Cynic

Normalize showing these nggas you DONT need them 🤏🏾 He sent me $100 and I sent him a band back to show him I didn’t need him or his money! Ain’t no 🥷🏿 finna play in my face.

Nigerians living in Nigeria are so entitled to their relatives living abroad. My cousin is getting married in the last week of November. My husband and I already planned our trip to Nigeria for the second week of December, so I asked if she could move the wedding by a couple of weeks so we could attend. She immediately said no. Then she added, “I don’t need your presence. What I need is for you and your husband to send me ₦5 million to support the wedding.” I was shocked. So I asked her, “If my presence doesn’t matter, why does my money matter?” Her response was that plenty of people would be there for her, so there was no reason to move the wedding because of me. At that point, I ended the conversation, blocked her, and ignored calls from her mother. Later, my own mother called, asking me to unblock her because she “didn’t mean it that way.” I told my mum respectfully to stay out of it because anyone defending that level of entitlement would get blocked too. Now my family says I overreacted. Did I? What would you have done if a relative told you they don’t need your presence at their wedding, only your money?

Her 👑

One person hurt me, not a whole gender. I don’t h*te women. I h*te pigs(not the ones I sell though).. Let’s not confuse the two…

Can anyone explain why Muslim men are so obsessed with sex? They apparently think about it non-stop; they claim they must cage their women in yards of cloth so as to be able to function without being overcome with sexual desire. Why are Muslim men so weak? Western men don’t need to hide from the sight of women’s bodies; Western women lead normal, fulfilling lives, and this is part of why the West is technologically, scientifically, culturally, and morally superior to Islam. What is the flaw in Muslim men that makes them so incapable of sexual self control? They have had to cripple their entire society because of this weakness, locking women away and preventing them from making any meaningful contribution outside the home. And we see the results. The less self-control that a group of Muslim men have, the more they restrict and abuse women — the worse their societies become. Look at Afghanistan, for example. Women there are no better than slaves, and the country itself is a hellhole for everyone but the Taliban leadership — all because the men there are apparently such perverts that even the sound of a woman’s footsteps is enough to cause them to lose themselves in sin. The lesson is obvious: the worse a society treats its women, the more likely that society is to fail. So why, then, are Muslim men so slow to grasp this concept? What is it that makes them incapable of the self-control which Western men and boys exhibit every day without thinking twice? What is it about Islam that makes men so obsessed with sex that half of society has to hide itself away so that they can function? It’s bizarre — and frankly, it’s pathetic that grown men cannot take responsibility for their own thoughts and actions. It’s also beyond hypocrisy for Muslims to lecture Westerners on morality. Your morals are so weak that you use the sight of a woman’s face — the existence of women, and even little girls — as a justification for male sin. Shame on you. Be men. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, and stop acting like a bunch of pathetic children. “And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out and cast it from thee…”

Nigerian men frowned and refused to stand up while Chike performed

💔My younger brother called me yesterday and said: “Please don't be angry, but I need your advice” I asked what happened. He said his wife gave birth 3 weeks ago and they've been arguing ever since. Apparently, during her pregnancy, she lost her job. So for almost a year, my brother paid the rent, hospital bills, feeding, baby items, transportation, everything. Last week, his wife received a call from a company she had interviewed with months ago. They offered her a job and everyone was excited. But problem started when she got her first salary. My brother said he casually asked what she planned to do with it. She replied: “It's my money. I've suffered enough. I want to enjoy my salary for once” He laughed and thought she was joking but she wasn’t. A few days later, she bought a new phone, expensive wigs, clothes and booked a spa appointment. Meanwhile, according to him, their rent expires in two months and the baby's hospital bills are still hanging. He said he wasn't expecting her to hand over her entire salary. But he felt hurt that after carrying the family alone for so long, she didn't even think of contributing anything voluntarily. When he complained, she got angry and said: “Just because you helped your family doesn't mean I owe you my salary” Now both families have joined the matter. The wife's family says she's entitled to enjoy the first salary she has earned after months of pregnancy and childbirth. My brother's family says marriage is partnership, not a place where one person carries all the burden while the other spends freely. They're both refusing to apologize and I’m confused here. He asked me last night: “Am I wrong for feeling hurt… or is she right to enjoy her first salary like this because I’m new in marriage. Is this how it is?💔” I don’t even know what to tell him. What would you do in his position?

