Birch
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Rotations. Enter monogamous relationships in good faith with good intentions but once good treatment starts to expire and her desire starts to decline, replace. You may have to replace once every 1-2 years.
This won’t work if you have kids sadly. If you have kids ur either gonna have to tolerate it or cheat or find a girl who’s open to you getting play from other women.
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Study shows women’s desire for intimacy declines far more rapidly than men’s within monogamous pairbonding.
Not only is their initial desire usually lower, but it also declines much faster while the husband’s desire can sometimes increase.
I’m sure the same thing applies to non married couples.
The fastest way to kill a woman’s sexual desire for you isn’t being ugly, it’s being in a relationship with her.
In other words: water is wet.
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この「考えすぎるADHD」には「マジレスAI」がお勧めなんだよな。
ADHDの僕も病む時は必要以上の悪い想定を「連想」し続けているケースが多かった。
そこでAIに「一切感情に寄り添わず客観的に正しい事だけを述べ続けてください」と前置きして話すとAIが全て「解決」を考えてくれる。
こうしておくと僕の場合は「でも...」と言ってもAIに「それは考える意味がありません。」とマジレスされて思考を止められていた。合うならお勧め。
ぱやぱやくん@paya_paya_kun
うつ状態が人を苦しめるのは、「悪いことが起きた」からだけではなく、「まだ起きてもいない悪いこと」を、脳が勝手にリアルに体験させるからです。「どうしよう、どうしよう」と同じ言葉が頭の中をぐるぐる回ります。 その状態を防ぐ方法はシンプルです。それは とにかくペンとノートで自分の状況をまとめることです。難しいことは何もありません。頭の中でぐるぐるしている言葉を、そのままノートに書き出すだけです。 悩みを紙に書いたほうがいい理由は「人間の思考は早すぎる」からだそうです。紙に書かずに悩むと「凄まじいスピード」で「全然違う方向」に考えが進み、さらに枝分かれしていくので解決できないようです。悩みは「捕まえて考えないと逃げる」と思って、紙に整理してください。 暗い感情に飲まれそうになったとき、正気を保つためにもとにかく思考をまとめてください。おすすめです。
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your brain will reshape itself around what you consistently pay attention to. the way you talk to yourself, every thought you repeat, every good thing you focus on, every belief, all of it becomes a pattern. and over time those patterns become your reality. “your mind is a magnet. if you think of blessings, you attract blessings. if you think of problems, you attract problems.”
i know most of you think self talk is just “motivation” or fake positivity but it’s deeper than that. your brain cells literally rewire themselves based on repetition. the thoughts you practice the most become the thoughts your mind returns to automatically. that’s why negative thinking feels so natural after years of repetition. and that is also why positive thinking feels uncomfortable at first cause you’re building new pathways literally from scratch.
so just tell yourself good thing long enough, eventually your brain stops resisting it and starts believing it. and once your brain believes something, it begins searching reality for proof of it everywhere. so just keep believing it long enough and it will become your reality
All day Astronomy@forallcurious
SHOCKING🚨: Neuroscience confirms that brains cells are directly influenced by self-talk, the internal dialogue or conscious thoughts
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@becomingreal23 @signulll You can still do this btw. Just put down the phone.
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@signulll Crazy we had a whole life before this like we would just do things and maybe take pics but we would all just enjoy the moment. It hasn’t even been that long but it feels like a lifetime ago.
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If the male goal in life is to pass on their genes as much as possible, and the female goal in life is to ensure they have the strongest fittest babies to ensure their survival.
Then chads are doing what they’re biologically coded to do.
And women are doing what they’re biologically coded to do.
How dare you ask women to go against their biology (by settling for non-Chads) and not ask the men to do the same (by settling with only one woman).
Ask them both to settle or STFU.
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Exactly this. Yes it sucks that some people are assholes who want to use you. But they are, so take steps to protect yourself from being used and manipulated.
Allie ✞@allie__voss
Sorry, but she’s right Sure, there’s a small number of “super dark triad master manipulators” out there and that DOES happen, but there’s a lotttt more cases of poor filtering, boundaries, and judgment Falling for it doesn’t mean he was an evil genius
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@ayojoestar in the right places this works for getting closer to others whether you're neurotypical or neurodivergent
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People are inherently pieces of shit if they are allowed to get away with being pieces of shit. A lot of dating discourse boils down to "pretty privilege" or "looksmaxxing" where people develop opinions about the other gender in reaction to what activities/opinions the conventionally attractive men/women can get away with doing/having. This is an inherent truth of society, looking better = you get away with more. This should not come as a blackpill.
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@plz_rose @jaybo_makes_art @jasmineeazj No but seriously, I understand the source of women's contempt but how is being reactionary like this in any way helpful
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Birch retweetledi
some people are traumatized in the way that makes you really serious and sensitive all the time and some people are traumatized in the way that makes you constantly make fucked up jokes and have really thick skin and these two groups fucking hate each other
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x.com/i/status/20595… poster lives in Nigeria, 2M impressions
💕Mide💕@HaYoMiDe_
The qualities I want in a man, I’m not asking for too much. 🤲
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x.com/i/status/20604… life gets better when you recognize this as the anomaly
That Rabbit Guy@Son_ImSleep
“I cant cheat on my girl man”
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@lizisamused i see so many ragebait posts from women (and I rt them because real recognize real) and so many men fall for them
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It's almost easier for women to ragebait men than vice versa because a lot of men genuinely do not comprehend the concept of a woman's tongue in her cheek
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