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@Bigswinger34
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Vancouver, British Columbia Katılım Ocak 2026
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@blackkefka If you’re not married to an attractive woman by the time you are in your mid 30s and you’re only consistent options are unstable hot chicks or fat single mothers it’s very likely that you are not attractive
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“He made it to his mid-30s, earns six figures, stays in great shape, and built a stable life for himself. Let's shame him for not wanting to marry a contentious, overweight single mom to save the community.”
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@lololeereverie @Aella_Girl Women have a lower standard of what they consider beautiful in other women .
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You had many beautiful women and virtually zero attractive men in this. And there are too many variants that make equal judging impossible. Women posing often look like art and can be appreciated outside of a sexual lens, whereas men posing with shaved balls in squalid conditions is inherently unappealing and honestly, really gross to many women because it screams of exhibitionism / sex addiction. Women instinctually identify that as a red flag and rate low.
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I asked people to rate, on a 1-10 scale, the attractiveness of various naked people.
Women got much higher scores than men did. The 6/10 bin was full of normal-cute ladies and absolute ripped godlike chads. Seems unfair, but my hypothesis is:
This is not a dating looksmatch, this is a casual sex looksmatch. The raw # distribution shows roughly equivalent likelihood of casual sex occurring before one party would turn it down.
I'm gonna test this hypothesis and give writeups (complete with images and an interactive explorer) on my substack aella.substack.com, which you should subscribe to so you get the email when I send it out!
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@theyondan I say it to all the jiu jitsu guys at my gym and I will not be doing any such thing
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You don't learn anything from JJ?
Opinion of someone with no clue what they are talking about. Said with their full chest too.
The Swing@Bigswinger34
@hzrdperryghost Man said martial arts and jiu jitsu . No one learns anything of note from jiu jitsu . There is no risk and extreme difficulty that goes into it in comparison to things like boxing , Muay Thai , wrestling and judo
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@Bigswinger34 My 4th Dan certificate
Me training Muay Thai
Me teaching Krabi Krabong
Me demoing JJ for the air force martial arts team with my instructor.
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@Bigswinger34 As a 4th degree blackbelt in taijutsu, a 1st degree blackbelt in classical Jujitsu, also having trained and fought Muay Thai, trained Karate, TKD, Sambo, Muay Boran, dabbled in Judo, Escrima, Aikijutsu, Bujinkan.. you are talking bollocks.
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That was the original argument I was making . Jiu jitsu is an inferior tool for masculine developement in young boys in comparison to wrestling (produces greater changes to their androgens and toughness ) , boxing and kickboxing . Jiu jitsu lacks any of that that’s why they get all defensive when people critique how dorky it is
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@Bigswinger34 You just changed your argument.
It sounds like you think all JJ is no-gi BJJ.
Of course wrestling in a unitard looks hyper masculine.
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@jbaby4788 @Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost Exactly that’s more so due to popularity and official pipelines like you said not the sport itself the sport it self is a broader grappling rule base so it can’t possibly be less elite and that’s coming from someone who wrestled their entire life
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Martial arts are to a guy, what ballet is to a girl in that there’s a certain level that develops immensely good qualities, however if allowed to progress too much creates near irredeemably bad traits. You want your boys to learn grit and how to fight, and you want your daughters to learn grace and strength. But you also don’t want your son to become a jujitsu weeb or your daughter to develop a horrific eating disorder. One of the many double-edged swords of parenting.
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@kodeybryant @hzrdperryghost I respect jiu jitsu as an art but I dislike the people who get into it
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost You’re a judoka yet you don’t respect jiujitsu ? How does that work
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@Azmo97383713 @BTC_Alchemist69 @hzrdperryghost This is cope because a well trained boxer will absolutely kill any jiu jitsu guy in a real fight
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@BTC_Alchemist69 @Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost He just hates the fact that “old man” jits exists for some reason by the sound of things.
And guess what? Some of those “old man” BJJ players would absolutely murder younger fitter guys who exclusively box if it came to kill or be killed.
I think he hates that.
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost Also you haven’t met many Jiu Jitsu guys, clumping them in with a stereotype tells me that you’re not actively training at an MMA gym. Literally all of the serious BJJ guys are on gear, I’d say a solid 80% at my gym double up on catch/folk style wrestling as well.
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@coachgregadams No he just hates women outside of using them as human flashlights . He just wants to get his nut off and go
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Dudes who think like this are outing themselves a DUKE SHOOTERS or bad in bed.
ryan 🤿@scubaryan_
Clavicular says he doesn’t think it’s important for a woman to have an org*sm because there isn’t a good “Return on Investment” 💀 “it’s not important… the amount of extra effort that’s required to do that is just not gonna have much ROI…”
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@banghafAUS @hzrdperryghost And with boxing I could just simply knock you out because we know jiu jitsu guys are the most physically frail combat sport athletes . With wrestling I could also just take you down pretty easily
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost Jiu Jitsu definitely has its uses. Your complete disregard for it shows that you’re larping knowledge. I appreciate the fact that if I am put to the ground from a cheap shot, I can rip your knee ligaments apart with a simple move. Coming from someone who fights in Muay Thai, btw.
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@BTC_Alchemist69 @hzrdperryghost Wrestling and judo produce more elite specimen . Tougher more resilient and way more athletic . Jiu jitsu is combat sports for the unathletic and risk averse
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost Jujitsu is a broader rule base then wrestling or judo wtf are you talking about
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost So what's your martial arts background? What are you basing this off of?
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@gundogbilionair @hzrdperryghost I’m not a homosexual why would I do that
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@Bigswinger34 @hzrdperryghost This has to be dumbest take I’ve ever heard. If it works in the UFC….. it’s legit. You’ve obviously never squared off with a high level jujitsu practitioner…. It’s suffocating.
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Steven Universe is the ideal boy according to women that hate men. Ben Tennyson is meant to be relatable to actual boys.
Danny’s Hot (And Not-So-Hot) Takes@DanGuy96
I heard they wanted to make him a “more positive male role model” compared to Ben Tennyson, but I feel that’s aged like milk Ben was flawed, but to this day people still admire his heroism. Even if his goals are noble, I don’t know any young boy who’d want to be like Steven.
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