Rusty shackleford

Something this whole discussion has really demonstrated is that highly atypical women with 99th percentile levels of sexual neuroticism have an outsized influence on social media genderslop discourse Most married women are happily sleeping with their husbands regularly, and if there's a time when they're not 100% in the mood, they have sex anyway, happy to make their husbands happy, and don't give it a second thought. On social media however, you have HIGHLY NEUROTIC women for whom sex is an massive, anxiety-provoking deal that needs perfect setup and perfect consideration and perfect emotional handling from the man every single time. And if they don't get it, they freak out, and their freak out is INTERNAL, so the husband never knows what's going on, instead they go online and talk about Martial Rape and Abuse and how their husbands Use Them As A Fleshlight and if the husbands aren't happy with what's going on they can Go Jerk Off. The important thing to keep in mind is that these women are a very small percentage of the female pop, and don't need to be taken that seriously

@Eowyn_the_Fair @AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese If it lead to more, more often, this wouldn't be an issue. However, women take and take and take and expect their husbands or boyfriends to just accept it and give and give. Regardless. Hello double standards.

@AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese The original post was about women wanting to have affection without the expectation that it MUST lead to more.

Withholding sex in marriage is abusive, because it deprives the husband or wife of sexual intimacy yet leaves them with no legitimate avenue to fulfil a perfectly healthy & normal human desire. Withholding coerces them to choose either: - deprivation - cheating - divorce

@Eowyn_the_Fair @aimeeterese There is nothing wrong with saying no. It's just when the "No's" hit a certain percentage compared to the "Yes's".

I am not familiar with the sex therapist in question but as a well adjusted normal person in a marriage not filled with contempt and resentment for each other it's trivially easy to understand the logic of "make out in bed every night and see what happens" as relationship advice*

@soupcanarchist @HailHydra666 Most women have responsive desire, but guess what, you have to allow your husband to try, for you to respond to. If you never allow the attempt, you will never respond. Rejection is not attempting and then wondering why he reacted in a hurt way. Because you rejected him.

@HailHydra666 You compared sex to playing board games and doing dishes. Repeatedly dismissed the idea that female arousal is important to success rate for sex. From where I am sitting. In a living thriving marital bed.... Its definitely you not getting it.

I gotta say: maybe the sex feeling like a "long board game you don't feel like playing" is actual issue...

@Hestia_Esq @biemelneus @SisterBeech Queue the sex robot in your marital closet 😂

@biemelneus @SisterBeech You think a woman will want to have sex with her husband every single time he wants to over the course of a 60 year marriage and that if she ever doesn’t on a given night that means she married someone she doesn’t like having sex with?

It's - "narcissistic" - to not have sex with your husband when he wants you to but you don't.

@Hestia_Esq @biemelneus @SisterBeech You either have sex with your husband, or allow him to go find it elsewhere or vise versa Why is that such an issue? The rest of nature obliges by those rules. Every spring season is a new mate. You mate, and move on.

💯 true. Hookup culture gives immoral men exactly what they want. Abortion guarantees them consequence free “booty calls”. They can use women like a sex doll and pay nothing for it. Then these same women will blame moral men (who would love and marry them) for being pro life and “hating women”. Meanwhile, they continue to give themselves to immoral men and wonder why they can’t find a husband, while strangely accusing moral men of all societal ills. Hookup culture corrupts and ruins those it ensnares. Break free from it if you’re trapped. Avoid it at all costs if you aren’t. A man who’d use you for sex isn’t going to hold your hand in the hospital or raise children with you.

You should not marry a woman who is not having enthusiastic sex with you at every opportunity.

@Brien_Jackson If it doesn't matter to them they act if it doesn't matter to their partner, because they don't care about their partner. My wife told me once "if it matters to me it should matter to you, no matter how small" does she live by that rule? Absolutely not. Women don't care.

More or less this. Sexual issues remain a difficult hurdle on relationships because people (especially low sex drive partners) struggle to think about it the way they'd think about any other issue that needed to be addressed in the relationship.

Yeah. I don't know if women realize the torture this puts a man through. You're right there, next to the love of your life, and you want nothing more than to be with her completely. And you can't. In fact, even wanting to is pathological and guilt-ridden.

@FatiguedOne @PatsKam Apparently

@PatsKam Should men get a new wife when their current one gives them grief when they don't feel like doing some task or chore the wife wants them to do for them?

As a married woman, sounds like whoever has to deal with “moodiness” as a result to saying no… You need a new husband.

@PatsKam i respect it and went to finish off in the bathroom. ALL THE SUDDEN shes mad as hellllll and wanna fuck now. these games wild

@unskilledtechs Then she sucks

@BittermanThe @cloneristic New age women aren't natural. All of nature operates this way. A couple studs in a heard of 20 mares. 1 bull per 50 head of cattle so on and so on. And every season you find a new mate.

@cloneristic Imagine that you already have them convinced to engage in wagecuckery and avoiding motherhood like the plague. Maybe that's why they spurn sex so unrighteously. If they were actually doing it right, they'd be getting pregnant every other year. Can't have that. Boss needs them.

