Coach Amber

@hinchliffe1569 I hear you & am here for you.

I’m 40+ years past the abuse and I still can’t trust a single soul. Not my partner. Not my friends. Not even the ones who’ve never hurt me. C-PTSD doesn’t fade. It rewires you. Your nervous system stays locked in “they will destroy me” mode because the people who were supposed to protect you were the ones who broke you first. Slowly. Deliberately. Repeatedly. Every kind word gets scanned for the trap. Every hug gets measured for the knife. You smile, you laugh, you function — but inside you’re running the same threat assessment you ran as a kid. Decades later and your brain still treats “closeness” like incoming fire. That’s not paranoia. That’s survival programming. Trust wasn’t just damaged — it was executed in front of you. And the world keeps acting like you should just “let it go” and date, network, open up. Nah. Some of us learned too young that love is the perfect cover story for cruelty. If you’re out there carrying this same scar — the one that makes you push away the safest people on earth — you’re not weak, broken, or “too damaged.” You’re a goddamn war veteran walking around in civilian clothes. And the fact you’re still here? Still trying? Still refusing to let the abusers win by turning you into them? That’s the most hardcore shit I’ve ever seen. Drop a ❤️ if this is you. I see you. I’m right there with you. #CPTSD #AbuseSurvivor #TrustIssues #ComplexTrauma

@jazzyjjo89 Thinking of you and wishing for all toxicity within us and surrounding us to leave.

Thank you everyone for your kind messages, I appreciate each and every one, there are too many to thank individually 🥰💙 This place can be toxic but when it’s good, it’s bloody good 🙏🥰💙

@PintSizedFarmer She is so adorable 😍

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@hinchliffe1569 However, my then QC, now a Judge, stated all were highest qualified with specific expertise on the allegations made against me. LA also refused transcripts were used with recordings attached but barrister stated it was essential irrefutable evidence.

@hinchliffe1569 They kicked off when I refused to see their ‘experts’ but instead compiled a list of 6 of each type required, all registered & a psychiatrist on list was ex BPS President. All had never done a Richmond case. Presented to Judge who tried to wasting time as excuse.

🚨 EXPOSED: Richmond Council KNEW about a convicted child abuser running their own boys’ home in 1983… and did NOTHING to protect the kids who came AFTER. This is institutional betrayal on steroids. #GraftonClose #RichmondCouncil In 1983, John Stingemore — officer-in-charge (deputy head/manager) at Grafton Close Children’s Home in Hanworth (run by London Borough of Richmond upon Thames) — was arrested and pleaded guilty at Kingston Crown Court to indecently assaulting a 14-year-old boy in his care. He also admitted forgery & fraud to get more jobs with vulnerable boys. Sentence? Just 2 years probation. No jail. The council’s own Director of Social Services confirmed under oath at the 1990 Carole Kasir inquest that they KNEW about the conviction. Public record. No denial. Yet Grafton Close stayed open. More vulnerable children from Richmond Council were placed there into the mid-80s. Survivors like those placed in 1984 have spoken out about continued grooming and abuse. No full investigation, no mass staff vetting overhaul, no immediate safeguards rolled out that we can see from the public evidence. Records? Conveniently “destroyed under retention policies.” They knew in 1983. They knew in 1990. Children kept walking through that door. This wasn’t one bad apple. This was a system that failed to hit the emergency stop button when kids’ lives were on the line. @LBRUT @Gareth_Roberts_ @juliacambridge1 @PennyFrost7 — the current leadership and Children’s Services Committee: your borough, your history, your duty. When do survivors get full transparency and accountability? @sarahjolney1 @munirawilson — local MPs, this is your patch. Constituents are watching. Demand the files, the answers, the action. No more “lessons learned” PR. The kids who entered that home post-conviction deserved better. The truth is out. Time for real justice. RT if you believe councils must be held accountable for historic failures that put children at risk. Share. Tag others. Survivors’ voices matter. #ChildProtectionFail #HistoricCSA #RichmondUponThames #JusticeForSurvivors #NoMoreCoverUps

@hinchliffe1569 I contacted Paul after I was exonerated asking an investigation was put in as Zac G used the word ‘witch hunt’ to the Judge when the LA took me to back court to get a gagging order. SS then came to my home stating if I complained again they would find a way to reopen the case.

Hi Amber No I'm afraid not both left this council around a year prior to my full disclosure to them. I believe Rob is in Southampton council now as Director of Children's services and Paul is no longer a councillor. Interesting,Rob is in Southampton though as the current interim Chief exec for Richmond came from Southampton.

@lisabarry906 @LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood Practically anyone can attend now & all faiths/ideologies are taught including woke ideology doctrination.

@lisabarry906 @LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood I was brought up in Northern Ireland in the 70’s/80’s where there was a hymn every morning, prayer before lunch, school service at a Church etc. Here when I applied for a faith school for my child in 2005 church attendance was compulsory. I home educated instead.

