Amanda B 🦋

weight gain transformation 🧡

"Men suffer in silence." No, they don't. They make the people around them suffer instead. They offload their pain onto the women closest to them. Every time.

He gon naturallyyyyyyy wanna post you, brag about you & act like he hit the jackpot... if you the one he actually want.

Since becoming a mother, nobody has ever had to sit me down to remind me to be one. & I mean nobody

I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That's why I really don't like being mistreated or played with. If you aren't genuine, don't even bother me, Just move around.

I think he has to really like you, a lot!! Your existence should inspire him to do things for you. When a man likes you he pays attention and just wants to give you a better world. I’ve said it so many times that when a man truly loves you ? Your job is to exist.

I love my daughter so much, that’s my girl

saw a video that said"learn to love yourself so your mood doesn't depend on how someone else is treating you" and that stuck with me

You really have to enjoy the way a man treats you in the beginning of a relationship because you’ll never meet that man again.

Baby, I would go to war for a woman like me!

Absolutely. Yes. And spray your cologne on there too.

the value i place on every single card or note my husband has handwritten to me is equivalent to the value of gold. i will read his notes to me for decades to come.

VERY UNPOPULAR OPINION: it’s nearly IMPOSSIBLE for a woman with children to work 40+ hours a week, run a household, cook, care for her kids (and often her partner), and still protect her own physical and mental health. that’s why so many women feel like they’re constantly on the edge of burnout. it’s a system built for failure, yet society expects women to excel in every role without complaint. the pressure is overwhelming. the support is minimal. women are expected to be everything, provider, caregiver, homemaker, emotional anchor... without ever being asked, “are you okay?” and when they fall behind, they’re made to feel like they’re not trying hard enough. like they’re failing at work. failing at motherhood. failing at life. it’s not that women lack strength or ability. it’s that the structure is designed to drain them. the idea that women should “do it all” and do it flawlessly is unrealistic, damaging, and cruel. rest becomes a privilege. self care becomes selfish. mental health becomes an afterthought. and then people wonder why so many women are exhausted.

men are 100% more emotional than women, society just likes to pretend that anger and impatience aren’t emotions

my daughter is the prettiest girl ever i love her so much

I wish ppl understood that women need to be loved a bit harder after having a baby

breakups are ok. losing friends is ok. moving on is ok. healing is ok. saying no is ok. being alone is ok. what is not ok is staying somewhere where you don’t feel happy, valued, loved, or appreciated.

UNPOPULAR OPINION: sometimes the healed version of you is meaner. and that's not a flaw. that's a boundary

girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man’s childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him

Once a man becomes really mean to you, I promise you it’s over. I don’t care what it is that she got going on with him. It is over.

Marriage is all about making a woman’s life tougher to make a man’s life easier