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Isn’t that Simi who just married Dapson? Why is she moving around to nightclubs with Lagos 'baddies'? Hmmm!

"I regret marrying a white woman and outside my culture." One of the multiple reasons your forefathers married two or three wives is because of the misconception that a woman’s insufferable nature is an individual flaw, not a female gender–associated traits - which, by the way, it is. So they married a second wife to better their experience with the first, and a third to better their experience with the first and second wives, and so on until the realization that women, regardless of race, tribe, age, body size, or position, are all the same. This man right here in this video quite stupidly blames his predicament on the race of the woman he married. But if you look at him closely, you’d see that he is a man built for such a fate with women. Whether Black or White. I tell modern-albeit stupid-men (not because I am older, but because I am a man cursed with the gift of observation) not to prioritize looking for a good woman more than they prioritize becoming the man whom most women are good to. And often, these clueless men say things like, “That’s too much work, just be yourself and your woman will come,” blah blah… Idiots. However, I will say it again: All women are bad to a particular kind of man, and all women are good to a particular kind of man. Exceptions do not alter this phenomenon. Simps suffer loss with women; “bad” guys do not have such experiences. And in both cases, the only constant is women - the difference is in the men. A woman is everything, but most certainly a reflection of the man standing next to her. The word “woman” is basically a question: “who-man.” All women are the same; their behavior toward men is generic, and its variations are contingent on the kind of man she is interacting with. This is to say that, Women are both good and bad in isolation. But in relation to a man, the expression of their truest nature is shaped by the benefits, consequences, and boundaries the man presents. This man right here, who lost his kids to the wife who left him, co-created the environment that allowed such a predicament to emerge. I do not have to be an eyewitness to whatever transpired between him and his ex-wife to know that he was a man nice to a fault, a man who worshiped the ground his wife walked on. The exact profile of men women publicly profess attraction to but never treat well in relationships. The point I have so far hinted at is this: a woman’s character is not independent of the masculine climate around her. It is shaped by it. Women treat men in categories - weak, strong, poor, rich - you choose which category you belong to, and what treatment you receive. There are good women, and there are men whom women, good or bad, are good to. Women of loyalty exist in the shadow of men who make it risky not to be loyal. Women become disciplined or chaotic depending on the masculine climate they stand in; a man must hold his line for a woman to find a boundary. But I am tired of telling modern men that knowing their environment and all therein is a natural responsibility of a man. Because if they were listening, they would accept this education and wield the knowledge about women to their advantage.

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A guy who is currently 44 years old. He refused to marry because he earns 60k as a school teacher. He is staying with his brother because he cannot afford to rent a place. He said he would rather remain single forever than bring a wife and children into suffering. He doesn't do gambling, or waste money on unnecessary things. Should he be encouraged to marry?

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“My Oy!nbo wife took my children who are now grown away from me, and they’ve abandoned me. Now I’m lonely and suffering, having lost everything I worked for. I did nothing wrong to them. I always provided and worked hard for my family. I regret marrying a white woman and outside my culture” - Nigerian man cries out 💔