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I hate what I hate and it probably has nothing to do with you.

Fellow Nigerians, good morning. I woke up this morning after my church service with a deeply reflective heart, and despite every constraint, I felt compelled to share these thoughts with you. Many people do not truly understand the silent pains some of us carry daily—the private struggles, emotional burdens, and quiet battles we face while trying to survive and serve sincerely in difficult circumstances. We now live in an environment that has become increasingly toxic, where the very system that should protect and create opportunities for decent living often works against the people—a society where intimidation, insecurity, endless scrutiny, and discouragement have become normal. More painful is when some of those you associate with, believing you would find understanding and solidarity among them, become part of the pressure you face. Some who publicly identify with you privately distance themselves or join in unfair criticism. We live in a society where humility is mistaken for weakness, respect is seen as a lack of courage, and compassion is treated as foolishness—a system where treating people equally is questioned simply because you refuse to worship status, tribe, class, or power. Personally, I have never looked down on anyone except to uplift them. I have never used privilege, position, or resources to oppress others, intimidate the weak, or make people feel small. To me, leadership has always been about service, sacrifice, and helping others rise. Let me state clearly: my decision to leave the ADC is not because our highly respected Chairman, Senator David Mark, treated me badly, nor because my leader and elder brother, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, or any other respected leaders did anything personally wrong to me. I will continue to respect them. However, the same Nigerian state and its agents that created unnecessary crises and hostility within the Labour Party that forced me to leave now appear to be finding their way into the ADC, with endless court cases, internal battles, suspicion, and division, instead of focusing on deeper national problems and playing politics built more on control and exclusion than on service and nation-building. Even within spaces where one labours sincerely, one is sometimes treated like an outsider in one’s own home. You and your team become easy targets for every failure, frustration, or misunderstanding, as though honest contribution has become a favour being tolerated rather than appreciated. And when you choose to leave so that those you are leaving can have peace, and you step out into the cold, you are still maligned and your character is questioned. Despite all your efforts to continue working for a better Nigeria and engaging people with sincerity and goodwill, those who do not wish you well continue to attack your character and question your intentions. There are moments I ask God in prayer: Why is doing the right thing often misconstrued as wrongdoing in our country? Why is integrity not valued? Why is the prudent management of resources, especially when invested in critical areas like education and healthcare, wrongly labelled as stinginess? Why are humility and obedience to the rule of law often taken to be weakness rather than discipline? Let me assure all that I am not desperate to be President, Vice President, or Senate President. I am desperate to see a society that can console a mother whose child has been kidnapped or killed while going to school or work. I am desperate to see a Nigeria where people will not live in IDP camps but in their homes. I am desperate for a country where Nigerian citizens do not go to bed hungry, not knowing where their next meal will come from. Yet, despite everything, I remain resolute. I firmly believe that Nigeria can still become a country with competent leadership based on justice, compassion, and equal opportunity for all. A new Nigeria is POssible. -PO

Champions League qualification secured for 2026/27 🏆 Congratulations, @ManUtd 🔴

@Cj_amaechi @Cr7Godbrand Read to understand.

@Cr7Godbrand This just shows how much women carry in the process of conception. But honestly, I don't think it's about comparing struggles,if anything, it’s about understanding what different couples go through that people don’t see.

Have you been to an IVF clinic? It cost me $18,000 to do IVF for my wife at age 34. Out of the three eggs that were inserted, only one worked. We were lucky becuse she was born with a lot of eggs and they had plenty to remove and fertilize. I can’t count how many hundreds of women were in that clinic going through IVF, all there with their husbands. That place was always packed with women. Women in their late 20s and 30s. Some even flew from another state cause it’s cheaper there. In fact, my wife’s friend already had two kids and was trying IVF for a girl at 33, but her eggs were of poor quality and none of them worked. The reality is that women don’t always talk about what they go through to get pregnant. People just see a 35-year-old woman having a baby and assume it happened naturally. When it was my turn in the process, all they needed from me was to ejaculate, and I wasn’t needed again after that. Meanwhile, the women had to take an entire box of medication. And even then, some attempts still failed. You can’t compare the two processes. If a man has low sperm quality, in many cases it can improve with lifestyle changes. But if a woman has poor egg quality, it is far more complex, expensive, and difficult to treat. It’s basic biology: men produce millions of sperm continuously, while women are born with all their eggs and lose them over time. This is why even an 80-year-old man, like Al Pacino, can still father a child. That’s just biology.

@dieggsc52 @TeamCRonaldo Including all Chelsea players?

@TeamCRonaldo Isn't that the same for every other player?

