Sa’adatu✨

Watch and repost Aggressively! I genuinely believe appointing Amupitan as INEC Chairman will be one of the reasons why Bola Tinubu will lose woefully in 2027. Northern Sheikhs alone will make him lose millions of votes.

My contribution to society is I don’t speak when I’m not educated enough on a topic

@Iam_Musteey @Dr_Meenerh Anything sweet is female 🥸

Yesterday, I referred to plantain as masculine, while my elder sister referred to it as feminine I said “Gaskia inason plaintain shi kam” and she replied “Plaintain kam ai kowa na sonta” I laughed 😂, and said see how you sounded as if plantain is female, and she responded “It’s a female mana”. Honestly speaking, I don’t know which one is correct

@rochieng600 @drifeleah Everything she wrote Na choosing husband you see 💔

@drifeleah How will a woman choose a partner. It's men who do the choosing. On that part, this post is very insensitive.

For any female intending to have a career, it’s very IMPORTANT to have a partner who is supportive in every way and hands on when it comes to household responsibilities /care of the children .. . For instance , I’m an Acute medicine resident doctor with 2 boys and working full time … . 1. Meals - I meal prep in bulk and freeze them - My husband cooks as well and buys the groceries most times (I just send the list of items to him and quantities ) - At times I arrange with a good cook to make some meals if I can’t do that myself 2. Cleaning - My husband and I take turns to do laundry and wash the toilets (weekly ) - For school uniforms , I get enough pairs to last a week - My husband does the hovering most times - I contract this out at times - Dishwasher for plates . Tips for career women trying to balance it all: •Choose your partner wisely : support at home is not a luxury, it’s essential •Stop trying to do everything yourself : delegation is a life skill •Plan ahead : meal prep, organise outfits, structure your week •Outsource when you can: cleaning, cooking, childcare… protect your energy •Lower the pressure of perfection : done is better than perfect •Communicate clearly : don’t assume your partner “should just know” •Protect your rest : burnout helps no one •Make time for yourself : you are more than your career and your responsibilities . The main thing is to be on the same page with one’s partner and do what works best for you as a family ..

@Iameziokwu You’re right they have sleepovers and her mum will thought Na Zainab her friend 😂🫢

@SDogohn Exactly. Besides, they're both young. A lot of things, even worse happens under parents roofs. If he wasn't caught, you'd be surprised that it's not his first time of coming there

There are men who will text “I miss you” and immediately go to sleep. Then there is Abbas. He put on a Hijab, adjusted his voice, risked being disgraced, beaten, arrested, and turned into the biggest topic in Yobe just because he wanted to see his girl. William Shakespeare would have looked at this and quietly opened a notebook. This is the kind of foolish, reckless, dangerous love that built stories like Romeo and Juliet. Not because it was wise. But because it was so intense that common sense stopped working. Imagine the planning. Borrowing clothes. Sneaking through the street. Rehearsing how to walk. Hoping nobody notices your voice is too deep or your slippers are size 46. Then entering another man's house knowing that if you are caught, you are finished. And he still went. People should stop saying Nigerian men are not romantic. Some of them are out here risking their freedom, their dignity and the possibility of becoming a permanent family story told every Christmas.

@Iameziokwu Exactly their daughter was the mastermind behind allowing him to enter their home

@SDogohn The girl in question is aware that he's coming. It's just that he was caught. Abass is not the only person wrong here, even the girl is at fault. They should just forgive him or punish him by telling him not to come again. It's just youthful exuberance

@abdool_moh @AuwalVirah Ahh zaria😂🫢

2 million people saw your defamation post which you are yet to delete because you are enjoying the engagements. That is twice the population of Zaria. But only less than 300k people have seen your apology. Sarkin Mota should teach you a lesson. Next time you will try to create meaningful content not throw baseless accusations at people who worked hard to build their reputation.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم سبحان الخالق المصور سبحان الله

Don't let anybody gaslight you. What is happening in Nigeria is not normal.

