Rusty shackleford

Willingly having sex for reasons other than personally being horny IS consensual. For example whores do it for money, middle class whores do it to lock down a man early in the relationship (then get married & start witholding it). As for duty, yes you have obligations to other people generally, and specifically when you take vows to love and cherish them til death do you part. If your husband wasn’t in the mood to go to work, would you just tolerate life without a steady breadwinner earning an income? Or would you expect him to figure that shit out and pull his weight in the relationship, for the sake of you and the children? And if he failed to, would you take matters into your own hands and either become the breadwinner yourself thereby rendering him redundant (at which point you would likely cheat on him & dissolve the relationship) or find another man willing to fulfill that role since he won’t? If the answer to either is yes, then you understand all the elements at play here, you’re just being wilfully obtuse.

A wife should be intimate with her husband even if she's not in the mood when he initiates. Just think of all the things men do for their wives even if they're not really feeling it. Do you think he's really thrilled about going to work every day to pay the bills? Is he enthusiastic about mowing the lawn? Even just going to the mall and walking around and waiting while his wife shops for an hour is more of a burden than having "duty sex", which you can do from the comfort of your own home in 10 minutes.

@BrentAWilliams2 Naw I plan to make out with my wife just in spite of this whole thing today

Insane women just completely ruined making out now, didn’t they?

The CIA used to run drugs, guns, oil and people. They still do, but they used to too.

It's my body my choice. My obese wife's needs are not my problem.

@Nicki31415Nick You're a queen 😂

Guys, I don't actually have a wife. I am a woman with a husband but I have deep sympathy for you all after dealing with psychotic women on this app. It shouldn't be this way!

Telling my wife to skip lunch & get ready because I'm taking her to her favorite restaurant after work... only to grab McDonald's on the way home & tell her I'm not in the mood and it's not my job to feed her & then ignoring her for the rest of the night to play video games 😏

@st_louis_stan Meme Kings rule earth now.

I made this image to save you all some time, just post this whenever a woman uses a phrase like "husband using wife as fleshlight" or talks about how a woman having sex she's not in the mood for is like a man getting pegged, or how marital sex is rape, etc

I showed this post to my wife and she said you're retarded.

@Brien_Jackson Welcome to elongated muskrats click bait farm.

Ok on the other hand how much of this terrible Discourse is down to the simple fact that it's being driven by people who haven't been in a 20 year long relationship, balance romance with kids and such, or even just turned 40 yet?

Women, if you ever get your man to open up and tell you what he thinks, and you proceed to tell him he's "thinking wrong" congratulations, you just lost that privilege.

@WillAttract The goal is to have sex. Even for the woman. She wants to be in the mood and get pleasure, too. The point is that taking the pressure off is more conducive to getting into the mood. Calling it rape to want closeness with your husband makes it clear what the actual problem is

@Victoria_bou6 @WillAttract Welcome to the world of double standards. Women are allowed to have sex with their man whenever they want. Men aren't allowed to have sex with their woman whenever they want. So is life.

If you're making out with your husband without letting him fuck? It's marital rape.

@JessPected @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 34% of 2600 is 800 and some. So, 800 out of 3 billion humans is now what?

@Rustyshackyq4 @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 Yes. One study has 34% of wives admitting they were sexually coerced. Another study showed 95.1% men admitted to sexual coercion. Sexually coercive rape is common no matter how much men want to deny it.

it’s pretty clear that the average man really isn’t all that opposed to rape under the condition that it isn’t overtly violent and the word rape isn’t used far too many women and girls have been coerced into sex by their partners for this to not be the case

@JessPected @bellaraices @AleppoAteMyFace @Bambi_g123 2600 anonymous people. Must mean the majority of women or relationships or marriages. I don't think y'all grasp how polls work. 😂

Something this whole discussion has really demonstrated is that highly atypical women with 99th percentile levels of sexual neuroticism have an outsized influence on social media genderslop discourse Most married women are happily sleeping with their husbands regularly, and if there's a time when they're not 100% in the mood, they have sex anyway, happy to make their husbands happy, and don't give it a second thought. On social media however, you have HIGHLY NEUROTIC women for whom sex is an massive, anxiety-provoking deal that needs perfect setup and perfect consideration and perfect emotional handling from the man every single time. And if they don't get it, they freak out, and their freak out is INTERNAL, so the husband never knows what's going on, instead they go online and talk about Martial Rape and Abuse and how their husbands Use Them As A Fleshlight and if the husbands aren't happy with what's going on they can Go Jerk Off. The important thing to keep in mind is that these women are a very small percentage of the female pop, and don't need to be taken that seriously

@Eowyn_the_Fair @AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese If it lead to more, more often, this wouldn't be an issue. However, women take and take and take and expect their husbands or boyfriends to just accept it and give and give. Regardless. Hello double standards.

@AleppoAteMyFace @aimeeterese The original post was about women wanting to have affection without the expectation that it MUST lead to more.

Withholding sex in marriage is abusive, because it deprives the husband or wife of sexual intimacy yet leaves them with no legitimate avenue to fulfil a perfectly healthy & normal human desire. Withholding coerces them to choose either: - deprivation - cheating - divorce