Butterflybaby🦋🦋xx

seeing multiple reports of sexual assault involving Nigerians abroad in one day is disturbing. this isn’t just embarrassing... it ruins lives. if you can’t respect consent, you deserve the consequences. but when it comes from a particular country, what does that say about us?

I don't care how you people see this but just so you know, My wife cannot on her own decide to deliver by Caesarean section. I have heard that some women no longer want to deliver vaginally and are opting for CS even when a vaginal birth is perfectly safe. That is unacceptable to me. Unless the doctor advises or recommends a CS due to medical reasons, she must deliver vaginally the way a woman should. Fear of pushing is not an excuse. I will not allow any woman to carry my child and then choose CS simply because she is afraid of labour pain. Fear of pushing is not a medical condition. Above all, love God.

Nigerian citizen Gift Oladele, 24, has been sentenced to 17 years in prison following a horrific attack in Wrexham, Wales, where he raped a 19-year-old woman as she walked home from a night out on September 7, 2025. At Caernarfon Crown Court today, he received a total sentence of 25 years including an extended licence period of eight years. He was also handed an indefinite Sexual Harm Prevention Order and a lifelong restraining order to protect the victim. The presiding judge described his time giving evidence as “a performance,” citing an extraordinary level of arrogance and entitlement.

A woman can be doing all these with you while still missing her ex or fvcking her boss at work. Infact 90% of the time, women are like this while they are cheating on you which is carefully set up as a smokescreen to distract you from what is actually going on.

This my friend has been dating this girl for almost two years now. My guy was loyal and saving all his income to marry her. He barely talked to any other lady. Guess what? His supposed girlfriend is getting married next week of to someone she met last month on this app. Har yanzu mun kasa gane kansa😭💔

You guys actually make excuses a lot you know. No can convince me that a parent will be too busy to bond with their children. Growing up my dad was the sole financial provider but I have way too many memories of movie nights with him, doing riddles, discussions , family outings to Cosmo or Wing Wah Buffet, Pizza nights, playing the Wii or Just Dance. Even now, he bonds with us so much, he would call us to invite us over for some Wine and Chinese which leads to funny / almost heated family debates. Made time to go shopping with us and get us ice cream after (4 girls so it got hectic) Even if he wasn’t able to attend school plays etc…I just never felt a way about it growing up because the bonding was always solidified. Yet he worked and was even studying at the same time. Can’t deal with excuses man. If your dad wanted to…he would.