@Victoria_bou6 @WillAttract Welcome to the world of double standards. Women are allowed to have sex with their man whenever they want. Men aren't allowed to have sex with their woman whenever they want. So is life.
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Rusty shackleford
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
If you're making out with your husband without letting him fuck?
It's marital rape.
emily may@emilykmay
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.
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@JessPected @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 34% of 2600 is 800 and some. So, 800 out of 3 billion humans is now what?
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@Rustyshackyq4 @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 Yes. One study has 34% of wives admitting they were sexually coerced. Another study showed 95.1% men admitted to sexual coercion. Sexually coercive rape is common no matter how much men want to deny it.
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it’s pretty clear that the average man really isn’t all that opposed to rape under the condition that it isn’t overtly violent and the word rape isn’t used
far too many women and girls have been coerced into sex by their partners for this to not be the case
emily may@emilykmay
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.
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@JessPected @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 2600 anonymous people. Must mean the majority of women or relationships or marriages. I don't think y'all grasp how polls work. 😂
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
Something this whole discussion has really demonstrated is that highly atypical women with 99th percentile levels of sexual neuroticism have an outsized influence on social media genderslop discourse
Most married women are happily sleeping with their husbands regularly, and if there's a time when they're not 100% in the mood, they have sex anyway, happy to make their husbands happy, and don't give it a second thought.
On social media however, you have HIGHLY NEUROTIC women for whom sex is an massive, anxiety-provoking deal that needs perfect setup and perfect consideration and perfect emotional handling from the man every single time. And if they don't get it, they freak out, and their freak out is INTERNAL, so the husband never knows what's going on, instead they go online and talk about Martial Rape and Abuse and how their husbands Use Them As A Fleshlight and if the husbands aren't happy with what's going on they can Go Jerk Off. The important thing to keep in mind is that these women are a very small percentage of the female pop, and don't need to be taken that seriously
emily may@emilykmay
married women, have you ever said yes to sex because you didn't want to deal with his moodiness if you said no?
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@Eowyn_the_Fair @AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese If it lead to more, more often, this wouldn't be an issue. However, women take and take and take and expect their husbands or boyfriends to just accept it and give and give. Regardless. Hello double standards.
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@AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese The original post was about women wanting to have affection without the expectation that it MUST lead to more.
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Withholding sex in marriage is abusive, because it deprives the husband or wife of sexual intimacy yet leaves them with no legitimate avenue to fulfil a perfectly healthy & normal human desire.
Withholding coerces them to choose either:
- deprivation
- cheating
- divorce
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
@Eowyn_the_Fair @aimeeterese There is nothing wrong with saying no. It's just when the "No's" hit a certain percentage compared to the "Yes's".
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
I am not familiar with the sex therapist in question but as a well adjusted normal person in a marriage not filled with contempt and resentment for each other it's trivially easy to understand the logic of "make out in bed every night and see what happens" as relationship advice*
Nondescript User@PacingJouska
Kiss during the day while you're doing shit and there actually is no expectation. Means more then, anyway. Thinking an extended makeout session at night in bed followed by "um, this was actually nonsexual" is reasonable explains this:
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@soupcanarchist @HailHydra666 Most women have responsive desire, but guess what, you have to allow your husband to try, for you to respond to. If you never allow the attempt, you will never respond. Rejection is not attempting and then wondering why he reacted in a hurt way. Because you rejected him.
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@HailHydra666 You compared sex to playing board games and doing dishes. Repeatedly dismissed the idea that female arousal is important to success rate for sex.
From where I am sitting. In a living thriving marital bed.... Its definitely you not getting it.
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I gotta say: maybe the sex feeling like a "long board game you don't feel like playing" is actual issue...
ThoughtCriminal@HailHydra666
@soupcanarchist @GayBearRes Imagine it’s “board game night” and you don’t quite feel like sitting down for a long game of mysterium but you do it anyway because it’s a family thing. And then! Surprise! You end up having a great time. Same for sex.