Some women can really be unkind to men sometimes.... There is this woman in my church that is always complaining about her husband. Meanwhile she always looks very neat and well put together in church so one day I finally asked her what she does for a living. She said she has not worked for years even though she knows how to make hair. According to her, her husband has not given her “big money” to open a salon She also said they have 8 children. The first is already a graduate, another just entered university while the others are still in secondary and primary school. I asked her who has been training all these children in this economy. She said: “My husband.” I asked who pays the rent for the duplex they live in. She said: “My husband.” Who feeds the house? “My husband.” I even asked despite this economy, is he still keeping up with responsibilities? She said yes I just quietly left the conversation. In all the narrating her husband to people, she has never for once mentioned all he does...

My aunt called my mum to report that I was living with a man. My mum called me immediately and said "your aunt just called me." I said okay. She said "is it true?" I said what exactly did she say. She said she said you're cohabiting with a man.. you're not married and this is not how we raised you. I took a breath and said auntie should face her marriage. My mum said that's not a response. I said okay fine. I'm not living with a man. He lives with me. I pay the rent. My name is on the lease.. He is a guest in my space. My mum went very quiet. Then she said "so it's true."...

Women go any length to get what they want! My guy has been crying, my dm don full. He said his babe of 3 years recently celebrated her 25th birthday Without a single kobo from him. According to him, she asked for money to do it big Since she’s halfway to 30 & wanted it to be a proper celebration. He explained to her that there was no money... the economy is hitting his business hard right now. Two days later She sent him pictures of a hall she booked for 750k naira And said she handled everything by herself. Mind you, this girl only earns 75k monthly from her work. The birthday went well & was successful, but my guy is still in serious pain. He’s asking if is right to confront her ? Since he didn't contribute on the birthday Honestly I don't have answers for him. What do you think and what will you do in such situation ?

Dear Madam, I stand here today to apologize. & to also make you understand that, when I met your husband 4 years ago, I was totally unaware he was married. He never mentioned it. All these years I've dated him without a clue that, he has a wife and kids I was 29 when we started; now I'm 33, only to discover he has a wife & 5 kids with you, ma. Please put yourself in my position or – judge me as your biological sister. When you warned me 2 months ago to stay away from him, I had mixed feelings & anger over wasted time. And when i later came to you to explain myself & plead with you, you refused listening to me, instead you send me out of your shop & warned never to see me On several occasions ma, I tried reaching out to you, but you refused talks & blocked me on all networks. Ma'am, I plead with you to reconsider. I promise to respect you– not just as head wife but also as an elder sister. At 33 ma, where & how do I start building another relationship? I'm so sorry that, I couldn't leave him as you warned ma cuz I'm scared i might not find another husband. I've been so attached to him; I love him & at this point, i can't even imagine my life without him ma Leaving is difficult – switching to another man will be harder. This is why I stayed after he promised to make me second wife. Ma'am, I tried reaching out for woman-to-woman talk, but you refused & blocked me. Ma, I'm really sorry it's happening like this, sincerely i didn't plan it either. You're a woman like me ma, & i do believe your heart isn't made of stone, pls put yourself in my position. I believe you do have a good heart & understand me I'm from a good home, trained humble & respectful. I promised you no regrets or trouble. Please accept me ma – as I'm already a month pregnant with your husband's child. This baby needs a father; the child is innocent ma, please I'm begging 😭😭😭😭"

Polygamy is very funny, it was when my grandpa d!ed his other wives knew they was surviving on my grandma’s money🤣🤣🤣 My grandma was the first wife and honestly heaven knows I don’t have that type of patience. He married 3 extra women on her head. After his death they found out the house was built in my grandma’s name

My friend had this guy that disturbed her more than 3 months.. She finally agreed for them to have talking stage before they officially dating. Two weeks to the talking stage, she visited him and asked for a little money, The guy went inside, brought out paper, wrote down an agreement and asked her to sign it. " I will refund any money I collect from you if this doesn't work out" Out of anger, she dropped the paper and left the house immediately.. For over 6days, the guy didn't bother to call nor chat her up.. She was expecting an apology but the guy blocked her instead.. I told her otilo!!!! Some guys don't have chilling at all.

A woman in the UK, 42, worked as a nurse for nearly 15 years. Long shifts. Night shifts. Christmas shifts. Her husband always told her money was tight, so she picked up extra hours whenever she could. She paid most of the bills, covered the mortgage, and even used an inheritance from her late mother as the deposit for their family home. The house was bought in both their names because, according to him, “that’s what married couples do.” One day she noticed £12,000 had disappeared from their joint account. Her husband claimed it was a business investment. A few months later another £15,000 was gone. Same excuse. What he didn’t know was that she had quietly hired an accountant to go through their finances.