@boddaramz Like why would you need to tell someone “Definitely be sure to thoroughly read the tags!” And it’s just… fluff? Pretending the implication of a dddne tag isn’t dark in some way is just pedantic at this point
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StayCharmed
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StayCharmed
@StayCharmedShop
Skz || 🐺 biased || semi NSFW || Unapologetic shipping/thirsting || Cringe personified || in kpop years I’m dead
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@boddaramz It’s always meant that. As someone who has been in fandom since 2003, the joke wouldn’t have been funny if cotton candy had been in the bag. The point is than it’s something dark/disgusting. People who don’t like that content have tried to alter the meaning to nothing.
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▪️ for @BaldaquinEsq as part of @ficflashdrive
▪️ minchan
▪️ rated m, 1.6k
▪️ fem!minho + first meetings + D/s undertones
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@bullet_tears You’re not making sincere criticisms though, you’re levying words with pretty sinister implications then pretending you don’t have 800 followers when asked if you think that’s truly fair. If you only like 5 songs & saw 2 tweets, how could you know enough to offer a real critique?
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@77738379_ The irony of reading rpf while being disgusted by women daring to have sexual fantasies about men that don’t hold them in a perfect light. Or how about the irony passing THEIR pictures for us is fine, but if they were showing each other pictures made for them it’d be disgusting
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no what is some's obsession w perceiving skz as sleazy men why do you actively wish for them to be creepy
mar 🏳️🌈@Iesbianmings
stays literally being like "what if men treated us like objects and shared our pics between them 😍😍😍" right now. it is officially over you people need serious help
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@ot7mikrokosm @SleepyAlchemy_ @TheNine13986429 @Imjaebabie Were you even in fandom then? Why would we have gone out of our way to say "This fic is totally normal, so make sure to read the tags!" What would be the point lmao We have always used dd:dne as a means of saying there's something weird in this bag, and you have been warned.
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@SleepyAlchemy_ @TheNine13986429 @Imjaebabie can’t equate a television joke that was inspiration for the name of a tag with the history of the tag itself.
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when you know what dead dove actually means this as a tag makes absolutely no sense. it’s like saying “what i say is in this fic seems to be in the fic but also no it isn’t”
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new ao3 tag: not so dead dove 😂
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a toll, a tithe, the passage of time
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🌊incest
🌊character study
🌊mental health issues
🌊written for @folgersfest 🩵
🔗archiveofourown.org/works/76346306
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@honeysyri @NemoEntropy Again, show me the studies that taboo content influences people to commit actual harm irl cause I’m pretty sure @purity_culture has pinned threads showing literally dozens and dozens of ACTUAL studies that show the opposite.
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@StayCharmedShop @NemoEntropy Art therapy, drama therapy, see how propaganda through fiction works, mood and attachment, though I thought the "I use fiction to cope" crowd would know it helping you cope means it's affecting you.
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this whole moral panic over fiction affecting reality came from some conservatives noticing that kids who enjoy queer media/fandom are more likely to come out, so they psy-op'd gen z into thinking "fiction will make you a sex predator" bc that's what queers are to them 😑
Mie࿐ Aprilus@seraphicsylus
Fiction always affects reality.
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@NemoEntropy The unfortunate homophobic moral panic that happened doesn't cancel out all the studies that have been made about the ways fiction affects people's minds, behaviour, beliefs, ecc.
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@hansighh I’m sorry ppl are being weird to you over this. Obv this has nothing to do with any collab to you, it’s a subtle representation of an idol you love & I think it’s very sweet! It’s literally just a star, not like your arm says slbs 🤦♀️ only chronically online ppl think that way
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@xBlythx @torigates Gently pushing back but “silent treatment” is not a clinical term. Clinicians might talk about stonewalling or emotional withdrawal, but “silent treatment” isn’t used in any standardized diagnostic way. It’s a colloquial term with colloquial connotations, not clinical language.
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@10Homogenic @frutigerkid Oooohhhh okay I get it now, you’re just nuts and you enjoy being mean to well intentioned people. That makes a lot more sense lmaooo
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@StayCharmedShop @frutigerkid The fact that yall are labeling as positive or negative speaks for itself yall don’t have to wonder why ppl get offended over yall judging him over things humans do. And the fact that she’s judging if it’s healthy or not the way he copes in her replies it’s not good
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me when i'm at the holding idols to unrealistic expectations because i forget they're human competition and user tori gates walks in
Tori@torigates
not to undermine Chan's leadership at all because I think everyone's been clear that he's a great leader but learning that he used to sulk and give people the silent treatment when he was upset is just so,,, so,, idk, it's very something and I will be chewing on this for a while
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@10Homogenic @frutigerkid I think it reads more like “I’m not trying to imply he’s a bad leader for having human emotions, so don’t take this that way”. It’s just interesting to think about these things but that doesn’t have to take away from the more “positive” aspects of their personality, no?
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@StayCharmedShop @frutigerkid When op says “not to undermine Chan’s leadership” why do you think that is for? She’s making a critique based on Chan’s position as a leader and not as a human if it was that way she wouldn’t bring up his leadership
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@10Homogenic @frutigerkid Where is OP suggesting that though, I’m not seeing that all? Just sounds like it’s so interesting to see this side of him considering how sanitized their images can be.
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@StayCharmedShop @frutigerkid For him not to cope the way he did in the situation he was in, “expecting better” cause he’s the leader (that’s why op brought it up)
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Not everyone mad at these people for being horny, meanwhile the person who made the post is fine with racism.
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[2 Kids Room(투키즈룸) 2025] Ep.09 현진 X 한
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#StrayKids #스트레이키즈
#현진 #Hyunjin
#한 #HAN
#2KidsRoom #투키즈룸
#YouMakeStrayKidsStay
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I just miss when fandom was known as a weird kids space and being weird and freaky was expected. Now we're playing respectability politics in the freak zone. No. Go away.
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@bluechanadmirer You engaged with me, not the other way around so why is it so deep for you? Again literally no one is “doing” anything to their families, you guys are reaching so hard to excuse gross mean girl behavior.
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Damn I didn't know it was this deep for you 😭
Ofc I'm cringe. I cry over how amazing Chan is and I've waved poetic about his beauty more than once. Who do you think is trying to be cool here 😭
Be corny and free idgaf, just leave their families alone. The end.
StayCharmed@StayCharmedShop
@bluechanadmirer @ShadowSiren666 @sadannasthetic I mean, nice dodge but if you’re not gonna answer my question why would I answer yours lmao Enjoy being the coolest, least cringe kpop fan, lucky you, you’re so special!
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