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@biemelneus @SisterBeech You think a woman will want to have sex with her husband every single time he wants to over the course of a 60 year marriage and that if she ever doesn’t on a given night that means she married someone she doesn’t like having sex with?
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It's - "narcissistic" - to not have sex with your husband when he wants you to but you don't.
Sis Snark in Purple@WeAllNeedJesus1
@wil_da_beast630 All of their arguments are just narcissistic, “what do I get out of this?” Just once, I’d like them to say something they do for their husbands just because they love them and want to make them happy. That’s marriage, and happily married people think about serving each other.
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@Hestia_Esq @biemelneus @SisterBeech You either have sex with your husband, or allow him to go find it elsewhere or vise versa Why is that such an issue? The rest of nature obliges by those rules. Every spring season is a new mate. You mate, and move on.
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
💯 true. Hookup culture gives immoral men exactly what they want. Abortion guarantees them consequence free “booty calls”. They can use women like a sex doll and pay nothing for it.
Then these same women will blame moral men (who would love and marry them) for being pro life and “hating women”. Meanwhile, they continue to give themselves to immoral men and wonder why they can’t find a husband, while strangely accusing moral men of all societal ills.
Hookup culture corrupts and ruins those it ensnares. Break free from it if you’re trapped. Avoid it at all costs if you aren’t. A man who’d use you for sex isn’t going to hold your hand in the hospital or raise children with you.
Louise ✟🇻🇦@prolifefrenchie
Hookup culture only benefits men.
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
You should not marry a woman who is not having enthusiastic sex with you at every opportunity.
RudyFrog@Rudy_Frog
All of these tradfemdom types describing a woman having sex with her husband as an impossible feat of self sacrifice are really not doing a good job of selling the institution of marriage lol.
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@Brien_Jackson If it doesn't matter to them they act if it doesn't matter to their partner, because they don't care about their partner. My wife told me once "if it matters to me it should matter to you, no matter how small" does she live by that rule? Absolutely not. Women don't care.
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
More or less this. Sexual issues remain a difficult hurdle on relationships because people (especially low sex drive partners) struggle to think about it the way they'd think about any other issue that needed to be addressed in the relationship.
memetic_sisyphus@memeticsisyphus
Sex is the only case where this could be mistaken for a sound argument. That’s due to the weird sexual ethics of our time designed to legitimize behavior that used to be condemned and condemning perfectly fine behavior. But let’s make it a little more obvious and replace sex with another act of physical intimacy, say a back rub (one could call this non-sexual touching). I’ve never wanted to give my wife a back rub. I don’t particularly enjoy doing it. But she’s my wife, I know it makes her happy and that matters quite a lot to me her husband, so I’ve given her hundreds? Thousands? There are dozens of such acts both she and I do for one another in the name of our marriage. Acts where we are neutral or would simply rather not but because of love and our holy vow to one another means we perform them without complaint nor resentment. Acts of love that transcend other emotions. If one were to take her advice literally, that a wife or husband should never do something they don’t feel like for their spouse, they would find a quick end to their marriage. Again you probably shouldn’t take marriage advice from a divorcee.
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
Yeah. I don't know if women realize the torture this puts a man through. You're right there, next to the love of your life, and you want nothing more than to be with her completely.
And you can't.
In fact, even wanting to is pathological and guilt-ridden.
Aimee Terese@aimeeterese
Remembered this study in relation to Emily May’s crusade to demonise men for having a healthy libido & desire to f*ck thier wives. She wants men to feel shame & remain isolated & alone in their loveless marriages, so that abusive women can withhold sex to coercively control them.
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
As a married woman, sounds like whoever has to deal with “moodiness” as a result to saying no…
You need a new husband.
emily may@emilykmay
married women, have you ever said yes to sex because you didn't want to deal with his moodiness if you said no?
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Rusty shackleford रीट्वीट किया
@PatsKam i respect it and went to finish off in the bathroom. ALL THE SUDDEN shes mad as hellllll and wanna fuck now. these games wild
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