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What surprises me most about humankind is that we get bored of our childhood. Rush to grow up along to be children again, that we lose our health to make money 💰 and then lose our money to restore our health, 😢

"if i were you" you'd go insane if you were me

The UK government deported a father, mother, and their 3 children back to Nigeria after they sold all their properties and even borrowed 20 million naira just to relocate to the UK. Tobore sold his house in Otokutu, his land in Opete, his black Lexus 330, his big boutique shop, and also borrowed 20 million naira to relocate himself, his wife, their two children, and his wife’s late senior sister’s daughter who had been living with them to the UK. When they arrived in the UK, both of them started hustling, but it was his wife, Funke, who got a better job first because she was a nurse, while Tobore was only getting normal warehouse jobs occasionally. After one year in the UK, Funke discovered that Tobore was still chatting once in a while with one lady he used to date when they were still in Nigeria. She got angry and went to the UK Home Office to report that she wanted to remove her husband as a dependant from her visa because she no longer wanted to continue the marriage. Mind you, Funke was the main applicant, while Tobore and the children were her dependants. After her complaint, the Home Office sent an email to Tobore informing him that he had only a few weeks to leave the country because his wife had removed him as her dependant. Tobore, being a typical Warri boy, decided that since this was what Funke wanted to do to him, he would scatter everything completely. Tobore then went to the Home Office and told them that one of the three children Funke declared as their child in the documents they used to enter the UK was not their biological child, and they had not legally adopted the child (which is a very serious offense under UK law). The UK Home Office then invited Funke to come with the children for a DNA test. When Funke heard that Tobore had exposed their family secret, she started begging him for forgiveness and asked him to withdraw the complaint so they could settle it at home, but it was already too late because the UK government was already aware. The DNA result truly proved that that particular child was not related by blood to Funke and Tobore, and that was how the UK government bundled the entire family back to Nigeria. As we speak now, the marriage has scattered. Tobore is now in Abuja driving a taxi, while Funke is in Lagos working as a nurse with a salary of 70k in a private hospital, and the children are staying with Funke’s mother in the village.

Those who never grew enough to appreciate your evolution will be blind to your improvements and mistake your progression for regression, because once you surpass the ceiling of their comprehension, they can no longer tell the difference between your ascent and their limitations.

For every genuine person who asks you to convince them of a thing, there are a dozen bad faith cases who are not actually receptive to it. They're just trying to get you to justify it to them, so they can humiliate you with their disapproval. It is egoic positioning. Little more.

i will choose u, even when you make me mad. my love for u won't fade simply because we are angry. i know we will fight, we will be frustrated, we will be human. still, i will go to battle for u. still, i will choose you. i will choose you. and keep choosing you, every single day.

Everyone watching you isn’t rooting for you. Pay attention to who shows love and who just studies you in silence. Not all attention is support. Some eyes follow you without ever pouring into you. Every gaze isn’t aligned with you. Guard your energy and keep building.

To suffer because you were true to your soul is purer but less agonising than to suffer because you betrayed yourself, for when you are true to yourself, no matter how much your choices cost you, you never have to endure the pain of regret. You don't have to live with the "what ifs" and "if I could turn back time" - because you know that no matter how badly it turned out, you did the right thing, and so, given the chance, you would do exactly the same thing all over again, knowing it would lead to the very same suffering. You would consciously choose this suffering, because it is righteous, and so you regret nothing. You willingly pay the price in pain, because that was the price required to do the right thing! In a perverse way, without trying to glorify it, you may even be proud of your suffering, for it has refined you, made you stronger, more beautiful! But when you do the wrong thing, it isn't even the pain of bad luck or a horrific outcome that finishes you off. It is the poison of regret - knowing you could have done better, but actively, consciously and deliberately chose not to. To choose against yourself, whilst falsely convincing yourself it is what's best for yourself, is a verdict against yourself that does not shut up, and cannot be outrun. You look away, and there it is, clawing away at you from the inside like fingernails on a coffin lid, and when you put your fingers in your ears - the scratching just gets louder. You cannot outrun yourself, try as you may in your deferring cowardice. The balance will be redressed, debts will be repaid, and the mirror shall violently reassert itself.

