Bilab1994🔴⚪
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Bilab1994🔴⚪
@BILAB1994
I'm Muslim// Trader/Blockchain enthusiast//Ophthalmic Nurse//Gunner
somewhere on earth Katılım Temmuz 2015
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This is one of the most common silent struggles destroying young people today, be it Muslims or non-Muslims.
If I am to answer your question straight away. Yes. Allah will forgive you. The fact that you feel this shame and guilt, and you are asking this question means your heart is still very much alive.
The biggest trick Shaytan plays on you happens the moment you close the tab. He drops a heavy blanket of shame on you. He wants you to feel so dirty and so hypocritical for breaking your promise to Allah that you stop asking for forgiveness.
He wants you to think your repentance is fake. Do not buy that lie. If you fall a thousand times, you crawl back a thousand and one times. Allah's mercy does not have a limit. Shaytan just wants to put a limit in your head.
Having said that, we need to talk about the real problem here. I know you want a solution. But you know what? Relying on pure willpower will never work. I know you know this too. Therefore, we have to look at why you keep going back.
Based on what I have read, porn is rarely about physical desire. It is a painkiller. It is a coping mechanism. When you are stressed, feeling deeply lonely, or overwhelmed by a reality you do not want to face, your brain looks for a quick hit of dopamine to numb the pain. And since we are a free hyper-sexualized world, you find it very easy to use your screen as an escape hatch.
However, when the high wears off, the reality you ran away from is still waiting for you. Now it is compounded by spiritual guilt. That guilt creates more stress. That stress triggers the urge to escape again. It is a vicious loop. I know you’ve been in this vicious cycle several times, hence your question…
If I am prescribe a permanent and sustainable cure for you, the best way is to read and learn the root psychology of sins yourself. Forget all those tips you see online. The best way is to immerse yourself in knowledge. This is because if you know it, it will help you prevent it, break it if you are in it, and teach you the way out.
I am prescribing a book that has rescued millions of people from this very pit. You need to read "The Disease and the Cure" (Al-Daa' wa al-Dawaa') by Imam Ibn al-Qayyim.
A man came to Ibn al-Qayyim centuries ago. He was completely broken. He asked if there was any hope for a sin that had completely hijacked his life. The Imam wrote this entire book as a direct response to that one man. It is a profound masterclass in human psychology.
Ibn al-Qayyim breaks down the anatomy of a sin. He shows you how a passing thought turns into a whisper. He shows how that whisper becomes a burning urge, and how that urge hardens into a chain around your neck. He teaches you how to intercept the thought at the root before it gains power over your limbs. He also teaches you how to seek divine intervention and how to repair your broken relationship with your lord. These are things you need to know.
Get the English translation. Read it slowly. You have to start addressing the real stress and voids in your life instead of running away from them. Put strict physical blocks on your devices so your moments of weakness require too much effort to act upon.
Ultimately, start making concrete plans for marriage. You need it. Work hard to accelerate your financial freedom and get a wife.
Keep fighting. Those who fight win.
May God make it easy for you and many others who are currently struggling with …

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@YusufAsunmogejo You think ambiguity can hide open truth , you don't know that the non Muslim child can as well become the financial strength of the family even the community of Muslims, unah think say any thing special about allah or Muslims? If the oil in southern Nig was in the north !!
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I think the Imam could have explained better assuming this was how he truly said it.
Yes, a non-Muslim child cannot inherit from the standard Islamic estate distribution. However, saying they are not considered your family is a dangerous misrepresentation of Islam. The Imam used the wrong words.
In our jurisprudence, difference in religion is a barrier to inheritance (Mawani' al-Irth), but it is never a barrier to blood ties (Silat al-Rahim). The Imam claiming a non-Muslim child is no longer your family contradicts the Quran and the Sunnah.
In Surah Luqman, Allah commands a Muslim regarding their polytheist parents:
وَصَاحِبْهُمَا فِي الدُّنْيَا مَعْرُوفًا
"And accompany them in this world with appropriate kindness."
Imam Al-Qurtubi explained that a difference in religion does not invalidate family obligations.
In fact, when we look at the precise wording in Sahih Al-Bukhari, Asma bint Abi Bakr narrated:
قَدِمَتْ عَلَيَّ أُمِّي وَهِيَ مُشْرِكَةٌ ... فَقُلْتُ: إِنَّ أُمِّي قَدِمَتْ وَهِيَ رَاغِبَةٌ، أَفَأَصِلُ أُمِّي؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، صِلِي أُمَّكِ
She asked the Prophet if she should keep ties with her pagan mother who came visiting. The Prophet (peace be upon him) replied: "Yes, keep ties with your mother." He deliberately used the word "Ummaki" confirming her permanent biological right and commanded her to maintain the bond.
Imam An-Nawawi, in his Sharh of Sahih Muslim, stated that it is an Islamic obligation to maintain ties, show kindness, and even spend on non-Muslim relatives if they are in need. The biological rights of the womb remain intact in this world.
Now, let’s address the elephant in the room. Can a non-Muslim child inherit a Muslim parent? The answer is NO. This is not even open to debate.