Albarkacin ranar faɗakarwa kan lalurar Autism, mun zanta da wata mahaifiya wadda take wayar da kan iyaye a shafukan sada zumunta kan lalurar. Ta kuma faɗa mana yadda take kula da ʼyarta wadda ke fama da lalurar. Tace hoto - Fatima Othman

@_Omalicha_nwa 6months is enough to understand the person the remaining issues you will not even if you be together for 10years unless you have been together in marriage

Very possible but in most cases after a few months or a few years of the wedding, it ends in tears.... This is why it's good to take time for at least a YEAR or more than 6 months.

@Iam_Musteey @Chubado_a Thank you 🙏

Wallahi babu shi. The only things that can prevent a man from eyeing other women are faith, fear of God, and strong moral principles. It is never about the woman, but always about the man and his self-discipline and conduct. It is his decision, not how you present or package yourself.

At the end of the day, you will realise that incorporating Islamic ethics into your life is the only way to achieve peace, success, and tranquillity.

@MrsBu_ 😂😂🫢

This app is quite interesting. 😂😂😂 So, some women just want to permanently live off of men? That’s it? What a wow!

@ahmedhalimah02 You explain it the way life is supposed to be with anyone

I think more married couples need to speak honestly about this whole 50/50 marriage conversation, because a lot of the unrealistic expectations people carry into marriage today are quietly setting many unions up for failure. The truth is, there is really no such thing as a rigid 50/50 marriage in real life.
Marriage is not mathematics. It is not always balanced neatly . Sometimes it is 100/100, sometimes 80/20, sometimes one person carries more than the other for a season. What matters is not the exact ratio, but the willingness of both people to show up fully for the success of the union. For marriage to become what it was truly designed to be, both parties must be intentional, responsible, and willing to bring their best selves into it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with supporting your spouse financially, domestically, emotionally, or mentally, regardless of gender. That is the whole point of partnership. You are not enemies. You are not competitors. You are meant to be on the same side. That said, another truth many people may not like to hear is that in most successful marriages, the woman often ends up giving more. Not necessarily because she is lesser, weaker, or meant to be exploited, but because consequences of actions and inactions are not the same for Man and Woman, especially in this our part of the world, and sadly, we can’t “woke” ourselves out of our realities. Biology, society, childbearing, emotional labor, and even reputation tend to place different weights on both genders, whether people like it or not. The earlier people understand that marriage may not always demand the same things from both people at the same time, the better prepared they will be for real life. Where it all becomes dangerous is when both people enter marriage already carrying fixed selfish ideologies. A man who is already determined to split bills with his wife no matter the circumstance, and a woman who is already determined never to contribute to the financial or practical stability of the home no matter the situation, are both already entering the union with the wrong mindset. That is not partnership.
That is two people preparing to protect themselves from each other instead of preparing to build together. And that is one of the fastest recipes for a disastrous union. A healthy marriage is not built on; “What is the least I can do?” “How do I avoid being used?” “How do I make sure I don’t give more than you?” It is built on; “What does this home need from me, and am I willing to give it?” That is what sustains a marriage. Not social media unrealistic standards.

Yes you can come, just don't be weird. Me:

Avoid people who respect only rich people.

@NaijSpider @MrsBu_ I know it’s your parents marriage or siblings make you believe it’s okay for a women to do it all in my own upbringing it’s not right and im not doing it. Dont try to convince me otherwise

@SDogohn @MrsBu_ I don't know if it's the marriages of your parents or siblings or the increasing poverty that makes you folks have these jaundiced takes. Some of us have been running homes for over a decade, and money is a tool for our spouses and us. Not something to drag the other with.

I’m a wife, mother, daughter, sister, professor, business owner & I own some shares in different companies. I work, go home, cook, take care of our kids, I meet Hubstar’s sexual needs & help pay our kids’ car insurance & health insurance. Married 20 years PLUS!