🚨 𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 𝗗𝗔𝗬: The Saudi Doping Control Committee made a surprise visit to Al Nassr, requesting to test Cristiano Ronaldo. 🧪 This comes just days after his match-winning performance against Al-Ahli. Since joining Al Nassr in early 2023, Cristiano Ronaldo has undergone 8 official anti-doping tests (including today’s). This brings his total to over 15 tests across all competitions (Club + National Team) since the start of 2022. The result? 100% Clean. Each time. 🟢

@MrBeast Wtf

If this tweet has exactly 1 like in 24 hours I’ll give that person $1,000,000

@Balo_Zzn @gmltony This is me on this particular matter.

@gmltony I can really be a petty guy when I want to but I’d never do this, if I have to take it back then it must have been stolen cos once it’s given it’s given

Man went to collect everything he bought for his girlfriend after their breakup. He didn’t leave anything behind. 😂

@OdutolaMoses E say blocked 😭

No cast this scope 😭😭

When I was an atheist, I remember being so annoyed by Christians and how happy they always were. I was mad that they weren't miserable and angry like me! I thought the Bible was fake, until I had an encounter with Jesus and I realized He was real and so was the Bible. Now I'm in Christ Jesus, and this joy I feel is so real, despite my circumstances. I rest and have peace in GOD! Christianity is not a religion, it's a personal relationship with God. You need the Holy spirit to understand. 🙏🏼

@nonsowtf Na man you be na.

I don learn lesson sha😂 Her Birthday. My birthday

You guyssssss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Never go through a man’s phone.

@NigeriaStories Careful what you wish for.

I wish I was a man, life is so much easier for men. ~ Phyna says

This man just destroyed the whole argument. Anyone still saying Nigeria is economically thriving under Tinubu’s government should pay close attention, he continues to be a disaster for the country.

She said she wanted a 17, I got her a 16... now a random guy swapped the 16 to 17pro max. She now sees my calls as me being rude, guys is this girl okay at all, what am I supposed to do now ???

@gettingitrightn @AgbaChadox 47k x 4= 198k per month, you can use that as a side hustle. You don't know the conditions that were given to him before he was also enrolled. It's easier to call names when you're not in their position.

@AgbaChadox Nigerians exploring fellow Nigerians, 30% of 50$. 50$ ×1350=67,500. 30% of this 20250. Meaning after the hard work for a week you'd end up with 47k this not considering the data and stress you'd go through

I will give you an update that you will be cashing out 50$ weekly but I will take 30% Deal ?!!!

@seyikanbai You already know.

“I’m very fertile, but I have no desire to have a biological child. Instead, I want to adopt dogs and cats. It feels like a woman’s love for animals really kicks in as she approaches 30 — especially when she refuses to settle for less.” — Phyna 👀

@SpiffWright @KerenKBitto Actually, na them dey be in this shape pass, most people don't have the balls to call them what they are to their faces. If she attended a public school, "fatty bumbum" go make her hate anything that makes her this big.

@KerenKBitto When I heard she's 25 I was dumfounded. You barely see kids of the elite this fat. Yes, cos they have everything to be in shape. It's all about her choice here. She chose to be this big and looks like all her dad's money are inside her adipose tissues.

😭😭my father cannot be a politician and I would be this over weight. Ffs you can afford to literally import fruits if you want 🤌🏼🤌🏼 What’s her excuse? Okay let’s say PCOS. Your papa can afford the best gynecologists, dieticians etc to put you on the best PCOS diet and medication so what’s your excuse? Time? Abeg which house chores you dey do? Shyness to go to the gym? You can afford a gym at home and a personal trainer or trainers. But if I talk Una go say I am mean and I like body shaming. But ffs why are you 25 and looking like you’ve had 8 children🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

I have many questions to ask but I don't know where to start and I don't want to be offensive.

@abimbolasuccess I know of a bullet drink though.

Unfortunately I can NEVER receive bullet for ANY woman! You’re lucky but can you do that again?

@samtips19 @Dammi_Esq Act differently when it's your turn. What if she kpai am before daybreak?

@Dammi_Esq I know what she did is very hurtful, but I do not support him chasing them out so late. Moreover, chasing them out immediately does not change what has already happened.

How do you send a woman and her three kids out at night just because a DNA test says they’re not yours? If you’re married under the Act, that’s a cr!me forceful eviction of your spouse can land you in serious trouble, you will eat two portions for two years. Yes, the DNA result is painful. But the right step is legal: file for divorce and seek compensation if necessary. Throwing them out at night is unlawful and d@ngerous. If anything happens to them, you’ll be held responsible. You’re not the first man to raise children that aren’t biologically his. Why not calm down, wait till morning, and involve her family instead of acting in anger? Hurt is valid but that kind of action isn’t.