The legal anchor is the universally accepted Hadith in Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim:
لا يَرِثُ الْمُسْلِمُ الْكَافِرَ وَلا الْكَافِرُ الْمُسْلِمَ
"A Muslim does not inherit from a disbeliever..."
Imam Ibn Al-Mundhir in his book Al-Ijma documented the consensus here. The scholars of the Ummah agree that a non-Muslim does not inherit from the obligatory shares (Al-Fara'id). The financial succession of the Islamic estate is strictly for those who hold the faith.
This is because inheritance is built on the concept of Muwalah (spiritual and legal alliance). The flow of obligatory wealth follows the flow of spiritual allegiance.
However, Islam is a religion of profound mercy, and this is the major nuance the Imam failed to mention. While the non-Muslim child is blocked from the fixed obligatory shares (Al-Fara'id), the parent is fully permitted to leave them wealth through a Will (Al-Wasiyyah).
A Muslim can will up to one-third of their total estate to anyone outside the legal heirs, including a non-Muslim child. Imam Ibn Qudamah in his book Al-Mughni confirmed there is scholarly consensus that a bequest to a non-Muslim relative is perfectly valid. If Islam did not consider them family, the Shariah would not provide a dedicated legal avenue to ensure they are financially cared for after your death.
And if you want a historical precedent to bulletproof this, Imam Al-Bayhaqi recorded in Al-Sunan Al-Kubra that Safiyyah bint Huyayy, the Mother of the Believers, made a Wasiyyah giving one-third of her estate to her Jewish brother.
If the wife of the Prophet considered her Jewish brother family enough to leave him a third of her wealth through a valid Islamic legal channel, then it shows that while the non-Muslim child cannot inherit, she can still benefit through a Will.
Allah knows best.
Abeni Okin🦚❤️@Jemeelahh_
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@MahirData @YusufAsunmogejo What is vice versa?
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@EAdesawe73935 @MercifulMessage No one is denying the current situation in Nigeria we are only saying that the situation has nothing to do with religion, its just a terror act by terrorist in which the majority of the victims were Muslims then Christians
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@MercifulMessage Muslims are denying the genocide. I'm a Nigerian and this is our reality everyday but you are here comfortably saying it is not true. You should keep quiet
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@ProvokedGoat @MercifulMessage So its only Christians that are being killed?
You know Muslims are being killed far more than Christians in Nigeria but you always deliberately distort the narrative
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@MercifulMessage Literally yesterday...
🇳🇬 Palm Sunday Massacre in Jos: More Than 40 Christians Slain by Jihadis in Angwan Rukuba
March 29, 2026, around 7:50 p.m.:
Without Lies Islam Dies.
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@ramin_parsa @Theus_Patriot @__Injaneb96 This statement alone shows your ignorance regarding the Qur'an interpretation..
I have never seen someone claiming to be an ex_ Muslim with basic knowledge of Qur'an/Hadith and their translation
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@Theus_Patriot @__Injaneb96 lol! He literally called her the daughter of Imram which was the father of Moses and Aron and Mary. Stop foolish yourself
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Why is Alex Birbir at the Crime Scene. What did he tell the youths that shortly after they went on killing Pree, killing innocent commuters while others injured.
Who is giving clearance to carry out this activities in hostile area. Why are we seeing him wielding riffle in his country looking like a real soldier and whenever he returns to Nigeria, he always wear short nickers and claim to be a Christian Missionary. Who exactly is this Guy?
Why are the authorities unmindful of his activities? Just Yesterday, he Threatened President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. His comment and messages are always inciting.
@DHQNigeria
@HQNigerianArmy
@OfficialDSSNG


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This is how hundreds of Muslims including women and children were dumped and stoned alive inside a well by d so called Christian terrorists in Plateau State. Then they rush to the media to play the victim card to gather online sympathy.
Dear Nigerians, these people aren't Christians; they're using Christianity to cover up their monstrous acts, they are C4nnibals
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Dear @PoliceNG
Police officers are in full uniform watching & protecting a man who is insulting Islam & entire Nigerian Muslims. Such hateful speeches are dangerous to the peaceful coexistence of our dear nation. Nigeria is already overstretched with insecurity & cannot afford a full blown religious crisis instigated by the foreign agent in this video.
Nigerian Muslims demand the immediate STOP & repatriation of this man back to his country for the sake of our peaceful coexistence.
God bless our dear nation 🇳🇬
Zagazola@ZagazOlaMakama
The American under cover guy has returned to the Pleateau with his divisive campaign of disharmony. Somedays he will be seeing with Military kits and riffle and another day he will be seeing on shut nickers and pretending to be a missionary who preaches the word of God. @DHQNigeria @HQNigerianArmy @OfficialDSSNG
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Kada kayi missing ɗin wannan bidiyon, zai canza maka tunani sosai.
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Duk wani students ɗin Trustchain Academy ya tabbatar da hakan.
Allah ya saka da Alheri, CEO Mai Capacity, muna godiya da irin gudunmawar da ake bayarwa.
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