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@__Riverside01 @thequeen_esther Ouuu good point. Most times the original post also deviated from the actual perpetrator and started attacking "men"

@thequeen_esther Good point. Lets not forget the deviation stemmed from both sides not fighting/penalising for the actual victim/culprit but turning it to a point scoring contest. There are two sides to blame not one.

I think it's very sinister to deviate from a conversation that is addressing a well-known and widely prevalent societal ill to centre yourself. To claim you're "the one good man" and "not all of us" when there are actual victims/potential victims to focus on.

@Great8_Grace @OloriOfOloris @_raesparkles Wait o. Y'all are serious? I read her post of "courtesy demands you pay bills" thinking this one is just posting rubbish so people will be angry. But you actually believe that is "courtesy"? Where does Courtesy demand that pls. Show me courtesy pls let me have a stern word w her

@OloriOfOloris @_raesparkles Yes, paying for someone you just met can signal generosity and confidence. It can make a good impression if it’s done lightly, without expectations. That part you got right. The uncomfortable truth, A lot of people don’t read it as kindness,they read it as transactional intent.

In my opinion, if you meet her in a mall while shopping and you want her number or attention, courtesy demands you pay her bills

@morenikeji0390 @SilasWills @ItsAmahAdoma And do you think if he said "no" they would've stopped? He was pushing her away, that is literally as good as "no" here And they admit he is shy around girls so it wasn't that he was playing with her. He genuinely didn't want her to continue.

@VideoEditor1010 @SilasWills @ItsAmahAdoma Then why can’t he say no?? I am not saying what happened is not an harassment But a simple no would have end it

@morenikeji0390 @SilasWills @ItsAmahAdoma you know many advocates don't need to hear NO from a woman. If she was pushing you away, or obviously not wanting you to continue, that is sexual harassment. Watch the video again, see his body language. He is literally pushing her away but she is Forcing herself on him.

@morenikeji0390 @SilasWills @ItsAmahAdoma Do you know that people now define rape as coercion till they agree. Same w Sexual harassment. Coercion to engage physical contact (she was sitting on his lap, even rubbing her behind on his crotch). If it was a guy, pulling a girl's behind to his crotch people would eat him up

@SilasWills @ItsAmahAdoma It’s the still the same if even gender were reversed

@TheOluwaseyiE @buodataye It's bad because it is causing more harm to society than good.

Let’s be honest, people only suddenly care about “generalization” when it makes them uncomfortable.😂 We group people all the time. When it’s the government or APC members nobody pauses to say “not all of them.” It becomes “they are doing this” and everyone understands the context. When violence happens and it’s tied to religion, you hear statements like “Muslims are killing Christians”. In those moments, nuance disappears, and what people respond to is the pattern and the fear it creates. So let’s not pretend this is a new concept. Now imagine being on the receiving end of that fear. That’s where women are. When women move with caution around men, it’s not an attempt to label every man the same. It’s a response to patterns, experiences, and the very real risk that we cannot always predict. And please, stop the false equivalence. Comparing this to saying “all women are prostitutes” doesn’t even hold. Prostitution—right or wrong—is seen by some as a means of survival or a profession. Rape is violence. It is harm. It is a violation. It is not a lifestyle, not a hustle, not a mistake in judgment. So that comparison already collapses.

Let me start with this “All men are rapist” conversation. To start with, when women say things like “all men are rapists until proven otherwise,” it’s more of a safety response than a generalization. It’s not even about pushing an agenda or labeling every man as guilty. It’s about the reality that we don’t know which man is safe and which isn’t. For many women, every unfamiliar man is approached with a level of alertness and that’s not because we want to assume the worst, but because our experiences, stories, and certain patterns have taught us that the we’re not allowed to take risks. It’s the same way you double-check your doors at night. Not because everyone outside is a thief, but because you can’t afford to assume the wrong person won’t be. At the very core of it, this is about survival, not accusation and until safety is something women can consistently trust, I’m not sorry caution will always be our default.

@TheOluwaseyiE @buodataye Yes. Generalizing negative qualities is WRONG. Not just because it makes people uncomfortable. I am also against "muslims are killing christians", "Police officers are theives", "APC members are..." "men are rapists" It is all wrong.

@daniellaxoxxo @TheOluwaseyiE It's as bad as "Black people are violent", "Black women are beautiful" The first is causing actual harm to society, the second is used for good. So you can't justify saying "men are rapists" because we also say "Humans are wicked". They have two different results.

@TheOluwaseyiE Also it’s not said “all men are rapists” It’s “men are rapists” there’s a difference Like saying “human beings are not good people” we know they’re good human beings We don’t mean ALL human beings are not good people.