Withholding sex IS explicitly considered a form of abuse in the domestic violence ideology canon as a control tactic of abusers. Of course this stuff is 99% applied in a biased and persecutory manner to benefit women at men's expense. But if you peruse the lore you can read this stuff at women's shelter websites, about evil men shaming women for being horny and holding out the D as a punishment lol. I mean they are right. Clearly it is abusive. It's hard to make it illegal but it probably should be. If slapping bitches is gonna be policed by the police then being too stingy with the poonanny after due payment should be considers a form of theft or fraud at least. People have been talking about men being inconsiderate not doing "acts of service" favors for them like doting mothers might. But men's intuitive way to express love and affection is through physical touch and sex. So getting shut down by your wife in that regard is the emotional equivalent of if she made him a nice dinner and he immediately said, "thanks for nothing, bitch!" then dumped it out in the trash right in front of her. How long are you gonna be excited about cooking for him and the relationship in general dealing with that? It's every bit as harmful to him psychologically as a slap in the face or boot in the testicles. That's what rejecting sex is, it's violence and assault. You have no right to do it. If the man agreed to marry your stupid ass despite how irritating and tedious you surely are, the absolute least morally required from you is total sexual enslavement on demand regardless of your feelings or preferences. The concept of bodily autonomy is itself highly problematic when you are talking about owned women, which is what marriage means. It's not ok or who we are. If you're not ready for a lifetime supply of total subjugation and sex at will you really have no business getting involved in married life, it's really crazy to think otherwise. The entitlement of that. I don't know who comes up with this poppycock but they should be tarred and feathered. Perhaps sentenced by royal magistrate to free use town square buggery after appropriate legal process and appeals have been rejected cnc lawcuck style (with full TOS consent involved). Marriage really should be and formerly was a more hardcore form of bdsm slave contract that makes the latter look like the half speed teacup rides at Fairy F_@_33_0,tland. It's a total power exchange ownership until death deal. Maybe not fit for prime time or goyim involvement. They are better off as pseudoswingers doing nebbish nationalism shekel grinding tepid transactionalism. She's not yours, it's just your turn kind of thing. As long as everyone is on the same page from the outset. Idgaf if you make your life a birthday gangbang 7 days a week. Maybe that's your American dream. But marriage IS an archaic ritual steeped in patriarchal domination and barbarism. At least it should be. That would be dope. Then something would be in it for men. It might be a little sexy to boot rather than gay as hell and simp coded. It's really society's job to tell women they are obligated to have sex. The scorned husband himself is the wrong person to do it. Won't work. Women operate on consensus framework peer pressure rules, which in practical terms will have to come from public authority figures or the tiktok algorithm. So the amount of pressure coming down on them to *voluntarily* get brutally face fucked while crying even if they are tired or have a headache has to be the same as all forms of media conspiring to make them take the Covid vax. It should be so ambient and all pervasive that women are spontaneously bitching at each other to do it and shunning whoever doesn't from the friend group. We need to hijack the Jewish propaganda machine to mentally buck break the women into slave training, grooming them from the outset to prepare for this life they will be subjected to. To steel their nerves and their stomachs for the challenging future ahead. Building codes should be refashioned to require disciplinary bondage rooms in every habitable unit, including rentals, for the punishment of women who shirk their duties. These should include water dunk tanks for breath control and electric shock devices inspected in good working order. There should be inverted hanging devices to spin the women until brain scrambling bloodrush dizziness cures their hysterical outbursts. Forced orgasm vibrating restraint devices must be included to resolve their frigidity with Pavlovian conditioning to whatever visual or sensory stimulus is required. Women can certainly be improved as proper concubinal slave material, it would just take a little elbow grease initiative. Don't give up on them. They are capable of so much more with proper prodding.

@jessloveme83 @MaebiiX Oh, they do. None of that matters to a woman. Not really.

@MaebiiX What if men did the nice things FIRST to cause their women to feel better and actually want to have sex with them?

They do not see women as people i swear to god 💀

@Arrogantdemon3 @SowerofLiberty @thisardentlife @iamChinedu001 @TheEcho13 Some people can't handle their own up and down let alone being in a relationship having to deal with everyone's up and down. Now throw a kid or two in the mix with their own up and down. You as a man must be the rock. That's the roll, that's the job. Thats husband and father.

@Rustyshackyq4 @SowerofLiberty @thisardentlife @iamChinedu001 @TheEcho13 Sounds like a shitty alternative if you ask me pretty much saying deal with flip flop attitude or dont date at all 🤦🏾🤦🏾

No man is fulfilling his marital duties during the day and then being denied sex when he gets into bed.

@Arrogantdemon3 @SowerofLiberty @thisardentlife @iamChinedu001 @TheEcho13 You can date, just don't get married to one. No one is stopping you from dating multiple people so when ones not in the mood you go find another. Many men and many women date this way. Monogamy isn't for everyone, not everyone is built for the ups and downs of life. Coupled.