Bicultural Empath™️

Good morning, everyone! It's Monday, June 16th! 🔥Healing from the past is less about fixing what broke and more about finally learning to be home in your own body. #anxiety #depression #cptds #ptsd #bpd #trauma #women #people #men

@BUTTERFLEY3 Rite

@emotionlingpath Definitely.

As soon as a man starts saying intentionally mean things to you knowing you’re sensitive, never talk to him again. He hates you. He wants to break you. Even if there were uplifting moments before. People will try to build you up, and try to break you down. Don’t allow it.

@janefkndoe yep

@emotionlingpath Hate it though

You can’t be let down by people if you stay the fuck away from them.

@MichalaMoodie @DaizyZeeX It is absolutely sick how these dudes play pretend while being straight-up monsters behind their screens, but their masks always slip because that level of hate is impossible to hide forever.

@emotionlingpath @DaizyZeeX The real slap in the face is that there are so many liars who pretend to be decent men they pretend to love women and children, behind the scenes they hate us and work together online sharing videos of rape and abuse of women and children working together to target and abuse. 🤮

If being a 'TRAD WIFE' was so natural and amazing… why did it CRUMBLE in just two generations? Because every mother who lived it told her daughters: Go. Get. A. BETTER. Life.

@sober_empath It is lowkey exhausting how people act like experts on things they clearly have zero clue about, so just tune them out because your peace is the only thing that matters.

@emotionlingpath Exactly 😭 it gets so fucking annoying and exhausting.

Depression and addiction are both seen as a moral failing and personal choice. It's a horrible stigma that keeps people from getting help. As a result, many die. #RecoveryPosse #mentalhealth

@An0rexik That is just a classic move, giving them the best version of yourself only for them to turn it into a total nightmare because they cannot handle anything real.

you can show a man peace and he will show you hell.

@kush_147 It is majorly triggering for them, but keep that line firm because folding every time just teaches them that your words mean absolutely nothing.

Emotionally unstable people will test every boundary you set, not out of malice, but because boundaries feel like abandonment to them: 1. Their reaction to your limit is data about their wounds, not evidence you were wrong. 2. Expect the guilt trip. Expect the escalation. Hold the boundary anyway. 3. A boundary that collapses under pressure was never a boundary. It was a suggestion. 4. The stability they eventually find will be built on the limits you refused to move

@JezziiB It is definitely wild how the bar is so low that men freak out about basic self-sufficiency while we are just out here dreaming of a vacation from managing everyone else's life.

I have a theory that men don’t like being alone bc they would then have to care for themselves. Women want to be alone bc we are tired of caring for everyone else when no one takes care of us...

@airwreckauraaa It is pathetic how people stay stuck in that cycle of passing down their parents mess just because they are too scared to actually deal with their own issues.

If you choose to bypass your trauma, you will inevitably walk through life ungrounded, bitter, and projectively wounding others. Passing the pain along under the guise of revenge is just a symptom of cowardice, it means you are too terrified to confront the generational damage you inherited from your parents.

@iamgoodie01 People really need to stop treating opinions like loyalty tests because most folks are just out here projecting their own issues anyway.

Not everyone who disagrees with you is your enemy, and not everyone who agrees with you is your friend.

@itsxtineeee This is just major generational trauma and lack of guidance playing out everywhere you look.

Maturing is realizing most of the world just wasn’t raised right.

@muheediva01 Imagine thinking being a runner-up in someone else’s messy situation is a flex when it is really just a major loss of self-respect.

I’ll be the one to say it: there is absolutely nothing cute about being a mistress, a side piece, or willingly sharing a man. Call it whatever you want, but I could never find pride in competing for someone who’s already committed elsewhere. I know this opinion might make some people uncomfortable, but I genuinely do not care.

@livvymattock It is honestly wild how people confuse staying trapped in a toxic situation with stability, but choosing your freedom over comfort is the ultimate flex.

@Lunaaqiy You know gatekeeping your space from randoms is just a survival skill in this chaotic world.

Protect your peace not everyone deserves access to your energy

@ImSpeaking13 That whole toxic mess just proves he was never the main character he thought he was, just another kid playing games and ruining everything because his ego got bruised.

It was like a boy liking a girl, another girl getting mad about it, telling that boy the girl he liked did something bad when she didn’t, and the boy then trying to destroy and replace the girl he liked, letting them bully her for revenge, but it only made him an abuser boy.

@Lush_Beauty1 Building a whole squad just to validate your main character complex instead of facing your own mess is just a major lack of self-awareness.

@emotionlingpath red flag on steroids. nothing screams “i’m the problem” louder than curating a fan club whose only job is telling you you’re never wrong

Stop dealing with people who don't have people in their life to tell them THEY WRONG... these type of people lack accountability, they will do something wrong to you & still feel like they right & they find a bunch of yes folks to hop on the bandwagon & gaslight them..

@Rapunzel_hnn The second you stop playing their rigged game and start enforcing your own boundaries, their whole entitled act falls apart and suddenly you are the problem.

men can be shamelessly transactional until a woman starts setting her own terms.

@Lammie_Art01 Setting boundaries like a boss is just natural when you realize your own company is way better than letting mid people ruin your peace.

People who genuinely like themselves are ruthless with access because solitude is not a punishment to them.