@daniellaxoxxo @TheOluwaseyiE We always generalize but when a generalization is causing actual harm to society we have to stop that. We say humans are wicked. That does nothing But Men are rapists is 1. poisoning young girls minds to hate all men. 2. Creating a stupid "gender war" Hence it needs to stop

@TheOluwaseyiE “all men are rapists until proven otherwise,” is NOT how you protect yourself. It's the same racists say “all Blacks are robbers until proven otherwise” It is WRONG. The truth is ANY PERSON might be evil, so be careful. But don't call an innocent man a rapist. It's wrong.

@JohnnySnakers7 @OdonghanroD @GBTheMAGAlorian @nypost now now, let's keep it logical. If you believe you have a point defend it with logic. Not insults, Lol. So, why do you think a 10yr old is not allowed to enjoy being touched by a 60yr old, but a 15yr old is allowed to enjoy it. Remember, logical answer.

@VideoEditor1010 @OdonghanroD @GBTheMAGAlorian @nypost Man, your reading comprehension is at a 1st grade level. The difference between a 10 year old and a 15 year old is vast both mentally and physically

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@TheSeemberNaze @phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 😂 maybe the guy didn't know what pickup line to use. It's similar to "haven't seen a Lagos babe as fine as you" people say when rizzing but yeah it can also be seen as negative in a way. I don't think they ACTUALLY believe dark skinned girls aren't fine. Was just for flattery

@phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 Exactly Because why did someone walk up to me and say “I didn’t know dark skin girls could be this fine” ???

"Beauty with brains" isn’t a compliment, it’s a backhanded stereotype. It assumes intelligence is rare in women but default in men. No one says ‘handsome with brains’. Bcoz a man’s intelligence is expected. When a woman has both, you call it exceptional. It’s not. It’s normal.✌️

@yourgirlchi @TheSeemberNaze @phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 Thank you. Same thing I said It was never commonly used as such. It's even more flattering to hear "she's a black beauty" than "she's beautiful". Not sure if it's only me. But it seems richer. More exquisite. x.com/i/status/20362…

@TheSeemberNaze @phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 This is very different from “black beauty” I’m sorry. The people saying “black beauty” are very different from the ones saying they didn’t know dark girls can be fine. Black beauty has never been used as a backhanded compliment.

@phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 Why don't you even see it as two positives. Like "wow, a black woman AND she's beautiful?" [Not "but"] Black beauty was never an expression used to imply "black, but this time she's beautiful"

@SinghManju37713 same as “black beauty”

@phoebeakor @SinghManju37713 C'monnn. If we go that route than ANY compliment is bad. Because you can twist all compliments to have bad intentions if you wish I see black beauty a compliment. A beautiful woman + a black woman. It isn't saying anything negative unless you try to make it

@mslaltoo @SinghManju37713 Hmmmm something tells me you're handsome with brains. Good point. We also see the stereotype even in movies. The rich, tall, handsome dum guy and the unattractive nerd. I think she was just trying toget engagements with that post though. Stir up the water with emotions

@SinghManju37713 Yes, but it is a stereotype that stems from the common belief that beauty/physique and intelligence cannot go together. Similarly for men it is often said that muscular men arent smart. Taunts like sirf muscles hi hai dimag nhi. Its mostly the same thing. Both are incorrect.

@Millishield01 @EverythingCar_X Do you have a third locally? If you don't mind, let me have it

@EverythingCar_X I drive frame A in Ghana Frame B in Canada. The cars are serving me Far away from any type of symbol of confidence.

As a man get a car today if you're financially stable for it. It's worth it. Your self confidence will increase x100 if you get car even if na corolla/civic

@alpha_the_dev @EverythingCar_X AI copy-paste Imagine someone replying you imagining they will be responding to a human being

You didn’t lie, but here’s the part most people still won’t admit — the car isn’t the problem, it’s the identity crisis hiding behind it. In Nigeria, a car is rarely just transport. It’s a social signal. It tells the gate man how to greet you, the police how to stop you, and even your own family how seriously to take you. So when a man says “my confidence went up after I got a car,” what he really means is “people started treating me differently and I borrowed my confidence from that.” That’s the trap. Because now you’re not driving the car — the car is driving how you feel about yourself. Remove it, scratch it, or park beside something “bigger,” and your whole mood shifts. That’s not confidence. That’s dependency with good paint. Let me push you a bit: if they took the car today, would you still carry the same presence into a room? Here’s the twist most people miss — it’s not that the car gives confidence, it reveals whether you ever had any. Some men enter a room quietly and still control it. Others need headlights and engine noise just to feel seen. Buy the car if it makes your life easier. No issue. But if it’s doing emotional work for you, that’s a bill it will never stop collecting. At some point, you have to ask yourself — is it respect you’re getting, or just a reaction to what you’re sitting inside?

@odogwu_ogidi @EverythingCar_X Yeah to be honest he does say "when you first buy car" If a 50yr old man buys car for the first time in his life, the same will be the case. We're all humans, he'll be excited to ride it at first, even drive to church, shop, village if possible (or maybe not lol). It's human nat

@EverythingCar_X He is still very young, so his point aligns with his age.