@LorenzRosenthal@WomenBeingAwful True. Risk can be fun.
But in a fantasy I still have control. I am the director. That's the issue with real life events...
The "rape" fantasies are about sex. Real rape is about inner pain. It's two different things.
@nickimoraa What you describe is exactly what every woman trained you over the last 30 years.
And then we have some ethnicities that are quite like that.
So what is your actual point? 🤷🏼
If you express that you like your women ‘freshly shaven’ with no stretch marks, cellulite or hair on any part of their body except for their head…
You’re not welcome around my daughter or any other children in my care.
If you don’t like natural signs of aging on women, you’re probably a pedophile.
@ma1ybe It's complex. Porn is the emulation of devotion. There are exceptions, but actually it's not degrading, but compensating.
How would sex look like, if we had intimacy and not power games?
And if we would switch the roles, it would be strange that males get so much attention.
@quesadaaa_ The perpetrator always feels worse off than the victim. Because something gets lost in translation.
This sounds crazy, I know.
Also the form of violence shows the pain.
And sure this is also true for all nice stuff.
@quesadaaa_ If you understand violence then it will be clearer.
Every human interaction is based on "I want you to feel how I feel".
So all actions are a translation of feelings. And we are quite good in this. Violence is a translation of the inner pain. That's all.
Rape is the only crime I can think of that's 100% inexcusable. There's absolutely no reason for it ever. In any circumstance. You can murder in self defence, you can steal to help your starving family. Even doing illegal drugs can really help calm people down.
But rape doesn't help anyone except the rapisto And it just baffles me to this day the way people will excuse rape with, "Well he/she was drunk." or "What was she wearing?" or "He's a guy though, he probably enjoyed it."
it's the one crime that everyone should find inexcusable and yet it's the one that people try to justify the most often.
Die gestiegenen Benzinpreise durch die Krise um den Iran bereiten vielen Menschen Sorgen. Deswegen hat die Bundesregierung beschlossen, dass Tankstellen nur noch einmal täglich die Spritpreise erhöhen dürfen. So entlasten wir Verbraucherinnen und Verbraucher.
@clumsyoaf33 The fun thing is that our subconscious immediately know with whom we deal.
And we always pick people that are familiar. Shared experiences, pain, worldview.
Unhappy with the people in your life? Practice healing step by step.
@ABmrJutt I've seen many relationships by now. And there is the law of symmetry: You choose people that reflect your inner pain.
I've never found an exception of this law.
We choose people with the same inner pain (emotional maturity), but mirrored behavior. Same pain, different form.
Male loneliness epidemic?
No.
The real epidemic is the women who wanted a family and children in this lifetime and had no choice but to walk away from that dream because the men are too demonic, immature, narcissistic, self-centered and overall abusive, and so women chose their nervous systems, a peaceful life of solitude, and not perpetuating a family lineage of trauma and harm with men who refuse to grow or be better.