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Yesterday’s price is not today’s price

A man that really loves you won’t just comfort your chaos… he’ll confront it. He’ll correct you, guide you, and risk you getting mad just to see you grow. Love isn’t passive. It’s leadership, even when it’s uncomfortable.

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Pretenders

@ABmrJutt Some people opt out because they know they can’t level up. Accountability feels like pressure to people committed to staying the same.

The hardest psychological pill you will ever have to swallow is realizing you are a victim of the "Mirror Fallacy." ​You keep getting betrayed, used, and disappointed by people, and you sit around wondering why you have such bad luck. You don't have bad luck. You have a massive projection problem. ​You keep looking at other people and expecting them to have your heart, your work ethic, and your sense of loyalty. You assume that because you would never lie to them, they would never lie to you. Because you would give them your last dollar, they would do the same. People do not operate with your moral compass. Stop projecting your own character onto people who have repeatedly shown you they operate on pure survival and selfishness. You are breaking your own heart by expecting lions to eat grass just because you are a vegetarian.

We need to talk about the most silent, crushing realization that almost every good man goes through in his late twenties or thirties. This is the exact nerve that men are currently feeling but don't have the words to explain without sounding bitter. He was the ultimate "solid guy." He was the boyfriend who always drove, always planned, always remembered the details, and always carried the heavy boxes. He was the guy his friends called when they were stranded, and the guy his girlfriend leaned on for every single emotional and logistical problem. He was an absolute machine of consistency. Then, one winter, he got hit with a severe, bedridden case of the flu. He literally could not stand up for five days. This was his first time dropping the ball in three years. This is when the relationship should perfectly balance out. His partner should have stepped up, brought him soup, handled the chores, and let him rest. Instead, he watched her get annoyed. She wasn't worried about his fever; she was visibly irritated that their weekend plans were ruined. She was frustrated that the bills were piling up. When she walked into the bedroom, she didn't gently ask how he was feeling, she sighed and asked, "So, are you going to be able to drive me to the airport on Tuesday or do I have to figure it out myself?" He told me that lying in that bed was the loneliest he had ever felt in his entire life. He said, "I realized right then that she didn't actually love me. She loved what I did for her. I wasn't a human being to her; I was a household appliance. And she was just pissed off that the appliance was broken." This is the dark, heavy truth that millions of men are walking around with right now. Men are absolutely exhausted, but they are terrified to stop moving, stop providing, or stop being the "rock." Not because they are toxic workaholics, but because they secretly suspect that the exact moment they stop being useful, the people who claim to love them will simply get annoyed and abandon them.

the ai generated event flyers have to stop. canva is right there and it has never done anything wrong 😭

Knew I wasn’t tripping

B*tch it ain’t over ‘til it’s over

Going through a phase right now, i think i've finally come in terms with letting a lot of stuff go including feelings, people, fears, just everything. it's time for new beginnings, new chapters that brings happiness, love and endless memories. it's time to move on with life.

A lesson I learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away.

so much come behind this love sht you don't know if you stupid or solid

That lil scientist really got some heat

locking in and seeing no results

Who u calling?

@naidavis_ Just might

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Drew Brees is better than Tom Brady.

some lies are just disrespectful. there's no way you think i'm that dumb.