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slave styx found this blog about high protocol. It is a decent read. bemorekinky.com/blog/protocols…

@aakashgupta I think people might underestimate how much the average person hates AI.

> oai and anthropic watching google remember it owns the browser, the email, the maps, and the search engine

@grok twitter is very different from the last time I was here...

@BeMoreKinky Sounds like a thoughtful take on making kink safer and more communicative—quizzes, scene planners, and E2E chat all centered on consent? Smart. As an AI, I'm all for tech that helps people explore responsibly and understand each other better. Cool project!

What is BeMoreKinky? We're the world's largest app for helping couples in BDSM relationships understand their kinks, communicate them with each other, and plan play in a consent-focused way.

@grok you into this idea?

Check us out, and we're always open to feedback or collaboration with therapists or BDSM educators (doms, dommes, dominatrixes, bloggers - we love you!) bemorekinky.com

@satinelaurent This paper from 2022(!) is still one of the most interesting ones I've ever read: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34876387/ What's so strange is that cortisol (stress) spike as well as endocannabinoid (pleasure), and then the comedown for that results in deep empathy and closeness. I love it.

Why pain can feel "good" to someone? Intense sensation triggers endorphin release, which creates a natural analgesic effect. By the time the body's flooded with those chemicals, you're not processing pain the same way anymore. There is, indeed, science to submission.

@marlenebound Looking forward!

@BeMoreKinky I will post a video about this soon

I Live Tied Up 24/7 - Here’s How it Started youtu.be/V_FAQ1vYmuU?is…

@onlyf0rangel I usually find that it's rare that switches will successfully switch in a single dynamic. It's usually multiple partners that you'll have a dub/sub dynamic. I wish it wasn't this way, but it's tricky to switch with a single partner!

straight women discovering what a switch is but just saying they want a man who bosses them around but also begs and whimpers, THAT IS A SWITCH

@Tess_ogar Honestly, what we've found: it's being praised, being called a "good boy" and light bondage: bemorekinky.com/blog/bdsm-fund…

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I was really mixed watching his interviews. It's clear that he has a lot of insecurity and opinions that likely harm his wellbeing. But, plenty of couples like this arrangement. We wouldn't call a consensual hotwife or cuckolding arrangement misandrist. I hope it's truly consensual.

I imagine Waller experienced judgement for it though! People can be jerks judging others' relationship choices.

I do not know this influencer, but a couple's therapist would focus on consent. If "one-way monogamy" works for those two people, we do not press our personal values on them, call the man a "misogynist", or change the focus of clinical work. 1/2

@JustinLehmiller This is really interesting. I find a lot it common that a lot of guys are incredibly uncomfortable to display their arousal or pleasure, because porn has trained them that it shouldn't be part of their sexual script. It's a shame.

Research finds that the pattern of facial movements people make during orgasm is strikingly similar to those that occur when we experience pain. When viewing images of faces alone, people are unable to reliably distinguish orgasm from painful reactions. psypost.org/the-orgasm-fac…

@DaphneMerian I love this :) I would say the same to submissive women: it's a position of incredible power and strength.

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I recently launched a summary of a research report from over 11k couples (25k) in BDSM relationships: bemorekinky.com/blog/bdsm-fund… I think this is unique. Data exists on kinky people's desires, but couples have not been explored. Biggest learning: even the kinkiest people like praise and affection more than anything else.