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Dear woman, cohabitation does not favour you in any way You get the shorter end of the stick always My parents have been married for over 30 years and they are still learning each other. People are still constantly evolving and there is no such thing as getting to know someone before you marry them. Even that person does not know who exactly they would be in 20 years. Marriage is about knowing the basics and who has the same fundamental values as you and trusting God and taking that leap So all these things they say about knowing who you can live with and all that is rubbish. It’s all a ploy to get benefits of marriage without actually committing to you You’re not a car to be test run. Any man that cannot respect you enough to do the needful and make an honest woman out of you does not deserve you. You’re a person with intrinsic value that matured and grows and evolves over time and marriage is about learning each other, accepting and adjusting as you both grow. A man puts you in a house that’s most likely his, so you don’t grow and have you own stuff, you’ll be there mostly likely cooking and cleaning and doing wifely duties, some will even get pregnant and have children, and tomorrow he can wake up and decide that you’re not compatible. You better wise up.