When others will not give to you, you give to them, because in a small but meaningful way, this is to give to yourself - to receive from giving what you are not given - to feed on the generosity of your own heart. Paradox: to overflow from your empty bucket is to fill it.

Resentful people are the most violently weak, which is why they are corrupt, ugly and impure. Purity requires strength. Transmuting pain into kindness takes strength. Acquiring wisdom without becoming cynical takes strength. All these things are tests of the potency of a soul. The weak just act like they’re more uniquely aggrieved than others, and thus have the moral authority to resentfully spew everywhere, when in reality they are the the lowest functioning, spiritually weakest, most immature, indulgent and violently pathetic in ensuring their limitations are everybody else’s burden: “I am superior to you because I hurt more than you! I can’t get over what happened to me, so I must vomit all my cynical bile on to you! I shall assume the worst of you and project all my unresolved resentments on to you! I am a wronged victim! Carry my pain! Affirm me!”

@jon_d_doe Mumu man everywhere, they prefer to cook while their wife prefers to eat. 😂 😂 😂

I even feel ashamed, discussing this topic of cooking by women. Some women really fell off. Or is it some men that fell off? Because I don't understand how a man would be saying that "he prefers to cook while his wife prefers to eat". Uwa bu paw paw mehn. Shit.

I just read a story of an Indian married woman. In 2024, she was caught in infidelity, but her husband and her family made peace and they continued their marriage. In January 2026 the woman disappeared from her matrimonial home. Her husband alerted her family and they reported to the police with a complaint of a missing person. In February 2026, her family turned around to accuse her husband of murder. Claiming that he murdered their daughter and disposed off her body. Police opened a murder case against the man and took him to court. By late February, the judge sent him to prison while awaiting his trial for murder. By March ending, the police were able to track the wife, and found her chilling in her lover's house. Same lover that she was caught cheating with in 2024. Let this be a reminder to men again: A cheating woman that has been caught is a dangerous woman. And if you forgive a woman for what she knows that she shouldn't be forgiven for, she'll punish you for it and still blame you for forgiving her. End.

Healing happens in circles, not lines. You will return to old places with new eyes, not because you failed to move forward, but because your spirit is showing you how much you’ve grown. The lesson may look familiar, but this time, you are not the same person walking through it.

Love and death change all things because love is the death of the ego in service of the soul - so even love is a type of death - the most beautiful death of them all.

My issue is simple: I dislike women who focus solely on the negatives of men and the positives of women, and I dislike men who focus solely on the negatives of women, and the positives of men. I don’t like people who think their sex is uniquely good and the opposite sex is uniquely evil. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be able to share critical truths about the opposite sex. Unflattering wisdom should not be conveniently hand-waved or dismissed as hate, because it’s uncomfortable to hear. Gripes often do contain real kernels of truth. Resentments do not happen without cause, nor occur in a vacuum. But if that is your fixation, if your fixation is always on the negatives of your opposite and you are so utterly and totally blind to their beauty to the extent you don’t even think it exists - that says far more about you than it does about them. The ugliness you see in them, is in you. You have stared too long into the abyss, until the abyss stared back into you: and devoured you.

To bind is to be bound. To possess is to be possessed. There is no binding that is not bidirectional. To conquer someone is to be conquered by them. All the energy you spent learning them, tracking them and cornering them to win them, and now what? You belong to them.

A man must discipline himself, or he will come to ruin by nothing but the weakness of his own will - and what greater shame is there? The psychic muscle must be trained… whenever there is a harder superior option and an easy convenient option, choose harder over and over again.

Being your own father is a strange thing, but a necessity for all men. It is a mode switch. And if you cannot father yourself, how do you expect to father others? When will you stop relying on others to guide you, but instead become that source of guidance? When will the boy take a step back, so the man can take a step forward? When will you self-govern, and become sovereign? You must forge yourself into the authority you keep searching for.

KILODEEEE!!!!!!

Be the one they avoid, because they are hiding from themselves, and your presence reminds them of who they are beneath the performance.

At some point in your life you have to ask yourself what's more important to you: fitting in, or being true to what you know is real. From this point forward, you either erase your own personality and become consumed by the social game, or selectively mask, but keep your soul.