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Literally me talking to him 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

“women are constantly expected to study men's trauma, childhood wounds, habits, and behavior patterns just to survive relationships, while many men aren't doing the same labor to understand women's humanity, emotional needs, safety, or experiences” read this today and that’s the tea.

It is not bad to change prayers from “if he’s not for me remove him from my life” to “Lord, I want him, but not just as he is. If he is meant for me, shape him and shape me so we meet each other in the way You designed. Align his heart with Yours, and mine as well.”

Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

Not many people know this, but if you’re someone who needs alone time, the love of your life will be attached to your hip.

My husband insisted I go to bed last night and my first thought was "don't you tell me what to do" and then I took a pause and was like "Okay why?" and he was like "Because you're on your period and you bleed a lot and your iron gets very low which means you need a lot more sleep." So I went to bed, because damn he sure told me.

16:9 your iphone camera and drop the exposure to -0.7

To be worth the inconvenience.

i will make sure of it.

I've been married 5 years. Still married because we treat these like law: • Bed is for sleep and sex only • No phones in bedroom • Kids asleep? We talk. 5 mins or 3 hours. Doesn't matter. We talk • Pray together before sleep • We eat every meal together • No screens when eating • And we never, and I mean NEVER criticize each other in public Your marriage is your son's blueprint, and your daughter's standard.

It took me until my second pregnancy to realize that nausea and vomiting is a result of a vitamin b6 deficiency. But women are sold the narrative that it's just normal and something to go through.

and for the lady, perhaps a calm & regulated nervous system?

I saw a TikTok video where a girl talks about if you're creative and you're not actively creating and using that energy, it will instead come out in self-destructive ways; overthinking, anxiety, etc..and it has me gagged

even after 8.5 years together my bf and i have never left the honeymoon phase. we are always kissing touching hugging cuddling laughing. even on call. we never get used to each other, always flirt, surprise and love a lot i wish I die with him

Women deserve this kind of treatment. I thought this was cute & anyone who thinks otherwise is fucking miserable, jealous, envious. Get with the whimsy or gtfo

Choose someone you can talk to about a lot of things, like economics, lifestyle, health, sports, music, movies, psychology, and who's WILLING to learn new things even if they don't have to be an expert. Talking is an art; if it's just gossiping about celebrity drama on social media, better to skip it.

I think about this ALL THE TIME. Men talk about being protectors - but in nature, it’s actually the women/females that do the protecting…

If your wife can’t bring up something difficult without you getting defensive, you’re showing her silence is safer than honesty. And that’s how you become roommates.

Think not of the books you’ve bought as a “to be read” pile. Instead, think of your bookcase as a wine cellar. You collect books to be read at the right time, the right place, and the right mood. — Luc van Donkersgoed

Marry someone you’re physically attracted to because they will annoy you at some point, and when they do, at least you will be looking at someone who is fine. Someone who is not fine to you will just make you angrier.