

POLO LIFE
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Two words changed my life (and may change yours): Nobody cares. Here's a harsh truth: You aren't afraid of failure (at least not really). You're afraid of what other people will think of you if you fail. The fear is in the judgment. The fear is in the embarrassment. The fear is in the whispers. This type of fear has a damning impact on your life: • You don't hit send on the post • You shy away from sharing your ideas • You wait to start until you have the perfect plan • You do things to try to impress others But there is an antidote... Two words: Nobody cares. What does it mean to say nobody cares? The Spotlight Effect describes the psychological phenomenon whereby we overestimate the degree to which other people are noticing or observing our appearance, actions, behaviors, or results. Basically, we think everyone else is noticing and judging us, but they aren't. Even if they are, they quickly forget about it. Nobody cares. It doesn't mean nobody loves you. It just means nobody cares about your life as much as you do. It just means that you are in control. It's on you. It's not depressing. It's liberating. It's empowering. It's energizing. There are two big mistakes in life: 1. Worrying about what other people think about you 2. Believing that other people think about you in the first place That thing you've always wanted to do: • That story you've always wanted to tell • That idea you've always wanted to pursue • That person you've always wanted to talk to • That weird hobby you've always wanted to try • That leap of faith you've always wanted to take Nobody cares. So, go do the damn thing. My 7x NYT Bestselling book is a guide to doing just that. Build your life around the things that you truly care about. You can order it now to take advantage of a limited time sale offer. Get your copy here: amazon.com/Types-Wealth-T… P.S. Email your receipt to sahil@sahilbloom.com and I'll send you a 50+ page companion workbook to go deeper on the most important exercises.






