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Stein der Hilfe 🇨🇦

@ebenezer_simi

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I want to put this out here because some single persons who are about to make the ultimate decision of marriage might need it: There’s a big difference between being financially comfortable as a single person and being comfortable when you’re married. As a single person, it’s easy to feel like you’ve figured things out because your expenses are controlled and predictable. But the moment you get married, your baseline for everything changes. What you see as financial comfort now would require much more management to be enough. Because you have to feed, shelter and cater for 2 adults. If you really want to understand or get ahead of it, take your current recurring expenses and multiply it by 4. That’s the kind of financial capacity it takes to maintain the same level of comfort you currently enjoy as a single person. There is more. Being married without children is one thing. When you introduce children into the equation, the demands increases. At that point, multiply your single person expenses by eight for two kids. That’s when the real weight of responsibility starts to show. Those ‘luxuries’ and cravings you will still be able to afford them, but you would not buy them. Because bills will come at you thick and fast, never ending. Eventually, you recondition to anticipate unforeseen expenses and become more conservative with personal spending. My point is: Prepare. Have a trajectory and make sure you marry a partner who would work to support your home. That way, your income increases proportionally with your expenses. Many single people think they’ve cracked the code on financial comfort and they jump into marriage without well detailed plans. They forget to factor that as single people, they’re operating in a controlled environment with limited variables. You can only understand it when you step into that phase of life.

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She fell first. He fell harder. She lost feelings, He can't move on. Sounds familiar? I got you bro. welcome to the family.
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You know that thing y'all were posting on your Tl last week "if you are tired,call me I will cook any food of your choice". I'm tired 💔 I want stir fry spaghetti with turkey and plantain 😌 Thank you ❤️
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@ebenezer_simi No push me for talk abeg No be me go tell your story 😂😂 and yes I didn’t meet my man on this app 🥰
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