jokes, he dresses from mildly masculine to very masculine, he likes handling weapons and has physical strength, he was on some toxic masculinity shit abt

@CappuChini_ @_hellshee_ I’ve never said that I am “fem” Mike truther. But I am SO tired of this way of describing characters. There is a really big variety of words you can use to talk about personality. But you choose to divide traits into the fem and masc and this is THE problem

honestly, tell me where, in the canon, Mike's femininity originates. but don't mention his metalhead hair, since that's not an aspect of femininity, it was just men's fashion from the 80s and speaking of which, just because i like to mention it, but if we're going to talk about the byler haircuts in the 80s/90s (for reference, this is Molly, the protagonist of Ghost, and these are Metallica in the 1986)

i'm convinced some bylers just don't like their canon dynamic because mike wheeler would rather kill himself than be thought of as a bimbo that clings on will's arm as will gets aggressive with others when he's jealous.

@CappuChini_ @_hellshee_ that division personal traits by gender will just make stereotypes influence stronger.

@CappuChini_ @_hellshee_ Fem or masc depends ONLY on the sex of someone (I know I will be cancelled for this opinion) If we still continue naming way of behaviour/personality masc or fem we will spread gender stereotypes. I don't say that personality doesn't depend on sex at all, but I wanna tell you