Chinonyelum Vivian ✨️🌸

@Bukolababii Just dey waka dey go, no turn back 😂😂😂😂

All this “hello sister “ inside hot sun Dey vex me😭😭😭

@kenkenlewu Respect is how first you establish yourself ❗️❗️❗️

Ladies, stop throwing yourself at men. Stop it. Yesterday, something happened when I went swimming, and it just reminded me why this post is important. After swimming, I went back to the bar area to dress up and relax a bit. A man at another table signaled the waiter to come to me and ask what I wanted. I hesitated, but I eventually placed an order. A few minutes later, the waiter came back again. The man had sent him to ask if I wouldn’t mind joining his table. I simply said, Where I am is very comfortable, and there’s enough space here. I’m fine. He went back. Then the waiter returned again, this time with a pen and paper, saying the man wanted me to write my number. At that point, I said, Please go back and tell him to be man enough to come and speak to me himself. From appearance, this was the kind of man some ladies would feel honored to be noticed by. Meanwhile, another lady at a nearby table didn’t hesitate. Immediately she was called, she carried herself and went to join them. Eventually, the man came to me himself, apologized for sending the waiter, and we spoke briefly. I politely thanked him for the drink and told him I was busy handling something online. We exchanged contacts, and that was it. Not long after, the two men left. The lady he had called over? She sat there… alone. After some time, she came to meet me and said, “I’m sorry.” I was surprised. I asked, Sorry for what? She said she realized she had messed up. We had a brief ladies-to-ladies conversation, and I spoke to her honestly. Hear me, the way you present yourself to a man determines the level of respect you get from him. When you hear men speak poorly about women, or treat women cheaply, It’s because they have encountered women who offered themselves too easily and too quickly, without boundaries. My father used to say something: Some women got married because a man bought them something, they went to his house to say “thank you”… and they never left. Before they know it … One child, two children, three children…marriage has quietly started. Some of you, the moment a man buys you something at the mall or does one small favor, you’ve already entered relationship mode. Madam… calm down. Give yourself value. Even if you like him. Even if it feels like love at first sight. Even if you’re already crushing on him, control yourself. Hold back a bit. Not everything should be rushed. That small space you create? That self-control? It earns you respect. Stop throwing yourself at men and then complaining about how low they treat you. Respect is not demanded, it is first established by how you carry yourself. ©Suowari

@instablog9ja K-drama lovers ♥️ "TO my beloved thief" 🤭🤭🤭 "The Penthouse"🤭🤭🤭

“Drop your 10/10 series, no gatekeeping!” 🍿🔥 Let’s help ourselves abeg 😭👇

@chimaijem14 Rather, keep your mouth closed, until you've achieved all that you've planned

3 years ago, I saved up money to travel abroad. Visa approved, everything ready. My flight was in 2 weeks. I told my friends. Everyone was happy for me. At that time, I had about 7 close friends. Three of them were already living abroad. Since I was leaving soon, I decided to organize a farewell party for them and my girlfriend (now my ex). We lodged in a hotel, ate, drank and enjoyed ourselves all night. It was supposed to be a happy memory before my journey. But 4 days later, something strange started happening. I began to feel serious pain all over my body. At first I thought it was normal sickness. I bought medicine, but nothing worked. Each day the pain became worse. Soon it got to the point where I couldn’t even stand up from my bed. My people rushed me to the hospital. I spent 3 days there, but the doctors couldn’t find anything wrong. They transferred me to another hospital. Still nothing. After 2 more days, I was discharged. The doctors said they couldn’t trace any illness and advised my parents to look for another solution. My parents became very worried. They started taking me to different places, spending the money I had saved for my pocket expenses abroad. Finally, we went to a traditionalist. After checking me, he said something that shocked everyone. He said I had been poisoned. He also said if we had wasted two more days, I might not have survived. He started treatment immediately, but he said it would take 3 weeks for me to recover. Three weeks? My flight was already just days away. But my parents had no choice. They told him to continue. After about two weeks, I slowly started getting better. But by then, my flight was gone. The visa, the plans, the money… everything was lost. I had already sold most of my properties in Nigeria before preparing to travel. So I had to start my life all over again, even moving back to live with my mom. Till today, I’m still trying to find my feet again. One lesson I learned the hard way: Avoid bad friends.

@BellaBaddie__ My God ❤️ BBO says- "He will be my strength 💪 when I am weak"

who do you talk to at your lowest?

@justmercy__ I don't think the guy is broke, I mean for the guy to have send you a 100k? He is not poor. I just felt he was frustrated about the situation (that's even if it's true). But his manner of approach is bad. Him feeling entitled to your money 😂😂😂😂, is wild

Because I told him I don’t have money at the moment, he’s trying to gaslight me. He even blocked me, lol. This is the problem with broke men… anger issues 🤦‍♀️ I didn’t even insult him.

@feivuor The snake didn't feel threatened, but then I don't think I can be still o😂😂😂😂😂😂🤲🤲🤲

Guys, you won’t believe what just happened tonight. I stepped out to get noodles and egg from the mallam at our street gate. While he was preparing it, I sat on a bench, that side was quite dark. Not up to 5 minutes later, I felt something cold slowly moving on my leg (I was wearing slippers). I quickly turned on my phone flashlight… It was a snake. Funny thing is, I didn’t scream or move. I just switched off the light and sat still, waiting for it to pass peacefully. In my mind I was like, “Oga, since you’re passing… abeg just pass my leg too and go your way.” 😭 I know this sounds crazy… but it actually happened and I loved it

@Flirtlnpixels12 @256Chi

Drop your handle let's connect 〰️

@Theoladeledada Never ❌️❌️❌️ This life tooo sweet abeg 🤲🤲

Has suicide ever crossed your mind? Be honest.

@Dikachi289705 @instablog9ja You go tell the twins say "daddy said breakthrough is on the way" 😂😂😂😂

@instablog9ja What if the breakthrough didn't come after the marriage??? And twins are on the way???🥹

Your Breakthrough Might Come Through Your Wife— Nurse Omolabake Advises Men Over 30 Battling Financial Hardship

@ebube_ebube7 @instablog9ja Then una go go back to square one 😂😂😂😂😂

@instablog9ja What if it doesn’t??

@honestfc1 @TeniEntertainer or @simisanya abeg 🤲🤲🤲🤲

Tag one celebrity to send you 100k you fit be luck aswear

Girl to girl: did you know 92% of women remember their first period vividly. Do you?

@AdesolaBlessin9 May 7th

When is your birthday?

@AdesolaBlessin9 Pear would do 🤭🤭🤭🤭

Ladies, what’s your favorite ring shape?

@AdesolaBlessin9 It's actually over hyped

What do you mean you don’t like plantain??????😡😡

“Cartoon no dey age 😌📺” Be honest, which cartoon still dey your rotation? 👀👇

@somtodeyforyo I feel like, there some social campaigns that needs to come up against bleaching products 🤔

Half human, Half reptile 🦎

@notcee_fan I haven't stopped oo, if I see one rn I would pop it 🤭🤭🤭

At what age did you stop popping this?