Good Friday is a moment to pause and consider the values of compassion, sacrifice and hope. Wishing Christians in Birmingham and across the UK a peaceful and reflective day.

PAKISTANI UNTOUCHABLES: Inside Britain's Biraderi Clans _________ The Sunday Times has just ran a story about three MPs attending a property roadshow for a Dubai scheme run by two men the NCA had already stripped of £190 million and banned from British soil. It missed the convicted child sex offender in the room. It missed the Deputy Lord Mayor of Manchester. It missed the biraderi network that made the whole thing possible. This piece fills in what the Sunday Times left out and explains why it matters far beyond a property roadshow. redwallandtherabble.co.uk/pakistani-unto… The rape gang cover-ups in Rotherham, Manchester and Birmingham belong inside this story. So does the postal vote harvesting that is a growing cancer across our towns and cities. Read it. Share it. The more people who understand how this network operates, the harder it becomes to ignore. Raja 🙏 🔴 As you know, I share all my work for free. Please, if you can afford to do so, subscribe to my newsletter from just 75p a week or £30 for the full year. Without your support, this work becomes impossible to sustain. 👉 redwallandtherabble.co.uk _________ We are not where we are by accident. We will not get where we need to be if we leave it to those that were part of the cover up to deliver justice. Stand with me. I’m Raja Miah. For seven years, I led a small team that exposed how politicians protected the rape gangs. Before that, I spent over a decade trying to stop violent extremists exploiting abandoned communities. This work is free because the truth must circulate. But truth without numbers is easy to crush. The government does not fear facts. It fears scale. The Labour Party fears thousands reading, sharing, and backing the same work because numbers mean witnesses, pressure, and consequences. That’s why this matters. 🔴 Subscribe to the newsletter. It’s free. Every subscriber is a number they can’t erase. Every reader widens the circle they can’t control. Sign Up here 👉 redwallandtherabble.co.uk Numbers with backing become power. A few supporters can be ignored. Thousands cannot. This is how this campaign survive. We're now past 10,000 subscribers. We need 10x this to break through. This is how voices like ours stops being managed and starts being feared. 🔴 Prefer a one-off contribution? 👉 BuyMeACoffee.com/recusantnine 👉 paypal.me/RecusantNine No sponsors. No parties. No institutions to lean on. Just numbers. Growing fast enough that shutting this down becomes impossible. We don’t need everyone. We need enough. We need you. Raja Miah MBE

@nuriyahk @Ayaan is key

Prevent & gov't institutions must consult former Muslims not just British Muslims for policies around Islam. Where's the "diversity" in only consulting one group? Many of us know the actual threat that Muslims will naturally downplay.

The elites & enablers including police, social workers, local/national government etc at intuitions are all interconnected. The same police were probably paid off to cover @J4FHS too. @KeatonStone

@lisabarry906 @LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood Has it changed during your time there?

@LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood I’m one 😂

@JaneDeRoach2 @LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood Jane, how has Birmingham changed for you over the time you've been living there? Do you feel safe? I'd like to hear from local non Muslims/Hindu/Sikh.

@LadyVictoriaD @ShabanaMahmood Good news, I'm a Christian and so is my daughter. There's 2 😂

@RealWokeRight @grok @Huff4Congress @leicspolice @ABridgen @ukhomeoffice Terrifying truth

What do you think will happen to the ethnic English if current immigration trends continue, including the high probability they will accelerate as immigrants vote for more immigrants Meaning, as a group and individuals- political power, economic prospects, fertility, long term survival

I’ve just learned that @leicspolice have investigated @ABridgen for sharing the Amelia video below. I’d like to inform the Leicestershire constabulary that I made the video, the @ukhomeoffice created the character, and that they’re great bloody Orwellian wankers who can sod right off. cc @makeukgood @AmeliaOnSolana @AmeliajakSolana @BasilTheGreat @benonwine @RupertLowe10 @RestoreBritain_ @elonmusk @godblesstoto @SmashJT @RoyalFamily

@UncleSteveOG @GBNEWS @CornishCaja Nothing can take this government down as we have a weak king. Only the ballot box or military & our good men turning against this establishment. I told my ex 'family' who were anti 'white' they should never have moved here as they refused to assimilate. I escaped.

@GBNEWS @CornishCaja If this was a labour politician, it could well bring down the government.

Grooming gang victim 'smuggled into Parliament by abusers and presented to senior politician for sex’ gbnews.com/news/grooming-…

@CatharineHoey @ArchRose90 @iancharris It will probably be anti-muslim for the met to be calledthe slang word 'pig'- although I don't use is because pigs are highly intelligent.

@ArchRose90 @iancharris Two colour policing ?

Look at how differently the police handled young football fans yesterday in comparison to the young looters in Clapham. They remembered how to use the batons again!