Psychology speak is becoming something in this generation. Once someone does something in a different way them go slap avoidant on am.
If any of you deal with a real avoidant you won’t have mouth to talk.
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Sugar Baby aka Nwunye optimus prime
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Sugar Baby aka Nwunye optimus prime
@_Adaolysa
Can't you see I belong to someone rich 🥰❤️
Abuja, Nigeria Joined Ağustos 2013
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I express my emotions better via writing too as I can address each point well. Talking takes all senses(hearing, sight, taste, brain function) at the same time. I honestly don’t process that fast, so texting is my best way to express. We can talk later after I am clear.
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This is not avoidance. Avoidants don’t even address anything at all. Text o, talk o, even if you kneel down to beg. If you pressure them too much they will disappear on you for weeks and come back to act like nothing happened. You are regulating your emotions and that’s great!!!
dede@derinmama
honestly, mr eazi is me on many days🫠. there are probably better ways, and we should learn the tools to meet our partners halfway. for me, writing is the easiest way to express my thoughts. we can talk after i write so we don’t miss anything, but if i try to talk it through immediately, especially when i’m upset, i’ll be incoherent. they call us avoidant, but i think it’s just a different way of processing.
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Until the house that owns the colour decides to involve you in their inter house sports.
Șanya11🗿@Sanyaa011
Why can’t Nigerian guys style their outfits with a beret?
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@AlexWriter1234 Yup
It’s the best way to regulate emotions.
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This is not an avoidant behavior. Avoidants disappear and come back to act like nothing happened. They do not address things.
Eazi just regulates his emotions in a way that helps him communicate better. For instance, I can say alot when I'm mad, so I learnt to step back, talk l8r
Roger Otis@Otis441D
Mr Eazi is not weird, he is just avoidant. People with an avoidant attachment style typically don’t want an emotional exchange right there and then. They prefer to withdraw, process things privately, and come back when they are calm. If your person is like this btw, the advantage with this is... > It gives them time to think, > They have control over their words, > And like Mr Eazi who writes, they use a structured way to express everything without interruption. She probably didnt take time to understand the man she got married to.
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This is not what it means to be a conflict-avoidant person, however. An avoidant wouldn’t even want to address the issue at all.
That people take time to process and choose a medium that’s more effective for them to communicate ≠ they’re avoiding conflict. They’re basically practicing emotional regulation as they know how.
I know psyche-speak is common now and everyone is adopting it, but please, let’s be careful with our diagnoses and projections.
Roger Otis@Otis441D
Mr Eazi is not weird, he is just avoidant. People with an avoidant attachment style typically don’t want an emotional exchange right there and then. They prefer to withdraw, process things privately, and come back when they are calm. If your person is like this btw, the advantage with this is... > It gives them time to think, > They have control over their words, > And like Mr Eazi who writes, they use a structured way to express everything without interruption. She probably didnt take time to understand the man she got married to.
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Me busy making my bed on the floor.
My rich cousin: You also do Yoga??
Me:
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So you are hoping on poor people so that labor will be cheap. Got it!
Emilio@Factoriah
@softangrygirl Dumbass just say anything without understanding ripple effect. Inflation high like this you dey cry, make cost of labor go up because declining birth rate make life worse for you 10x
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Turned 30 today and this is my win list from my 20s;
1. Got an M.Sc
2. Got an MBA
3. Became a very senior manager
4. Started a service based business
5. Hit my 30th milestone savings and investment target
6. Got married
7. Had 3 children
8. Walked away from an extremely abusive marriage despite society’s opinion
9. Fully recovered from an autoimmune disease induced by abuse
10. Beat depression and have started sleeping so well it’s becoming worrisome 😂
All in all, I got through my 20s unscathed and I am simply grateful🥹
Truly, abum Nwachinemere, God is undoubtedly biased towards me🥳🥳🥳
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@_Adaolysa That’s her name? Wow! Money na really water for where she de o
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How are you on a break and doing joint practice? Doesn't that defeat the purpose of a break?
Ebosata🧡🧡@Ebosata
@callmetobiloba People do, in cases where the break is for them to go work on themselves and it has to be a joint practice
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@Kimbluegreen @TALKGlRL @GnosisWolf Now that's more like it. Those dresses in the videos made her look older than she is supposed to be. Not flattering at all. She will be a very gorgeous bride in the right style for her body.
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Daniella for sure
If she isn't pregnant she should please explore more flattering styles. Being plus size can be very fashionable too.
ℒ𝒶𝓊𝓇𝒶ꨄ@TALKGlRL
💍 This bride-to-be is getting married this year and needs help finding her dream dress!! 👰♀️ Which dress flatters her the most? 😍 Vote for your favorite: Amelia, Lyla, Jasmin, Faye, or Daniella✨ Drop your pick in the comments! 🙌
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You can't relax and tolerate your wife but you want Nigerians to relax and tolerate the failure of Tinubu...
Your head dey kolo!
Yul Edochie@YulEdochie
Men stop tolerating nonsense in the name of marriage or relationship. If your wife or girlfriend doesn’t respect you, dump her immediately and get someone who respects you. Your respect as a man is non negotiable.
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Also it seems alot of you aren't mature enough to be doing casual sex then. What do you need the emotions for? If you wanna date him better tell him.
Basic respect is a must, asides that get your nut and go home.
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girl absolutely tf not. words mean things. don’t ever say no shit like this again
The real is back🤷🏾♀️.@ItsMimaMonopoly
Casual sex with emotionally unavailable men feels like rape. I don’t see how bitches do that shit just to be doing it. Stop lettin these niggas rape yall.
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That's how I recognize really wealthy people. Their major choice of jewelry.
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Maggie wears diamonds like no man's business. True luxury living. Investing in her liability like mad. That's true money!!!
Everest@novieverest
If you want to know if Peter Obi is rich, follow Margaret Obi. She no dey hide the wealth. E dey smell and show for her body and lifestyle.
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