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If a man’s family does not like you, and YOU KNOW they don’t like you. Please in the name of Almighty God, leave that man. Please!! If you get married to that man and he dies, you and your child(ren) go suffer pass Job.

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Dear men, I just wanted to share this before I fully move on from this topic because I want posterity to see that I made an effort. It’s Saturday, and today is a good day to take that first step toward bonding with your kids. We know it has been a very busy week, and you are tired. If you’re home, please try not to sleep all day. Get some rest, then ask your kids to find a book and read to you. If they fear you, calmly reassure them that they are not in trouble and that reading to you will make you feel better. Seeing that they can help you in a vulnerable moment will make them happy. Ask them to tell you their favorite stories. Do they like to play football? Watch them play and cheer them on. Do they enjoy playing “suwe”? Cheer them on while they play. Do you have any games at home? Play with them. Do they have a favorite movie? Watch it with them. Ask about their week. Find out what they like and don’t like about school. Talk to them about your work. Share what you do for a living and explain it in a way they can understand. Let them be close to you. Use a calm voice with them. Don’t let it be that the only time they hear your voice is when they do something wrong. As their father, be their confidant and comforter, not just their punisher. When their mother reports them to you, tell her to handle the situation. Don’t discipline them over everything. Sometimes, you just need to talk to them. Praise and boost their confidence when they do something right. When they make mistakes, encourage them to learn from them. Children will always be children; they will make mistakes. It is our responsibility to guide them. Make them comfortable in the house you built for them. Don’t let them walk on eggshells around you. Eat with them. Relax with them. If you are not home with them, today is a good day to call and check on them. Don’t tell their mom to say hi to them, ask her to give them the phone so you can speak to them directly. If they fear you enough not to want to talk, ask their mom to put the phone on speaker. Don’t you think they would love to hear your voice? Don’t you think it’s important for them to know that you are okay? Don’t you think they miss their dad? Hearing your voice could make their day. Call them and ask what they ate. If their mom calls you to report them, tell her you trust her to handle it. She can discipline them too. When you get home, talk to them about it and give them tips on how to avoid making the same mistakes. You can speak to them for just a minute, and it will always be worth it. Tell them you miss them and that you can’t wait to see them. Showing that you care will give them comfort.

Dear men, I just wanted to share this before I fully move on from this topic because I want posterity to see that I made an effort. It’s Saturday, and today is a good day to take that first step toward bonding with your kids. We know it has been a very busy week, and you are tired. If you’re home, please try not to sleep all day. Get some rest, then ask your kids to find a book and read to you. If they fear you, calmly reassure them that they are not in trouble and that reading to you will make you feel better. Seeing that they can help you in a vulnerable moment will make them happy. Ask them to tell you their favorite stories. Do they like to play football? Watch them play and cheer them on. Do they enjoy playing “suwe”? Cheer them on while they play. Do you have any games at home? Play with them. Do they have a favorite movie? Watch it with them. Ask about their week. Find out what they like and don’t like about school. Talk to them about your work. Share what you do for a living and explain it in a way they can understand. Let them be close to you. Use a calm voice with them. Don’t let it be that the only time they hear your voice is when they do something wrong. As their father, be their confidant and comforter, not just their punisher. When their mother reports them to you, tell her to handle the situation. Don’t discipline them over everything. Sometimes, you just need to talk to them. Praise and boost their confidence when they do something right. When they make mistakes, encourage them to learn from them. Children will always be children; they will make mistakes. It is our responsibility to guide them. Make them comfortable in the house you built for them. Don’t let them walk on eggshells around you. Eat with them. Relax with them. If you are not home with them, today is a good day to call and check on them. Don’t tell their mom to say hi to them, ask her to give them the phone so you can speak to them directly. If they fear you enough not to want to talk, ask their mom to put the phone on speaker. Don’t you think they would love to hear your voice? Don’t you think it’s important for them to know that you are okay? Don’t you think they miss their dad? Hearing your voice could make their day. Call them and ask what they ate. If their mom calls you to report them, tell her you trust her to handle it. She can discipline them too. When you get home, talk to them about it and give them tips on how to avoid making the same mistakes. You can speak to them for just a minute, and it will always be worth it. Tell them you miss them and that you can’t wait to see them. Showing that you care will give them comfort.

"I WILL NOT ALLOW IT" A WOMAN CAN DECIDE TO HAVE A C/SECTION ON HER OWN. WE NEED TO BE CAREFUL WHAT WE TWEET. OUR TWEETS ARE FOOTPRINTS. PLS, DELETE THIS KIND OF REASONING IF YOU LEAVE THE SHORES OF NIGERIA. Her Body Is Not a Democracy: On Birth, Power, and the Quiet Violence of “I Will Not Allow It” Let me begin, and let me be clear, and let me not soften this for comfort, because sometimes truth must arrive without cushions. Your position is not simply unpopular; it is unmoored from law, from ethics, and from the careful, human-centred practice of modern medicine. You say, “I will not allow it.” And I hear, beneath it, the old echo of ownership dressed up as concern. But pregnancy, and birth, and the long trembling road between them, do not belong to the chorus of opinions that surround a woman. They belong to her. In the United States, United Kingdom, and in the quiet seriousness of clinical rooms, the pregnant woman is the patient. Not the husband, not the family, not tradition. And so consent, real consent, not negotiated permission, rests with her alone. It is she who says yes, and she who says no. And medicine, at its ethical core, listens. You speak of caesarean section as though it were an indulgence, and perhaps even a rebellion. But this, too, is a misunderstanding, one that lingers because it is easier to judge than to understand. Guidelines recognise that a woman may request a caesarean section, even without a textbook medical indication. And when she does, we do not dismiss her, we ask why. Because fear is not weakness; it is data. Because trauma is not inconvenience; it is history living in the body. Because anxiety is not something to wave away; it is something to hold, and examine, and sometimes to honour. And if, after conversation and care and the slow unravelling of concern, she still chooses a caesarean, then that choice stands. Quietly. Firmly. Legally. And then there is this idea. this stubborn, seductive idea, that there is a right way for a woman to give birth. As though birth were a moral test, and not a medical event. As though pain conferred virtue, and surgery suggested failure. But the body is not a stage for ideology. It is a place of risk, and resilience, and sometimes unpredictability. Vaginal birth is often safe, yes. And caesarean section is also safe, and valid, and sometimes the path a woman walks not because she is weak, but because she has chosen, with full knowledge, a different kind of strength. And so we return, as we must, to partnership. Because love, and marriage, and parenthood, they are not theatres for control. They are spaces for support. You are allowed your opinion, yes. But you are not allowed dominion over her body. Not in law, not in ethics, not in the quiet dignity that should define care. If you truly wish to stand as a partner, then stand beside her. Not as a gatekeeper, and not as a final authority, but as someone who understands that sometimes the deepest act of love is to let go of power, and to trust her with what has always been hers.

I don't care how you people see this but just so you know, My wife cannot on her own decide to deliver by Caesarean section. I have heard that some women no longer want to deliver vaginally and are opting for CS even when a vaginal birth is perfectly safe. That is unacceptable to me. Unless the doctor advises or recommends a CS due to medical reasons, she must deliver vaginally the way a woman should. Fear of pushing is not an excuse. I will not allow any woman to carry my child and then choose CS simply because she is afraid of labour pain. Fear of pushing is not a medical condition. Above all, love God.