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One day I’m going to write a story!

@eedris_akinlabi I have to not let emotional cloud my judgement in the meeting today, cause what???

Corporate life will teach you that knowing the job is only half the battle. The real skill is staying calm in meetings, reading the room, managing ego, receiving vague feedback, and not replying emails with your real thoughts.

whatever you are doing that is preventing you from begging people for money, may God multiply it

Do you genuinely believe that prayer works?? If yes, repost.

This is the car Toyota Corolla : SMK759HY Last seen : Acme Crescent, Ogba, Lagos This is the only picture I have but the scratch is no longer there

You will always think N2m will solve your problems until you make N2m. You will think traveling abroad will solve your financial problems until you start living abroad. You will struggle from getting student visa to looking for a good job, permanent residency, worrying about mortgages, insurance premiums, taxes and stuff,even though you might be more comfortable than when you where in your home country. When you’re single, you will think marriage will remove loneliness until you get married. The future and goals are deceptive. They appear as final solutions to life’s struggles. But they’re mere junctions in the long, complex journey we’re into on earth. Life is in phases…. but struggle is constant. No matter the money, passport or location, everyone is battling pains per time. Nothing will take away all struggles. You can only get NEW struggles. Our wish and prayers is that the new struggle should be less brutal than the former, but we must have some discomfort. It’s an existential principle. Orderliness is a fantasy, chaos is the rule of nature.

@AfiaTvOfficial Are these two individual alright???

Williams Uchemba confirms Alex Ekubo was married but refuses to reveal more details, insisting the public should “go with what the family said.” #AlexEkubo #WilliamsUchemba

Omo i go make am ooo Repost if e sure for you too

It’s very important that as you get older you start buying more quality clothes.

And don’t wear them only for special occasions. You are an occasion, you are special, wear them whenever and to wherever you want.

As a girl, not being financially independent is scarier than not getting married.

My boyfriend once lent me ₦500,000, and I promised him I would pay it back in 5 months. That meant every month after my salary dropped, I would send him ₦100,000 until I completed the money. So every month, I kept to my word. First month = paid. Second month = paid. Third month = paid. Fourth month = paid. Now, on the last month when I wanted to complete the payment, he had earlier told me to call him immediately after sending the money. And I did. Immediately I sent the money, I called him like he said. While we were still on the phone, I suddenly received an alert of ₦500,000😭 I was confused and asked him why he sent the money back. And then he said something that melted me completely😭❤️ "Well done my Queen. You see, babe… the money was never the issue. I could never collect that money back from you. I just wanted to see if you were truly a woman of your word. A lot of people make promises, but only a few actually keep them. You did… and that says a lot about you. You can keep the money. What mattered to me was your sincerity… and you’ve already shown me that❤️ And honestly, that’s one of the best qualities a woman can have"❤️ Omo… I replayed those sweet words in my head for two weeks straight😭😍 Sweet words from someone you love can stay in your heart for a very long time❤

I have one piece to share. I hope all these TL conversations do not poison your heart. I hope you're not training your mindspace to start choosing partners from a place of fear, or lowered likelihood to cheat. Ask Israel Juju. These are faulty compasses. Churchgoers cheat. Atheists cheat. Hijab wielders cheat. Virgins cheat. Adelebos cheat. 20s cheat. 30s cheat. 40s cheat. I hope the factors that calibrate your values, are not from Twitter thinkpieces but are strengthened offline. Else, you will end up as a box of ruin. My safest predicators for relationships are: - brackets, - reciprocity. If you're doing well financially, box within potentials like you doing well financially. Don't be a 7fig earning techie & you'll be hunting smallies struggling with 200L carryover in Laspotech. Mental brackets. Intellectual brackets. Financial brackets. Exposure brackets. One of my theories as to why, people (read men) scale way below these brackets is because they're scripting scenarios for control. They're hunting "bendable" women. Chief, she won't be naive forever - but I'll expand on this, some other time. Be big on reciprocity. As you're doing for your partner in the early weeks, if they like you they would be doing as much. Using the filters of brackets and reciprocity, are safer predicators than fear and paranoia.

Gbogbo Oro yi o lo far, when e reach your turn let your husband and his family carry everything. By the time they pa itan for you that your family didn’t do anything your eyes go peel.🤣

UPON GETTING MARRIED, a WOMAN must live better than she lived alone. NEVER WORSE.

The new scam in Lagos now is that someone you’ve never met before will walk up to you and accuse you of sending them a fake transfer. If you don’t stand your ground, they will collect all your valuables and leave you stranded. Don’t fall for it!

Thank you Jesus for 34. 🎉 EVERYTHING HALLELUJAH ✨ Happy birthday to me! 🎁🎉🎂🎈

Mrs. A❤️

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